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See, I am in the seventh grade and I have alot of enemies . Like some people say and talk behind my back . See, I'm not popular and I don't want to be because, there are a bunch of girls and boys talking behind each others backs . See those people joke on me . I know I shouldn't respond, but I do . What are they intimidated by me or is it something wrong with me ? They say that I'm smart but I always want more for myself and I expect others to want whats best for them . I really don't care what the others want , I care about what I want . I am nice to those I don't even like . Why are they this way towards me ? What have I done to the girls and guys at my school? I speak my mind and they try to persecute you for this . Don't you just hate it ? Peace .
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i know what you mean. all my life i've been going through the same thing. most people is just jealous. theres nothing you can really do. people is just envious of what you have or what you do or maybe even how you carry yourself. fuck what people say about you. you cant control what people think about you. people gon' talk regardless. so you just do what you do best. they say keep your friends close but your enemies closer. so for real just pray for them and ask god to have mercy on them. because trust me god gon bless you for that.
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Bravo, I love your attitude. If more people were like you, the world would be a much better place. Anyways, back to the point. Some people are just like that and there's nothing that anyone can do to change that. There are a lot of guys like that at my school and sometimes they just can't help it. And yes, I hate it too.
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Some people are just snobby. And unfortunately, you go to a middle school filled with those type of people. You shouldn't let them bother you though, all that matters is what YOU think. If they talk about you behind your back, make fun of you, call you names, whatever, then just disregard it. You're better then them since you're not that way back to them. So try to just ignore them because you shouldn't let them bother you at all.
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Well naturally everyone has an enemy. And if you want some advice don't be popular, I'm ashamed to admit this but I will. In middle school and High school I was one of the most popular people. But I Never gave into the whole I'm better than everyone. And its true they suck they talk about everyone and about each other, they are rude and do nothing but make fun of each other. And by getting angry and letting it to you it shows you care about what they thing. Because honestly your feelings can't get hurt if you don't care. So practice letting it role off your back, or just fight fire with fire (something I don't suggest) or just confront them.
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I can definatly relate. I was picked on all through school. The only difference was that I was shy and didn't speak my mind. I guess I was an easy target. My guess is that these kids are just insecure about themselves, and have to pick on someone to build themselves up. They chose you for some reason, probably out of jealousy. I would'nt suggest you saying as much to them, because that will only make them resent you more, and I know you say you don't care, but on some level you do, or you would'nt have asked the question. My advice: Ignore them, and they will tire of their game, and find someone else to pick on, and if they do, you can befriend that person and become allies. The teen years are difficult ones, and what seems so important to you now, won't matter to you at all as you grow up. You just need to rise above their petty jealousies and not let them get to you. Someday, you'll look back on these days and wonder why they mattered to you so much. I read this somewhere and I don't know who said it, but "The best revenge is a life well-lived". I think this is all you need to know. Good luck, and be true to yourself, and stand up for your beliefs. I think you have a good head on your shoulders. Peace ;-)
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