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I just got to this new school and a boy goes there that ive know just about my whole life and we hate each other and we got into a fight and I have a huge bruise and im a girl he likes to pick on me. (link)
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Sounds like someone likes to flirt (the guy) if a guy is mean then most likely he likes you.
i know from personal experience
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My sister, who is almost 20 years old, is with a guy who is totally wrong for her. He never takes her out on dates, or buys her anything, (not meaning that material things are that important but come on...), and the second she gets her paycheck he turns around with his hand out, telling her that he deserves some money for some reason or another. She is in college right now, and I can tell that this guy is ruining her life. She has dropped a lot of classes just because she doesn't have time for them because she has to go help him with his kid (from a previous relationship)or some other chore that she really has nothing to do with. He wont let her hang out with her old friends, because they might make her "disloyal" to him, in his opinion. I keep telling her that she needs to back off and find a better guy who has her interests at heart, but her response is "you haven't been in a relationship like tihs, when you're in love you have to make certain sacrifices" I don't know, maybe it's just my opinion, but when you're in love, you normally don't break up at least twice a week. (4 times so far since the beginning of April...today is the seventh...) Am I overacting or am I right in trying to convince her to ditch the guy? And how do I go about convincing her?
Concerned Sister (link)
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No offense, but he is a loser!! He is a total dictator over her and that is not fair to her. She works hard for her money and that is not fair that she has to give it to him. If he isn't working, then he don't need to have his lazy hand stretched out for some money. Sacrifices aren't giving up college classes or your friends for some guy that you probably won't be with for the rest of your life and then those years are down the drain and you can't take them back because it is too late. You aren't overreacting. I am the oldest our of 5 girls and my lil sis would be worried bout me if I was giving up my spare time for some dude. If she loves him, then she needs to talk to him seriously there are problems in their relationship. may be we can chat sometimes.
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O.K there is this boy that likes me. I don't like him but I feel bad... Like how do I say no without hurting his feelings? I had already told him no but he keeps asking me out... I need help! (link)
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If this boy really likes you then he would respect you and respect your answer. He wouldn't keep on bugging you if he respected you and liked you. Just ask him nicely to stop. Then if he doesn't, get a little mad but don't go crazy on him!!
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My best friend just became really close to this girl named Briana. Briana's really fun to talk to, but I recently found out some bad stuff about her; she cheats on her boyfriends, backstabs all her close friends, and she smokes pot. She told me about the pot thing and even asked if I wanted to join her! I, of course, said no. I don't know how to tell my best friend, because she'll accuse me of lying because "Briana's so nice!" I'm just scared that Briana will get my friend into smoking and stuff. HELP. (link)
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If your best friend is your true best friend she will not get mad and forsake you. She will trust you and believe you if she was real and not a phony. I am not saying she isn't real or that she is a phony, but if she won't believe you and she JUST became close to Briana, then there was something wrong before.
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