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gurls
there are these two gurls that like me but i am going out with one of them but i like like them both and i don't now wat to do signed,confused guy
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Do the pro's and con's of who you like more... dont mess with girl's minds.. thats not very cool girls dont like to be fooled with trust me on that one... so maybe you should just call it a break on you and yours gf's relationship for now-trix
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I think you should break up with the girl you are dating now and tell her you just want to take a break and then that should give you some time to figure out which one you want the most and get along with the most.
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well first of all...who do you like the most. this is very important because even though you like both of them...you cant have both of them. unless their fine with the idea of getting played, but most girls aren't. but seriously; who do you really wanna be with? because if you switched places...you wouldnt like the idea of getting played..now would you? so find out who is best for you and who can you see yourself with a while from now. its not easy because if you like both of them in the same way...then your just going to have to take a chance. and it might be a chance or a decision that you never wanted to take or make.
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be friends with one and date the other or be friends with both
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you need to tell them that you don't think you should go with either one of them cause they both like you and you like both of them. Tell them you don't want to hurt neither one of them you just can't go with one of them. If they are friends then they need to sit and talk. So just go with the girl you have been going with but make sure she's the one you want
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In your case since you like them both and they like you your on the up and up, but in this situation the best thing for you to do is see which one you are more connected with. Which ever makes you feel more comefortable is the best choice,
Cspinoza1
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hello! okay well you know you cant have the both of them first of all. and no matter how either of you feel youve got to figure out whats in your heart and figure out which girl you truely want to be with . i mean its only fair to yourself and especially the girl your already dating. and besidesw, you obviously started dating this girl for a reason ...doesnt that tell you anything?
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you dont have to go out with every girl or be boyfriend and girlfriend i take it ur young its ok to have girls as friends. That way u can enjoy all of their comany take care and lots of love
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ooh, evil guy, stringing them along. I am inclined to hit you over the head with something large, but I will refrain and give you some advice instead. You need to decide which one you like most, and soon. It's really unfair to string them alone, especially if you don't like the one you are dating. Make the decision, and then let the one you are not choosing down GENTLY (this applies especially if you are going to dump the one you are dating. Nicely please, and not in public).
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Okay. Honey, you need to make up your mind, but whatever you do, don't flirt with the one you're not going out with. That's just asking for your girlfriend to get pissed. Either you have to decide which one you like better, or break up with your girlfriend. Sorry to say it, but seriously. If you can't decide which one you like better, it's better to not be in a relationship. Good luck!
-Siren
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If you can't make up your mind about who you like, then you probably arn't mature enough for a relationship. Whatever you do, you can't be going out with one and flirt with the other.
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I think you should focus on the girl that uou are witb right now . She would like it if she knew you are fully devoted to this relationship . If your relationship with the girl that you are currently with doesn't go as you planned , then date this other girl that you like , but right now be faithful . The other girl and the girl you are with can respect that .
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Although it is ultimately your own choice, you SHOULD stay loyal to your current girlfriend. If the other girl knows that you two are going out and she still likes you and flirts with you, that is a bad sign. People who are like that aren't always very loyal and can cause future relationship problems. That is my opinion, but it really is your own choice. Follow your heart, it will know what to do. Either way, definately choose one of them, otherwise things will get complicated and you're going to lose both of them.
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