Member Since: April 16, 2004
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Hi, I'm a single 37 year old mother, My son is 12 and in 7th grade, he is going to Public school. His conduct has been allways A, but for first time in his school years there is a teacher that thinks all the oposite, I have talk with my son and he says he doesn't know why she doesn't like him, his art work is allways under grade and for some reason now and then, his work disapears from the room. I request a meeting once before, but I felt the school counselor cover up the teachear's behavior and the situation got a little better, but know I can't aloud this abuse to keep going on. My son is an artist and is been selling his work for sometime, the teacher didn't know that, when I told her she sayd maybe he is a good sculptor, but nothing else because he doesn't do his work. Now the problem is that my soon wants to enter a school of art and with no recomendation from this woman even with a great portfolio he won't be accepted, I feel frustrated and my son says that her pet (the teachers favorite) allways gets good grades even with unfinish work. Please help me, what to do? I'm going to have a meeting with her next week. I'm an educated woman and treat people with respect, but I want to be severe and upfront after all is my child's future! (link)
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Go to your childs school and schedule a parent-teacher meeting to find out why she is bringing down your son's self-esteem.Tell her if she is trying to push him to do better than he's doing tell her to go about it some other way.Tell her that the reason he doesn't do his work is because she is always putting his work down.Tell her she needs to ease up or you're taking it to the school board so that something can change.She has to be broken out of making young children feel bad.Luckily,your child tells you when something is going on with him.You have a good child ma'am.Make sure he has a great future.he sounds like a very mature,young adult.
TANYEL
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Hey It's Here To Help a.k.a. Gessyka
YOU'RE SO MEAN Advice1300. I'm going to find a way to kick you off advicenators. You tell people to kill themselves and use profanity towards them?? What is that? You obviously are depsperate...you probably have nobody. Listen if you have anger TALK TO US ABOUT IT! Don't call anyone names.
*stifles laugh* you're sooo....ugh!
Get a life you little baby. People deserve better advice then from someone like you.
Who agrees???
Don't ask Advice 1300 a question...she may pop another blood vessel trying to think of another 'great' insult to your question. (link)
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Gessyka,
I agree with you.Advice 1300 shouldn't insult anyone and/or use profanity towards them.If he/she is angry over something,they should try to give themselves advice to make them feel better.Using profanity and telling someone to kill themselves isn't cool.Try to do whatever you can to get the mean advicenator off of the column. You should get respect just like everyone else.
Tanyel
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Oh my gosh! I think I am in love...please don't be harsh on me people. I cry about him all the time. I'm just so confused. I liked the guy for about a year, and I'm only 14. This isn't some middle school lust, or infatuation or a crush...this is the real thing. I'm so scared becasue I'm going to high school next year and...oh my gosh...he may not be in the same school because there's TON of different schools in this town. I love him...and I don't know what to do. Please help. I have it bad...and it's breaking my heart. What are ways to ask him out...he doesn't seem like the guy that owuld like little corny things. Please help me...anybody? I'm sorry, I'm just babbling adn I'm probably mispelling some words...but I care deeply for this boy. It's something I just can'r erase from my heart. Please help me...I'm EXTREMLY SHY! Seriously...I have no clue what to do...it's social anxiety disorder...
I don't want to talk to a friend about this...they won't believe me if I say I'm in love (even though they witness the way I talk about him)
Please somebody help...anything to....I don't know...Don't mind me...I only have a month and a half left, and I probably won't ever get the courage to ask him out anyway...GOSH I'M SO STUPID!
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Take your time,you're still in school.You have plenty of time to fall in love with someone. You're going through a phase called "puppy love". You said next year you'll be in high school.By the same time next year you might have found a different person that you're madly in "lust" with.You're 14 give it time,but if you really can't get him out of your minf tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same.Don't be shy,try to tell him about your feelings.If you keep it a secret it will just eat away at you and you will remain with a broken heart remembering your first "LOVE"!
TANYEL
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Okay, this guy likes me... A lot. I don't really feel the same way about him. I like him as a friend, that's all. I've told him this, and he just can't accept it. He always comes up to me, and asks for my phone number. I'll tell him no, politely. He got so desperate, that he looked up my number & address in the phone book. He has it all memorized! It's so creepy. He even follows me to all my classes! He also tried to kick my crush. It's all getting so weird, and really out of hand. I've asked him to stop, and that just fuels him even more! I know what he's going through, cuz I used to be head-over-heels for this one guy, but I didn't go so far that I followed him, memorized his every word, etc. I want to report him, but he's really violent so I'm afraid he'll hurt me or something. He already abuses his younger sister, and I don't wanna be next. I just don't wanna get involved with this guy! HELP. (link)
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Tell this guy that you are not feeling him as a boyfriend but you are more than welcome to become friends.Sit down and tell him that what he's doing isn't cool and that he is really starting to "creep" you out. Tell him that you don't want to be bothered that you have problems way bigger than him.
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