I am an experienced "mentor" of 4yrs going on 5.
I like to help people with there problems and most importantly i give positive advice. i have been through almost everything so i can most likely relate to what people are going through.
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Location: New York
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Hey sorry to be the one to tell you this but you were giving someone advice for no reason. What I mean is the adivce they asked for wasn't a question it was lyrics from a song. Just thought you would like to know.
Cspinoza1 (link)
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thanx. i just read my advice column and i saw what you were talking about. i knew there was something fimiliar about it. i just wasnt paying attention. i believe you were talking about that song from city high
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hi ive had 8 one night stands most potected and i have decided to change my life around i thought i would get some test done for aids or sexual dieses im only 16 and very scared i just want to no what happens its it taken by blood tests or wot help!!!!! (link)
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if you had 8 partners or even 1 its always best to get tested. because think about it condoms dont protect against every std in the world. and think about the people they've been with before you and all the people that they slept with before him. see? it goes down the line. so your never 100% safe unless all the people you had sex with were tested and all the people they were with was tested. in which im sure they were'nt. so it would be best to go and get tested. so go to the nearest clinic as soon as possible.
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there are these two gurls that like me but i am going out with one of them but i like like them both and i don't now wat to do signed,confused guy (link)
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well first of all...who do you like the most. this is very important because even though you like both of them...you cant have both of them. unless their fine with the idea of getting played, but most girls aren't. but seriously; who do you really wanna be with? because if you switched places...you wouldnt like the idea of getting played..now would you? so find out who is best for you and who can you see yourself with a while from now. its not easy because if you like both of them in the same way...then your just going to have to take a chance. and it might be a chance or a decision that you never wanted to take or make.
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Oh my gosh! I think I am in love...please don't be harsh on me people. I cry about him all the time. I'm just so confused. I liked the guy for about a year, and I'm only 14. This isn't some middle school lust, or infatuation or a crush...this is the real thing. I'm so scared becasue I'm going to high school next year and...oh my gosh...he may not be in the same school because there's TON of different schools in this town. I love him...and I don't know what to do. Please help. I have it bad...and it's breaking my heart. What are ways to ask him out...he doesn't seem like the guy that owuld like little corny things. Please help me...anybody? I'm sorry, I'm just babbling adn I'm probably mispelling some words...but I care deeply for this boy. It's something I just can'r erase from my heart. Please help me...I'm EXTREMLY SHY! Seriously...I have no clue what to do...it's social anxiety disorder...
I don't want to talk to a friend about this...they won't believe me if I say I'm in love (even though they witness the way I talk about him)
Please somebody help...anything to....I don't know...Don't mind me...I only have a month and a half left, and I probably won't ever get the courage to ask him out anyway...GOSH I'M SO STUPID!
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do you and this boy go out? if so then it shouldnt be hard to tell him how you feel. but if not then its not easy. but if you cant resist then you have to find it in you to tell him how you feel. its not going to be easy, but its worth giving it a try. theres a 50 50 chance that he may react in a positive way. but you wont know unless you find the courage to confront him. have someone talk to him to see if he's interested in you or not. then if he is it shouldnt be that hard. but the first thing you have to do is find it in you to overcome your fear of talking to him.
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what would u do if your son was at home. Crying all alone on the bedroom floor because he's hungry and the only way to feed is to sleep with a man for a little bit of money. (link)
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in this case honestly i would try everything i could to get money for my child. the first thing i would do is pray, the second is ask someone to loan me some money, then i would try to find a job...go to the temp agency or something, and after i have tried every possible solution i would do whatever i need to do to provide for my family. but at the same time i wouldnt give up on finding a job.
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See, I am in the seventh grade and I have alot of enemies . Like some people say and talk behind my back . See, I'm not popular and I don't want to be because, there are a bunch of girls and boys talking behind each others backs . See those people joke on me . I know I shouldn't respond, but I do . What are they intimidated by me or is it something wrong with me ? They say that I'm smart but I always want more for myself and I expect others to want whats best for them . I really don't care what the others want , I care about what I want . I am nice to those I don't even like . Why are they this way towards me ? What have I done to the girls and guys at my school? I speak my mind and they try to persecute you for this . Don't you just hate it ? Peace .
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i know what you mean. all my life i've been going through the same thing. most people is just jealous. theres nothing you can really do. people is just envious of what you have or what you do or maybe even how you carry yourself. fuck what people say about you. you cant control what people think about you. people gon' talk regardless. so you just do what you do best. they say keep your friends close but your enemies closer. so for real just pray for them and ask god to have mercy on them. because trust me god gon bless you for that.
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my friend always touches me on the wrong places like my ass or my breasts n i dont know if he does it on purpose or not. he likes to jump on me n when i am laying its like he is trying to have sex with me but i tell him to stop and sometimes i think if i tell the teacher he is going to get mad or something. the thing is he broke up with his girlfriends for me n every1 thinks he likes me but i dont like him that way hes like a realli good friend but i dunno what to do
signed CoNfUsEd GuRl (link)
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ok first of all if you dont want him to touch you..tell his ass to stop. you need to have enough respect for yourself to stand up for your self. if he was a true friend he wouldnt keep doing it. if you let him get away with it..hes going to continue doing what he does because he sees no problem with it. fuck him getting mad, you need to have respect for yourself
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NB: don't read this if you are young/innocent/easily offended.
My boyfriend is 17, I'm 16. We spend large amounts of time indulging in 'heavy petting'. But when I give him a hand job (such a horrible way of putting it) he doesn't come unless he gives a hand as well. And when we were trying to sleep together he couldn't maintain an erection. My fault, his fault,nobodies fault?
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well really its nobodies fault. some boys cant keep an erection for plenty of reasons.
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does it hurt when u have sex? (link)
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for some girls it does. im not going to lie...when i first had sex it hurted like crazy. it felt like my shit was tearing apart. but some people say they dont feel anything or it felt good right away. but dont get me wrong. after a while it does feel good, but in the beginning it may hurt and then again it might not.
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i like this guy and i had a boifriend at the time and i liked him also n i asked out the one guy and he said no bcause of all of these rumers about me and this other guy and me having sex with all of these different guys but i never had sex with anyone and i found out mi boifriend told tons of people that i gave him head and that we have done it alot of times and one of mi guy friendz told me guyz alwayz talk about me in the locker room...a few other guys that barley know me saw me after skool n came up 2 me and they kept talking 2 me and kept saying stuff like o i am feeling horny and stuff and i would try 2 bak away and the other guy pinched mi ass and yelled no pantie line bcause of mi thong and whenever i talk 2 a guy they keep touching mi arm and stuff...........is there something wrong with me? if it matters i am a 6th grader (link)
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listen guys talk. i kinda had the same problem. im not a virgin now but when i was a virgin boys would say to their friends..."oh i did it to her,and it was good" and a whole lot of other stuff. but i never did anything. but now that im older i realized that boys just say those things to make their self look good in front of their friends. there is nothing wrong with you. girls mature faster than boys, and trust me it takes a while for boys to grow up. so my advice to you is that if you didnt break up with your boyfriend yet....you need to. because obviously he he doesnt have any respect for you as a person or as his girl
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I need advice and your opinion.
Hi, I have a bit of a confusing situation, but maybe it's just in my head and so could you help me out? I'm 22 and see, I've been a friend with this guy for the last three years. I met him my freshman year at college and we went on a double date with his roommate and his girlfriend. After that, we saw each other around campus but not much else. He would im me every once in a while though to talk. I noticed last January he had left school and he emailed me that following February or so telling me that he was in Iraq. I freaked of course, worried about him instantly. Since then during the summer we emailed each other off and on and messaged each other but he was the one to initiate most of the conversations while I emailed him most of the time and he was good about replying every time. Then in September he brought up the idea that he was coming home for 15 days of R and R and mentioned he was coming here to get transcipts to transfer colleges when he got back and would i want to get lunch with him? I said yes of course and he came, we had lunch and he cracked me up the entire time. He then went to get his transcipts and I went in with him, and sat for half an hour but after that time he said I didn't have to stay but I said I wanted to hang out with him and didn't mind. While all of this, he was opening doors for me and the gentlemanly things and said thanks for staying with him. We talked for about five minutes before he left and then I gave him a hug, he hugged me back of course and said he would email me. When he got back to Iraq he did email me to tell me he was safe and then we kept emailing each other off and on until Thanksgiving. Well after thanksgiving he couldn't get emails so he mentioned I could write him if I wanted. So I've been writing him since December and we write each other about every other week or so. He started out signing his letters As Always, or something like that but then switched it to love. And he says how great it is to hear from me and writes alot to me. He keeps me updated on when he thinks he is going to come home and mentions getting together this summer once he gets out of Iraq. The last letter I got from him, he told me an official date since all the changes and said he wasn't going to tell his parents though since the dates have changed alot and he just didn't want everyone knowing he was going to be home and how he wanted to be by himself for a while in peace and quiet. I've always considered us more of acquiantances before we started writing and was wondering if you thought he might be interested in me as more than friends? or does it just sound that he now considers me to be a friend, the thing is that I have never had a guy sign love to a letter who wasn't romantically interested in me and I really do care about him and have come to like him as more than a friend, am I just reading hidden signals because he didn't have to invite me to lunch or keep in contact?. Thanks :).
-Mixed but likes
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alright..here's your answer.
although theres a chance that he's just happy to have a friend like you. i think its much more than that. i think that although you two are just friends...he likes you beyond just friendship. but trust me...you are doing the right thing. friends or lovers; it dont matter. you are still there for him through whatever it is thats going on in his life. but trust me just because a guy signs love to a letter..that doesnt exactly mean that he means more than love as a friend. but from what i read....i think he's interested in you. but just make sure you dont push. right now maybe he just needs someone to be there for him, and eventually he may ask you out as his girfriend. just keep standing by his side because patience is everything.
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