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I JUST REALIZED!
Oh my gosh! I think I am in love...please don't be harsh on me people. I cry about him all the time. I'm just so confused. I liked the guy for about a year, and I'm only 14. This isn't some middle school lust, or infatuation or a crush...this is the real thing. I'm so scared becasue I'm going to high school next year and...oh my gosh...he may not be in the same school because there's TON of different schools in this town. I love him...and I don't know what to do. Please help. I have it bad...and it's breaking my heart. What are ways to ask him out...he doesn't seem like the guy that owuld like little corny things. Please help me...anybody? I'm sorry, I'm just babbling adn I'm probably mispelling some words...but I care deeply for this boy. It's something I just can'r erase from my heart. Please help me...I'm EXTREMLY SHY! Seriously...I have no clue what to do...it's social anxiety disorder...
I don't want to talk to a friend about this...they won't believe me if I say I'm in love (even though they witness the way I talk about him)
Please somebody help...anything to....I don't know...Don't mind me...I only have a month and a half left, and I probably won't ever get the courage to ask him out anyway...GOSH I'M SO STUPID!
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do you and this boy go out? if so then it shouldnt be hard to tell him how you feel. but if not then its not easy. but if you cant resist then you have to find it in you to tell him how you feel. its not going to be easy, but its worth giving it a try. theres a 50 50 chance that he may react in a positive way. but you wont know unless you find the courage to confront him. have someone talk to him to see if he's interested in you or not. then if he is it shouldnt be that hard. but the first thing you have to do is find it in you to overcome your fear of talking to him.
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Okay, first of all, you're not stupid. This happens all the time. You may care about this guy a lot, and you can call it whatever you want - Love, lust, infatuation - but don't tell him the way you feel, exactly. If it's one thing guys can't handle, it's the "L" word. Well, most guys, anyway. If you don't wanna lose him, here's my advice: One day, work up your courage, and just go up to him and ask him if you can talk to him for a minute. Once you open your mouth, just SAY it. You seem like the kind of person who, once you start talking, you can't stop or you'll lose your nerve. That's how I am. Some things, (over IM) I have to type as fast as I can, and hit the enter key really fast so I can't back down. I think this might be something you have to just get over with. So just take a deep breath and ask the boy out. Just - whatever you do - don't use the word "love." Good luck, honey! If you need more help, I'm SirenCytherea on AIM. This kind of stuff is my specialty. =)
-Siren
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Well just ask, you people keep letting your fears get in the way and your letting them ruin your life. Did you know over 98% of people within their lives question decisions they have made, and most of the questioning is dealing what if I asked them out? You say your in love, how can you be in love with someone you have never dated? Its like my little brother is in love with Hilary Duff. Plus the man you love will never make you crym, how can you cry over him when you rarely know him. Love is more than heart ache and thoughts. I say you think about what makes him so important to you, and if its still love just ask guys don't mind females that are shy but they don't like when they are overly shy and hindered by it.
Cspinoza1
Just ask what have you got to lose?
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Take your time,you're still in school.You have plenty of time to fall in love with someone. You're going through a phase called "puppy love". You said next year you'll be in high school.By the same time next year you might have found a different person that you're madly in "lust" with.You're 14 give it time,but if you really can't get him out of your minf tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same.Don't be shy,try to tell him about your feelings.If you keep it a secret it will just eat away at you and you will remain with a broken heart remembering your first "LOVE"!
TANYEL
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Dear "In love"
First of all I would just like to say that you are NOT stuupid, feelings of this sort are all part of us girls growing up, it certainly wont be the last time that you have these felings I have to be honest !!! - but as you mature you will learn how to cope with them better.
If you havn't even asked the guy out yet, its very unlikley that these are feelings love, love is one of the strongest emotions that we have and the term is often used a little lightly.
You dont know what the guy would be like in a relationship, if he could give you everything that you wanted and deserved.
Think of the word love and what it means !!
However if you do end up seeing this guy and you each devote time and effort into your relationshp and it feels right am sure that love could devolope.
But until you get to know each other properly, you are pobably confusing your feelings of love with those of need.
Just think he may have loads of bad habits that you just cant stand, he may do loads of stuff that irritate you.
So until you know him well enough and realise your own feelings only then could you love him - warts nd all !!!!
I wish you all the Luck in the world !
Kate
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wow i guess i no how ur feeling happy, warm, sexy, emonal but i have to say its it good to feel that way but i cart say it will last forever not every teen relationship lasts for ever. But as ppl we move on and meet other ppl and we feel it over again but the next person we meet another who is more special but dont rush into anything im glad ur happy!!!!just make sure he is to good luck and lots of love .
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