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A Little Too Infatuated
Okay, this guy likes me... A lot. I don't really feel the same way about him. I like him as a friend, that's all. I've told him this, and he just can't accept it. He always comes up to me, and asks for my phone number. I'll tell him no, politely. He got so desperate, that he looked up my number & address in the phone book. He has it all memorized! It's so creepy. He even follows me to all my classes! He also tried to kick my crush. It's all getting so weird, and really out of hand. I've asked him to stop, and that just fuels him even more! I know what he's going through, cuz I used to be head-over-heels for this one guy, but I didn't go so far that I followed him, memorized his every word, etc. I want to report him, but he's really violent so I'm afraid he'll hurt me or something. He already abuses his younger sister, and I don't wanna be next. I just don't wanna get involved with this guy! HELP.
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You should really report this person. tell the people that he scares you and that he is violent. tell them eveything you know about him. This has happened to me before. Tere was this kid that liked me, and just like yours he looked up my # in the phone book. He followed me around everyday, and one day i found out that he was a drug dealer and he was beating the shit out of this girl in the bathroom when i went to the bathroom in school o day. I went to the principles office and told the people there everythng i knew and they took care of it he stopped bothering me and they would keep him away from me. trust me on this i have experience. If you have any more questions about anything else you can always im e at bebexoxox@aol.com
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Tell this guy that you are not feeling him as a boyfriend but you are more than welcome to become friends.Sit down and tell him that what he's doing isn't cool and that he is really starting to "creep" you out. Tell him that you don't want to be bothered that you have problems way bigger than him.
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no do not get invovled with this guy amagin if you did what he would do then it could get worst. Tell somebody about whats going on don't let it get worser then everybody will blame you it's not your fault he feels this way about he has to understand you only like him as a friend follow your heart.
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Give it a week or so, and if he is still pulling the same old crap then REPORT HIM. Make sure....because you never could know what's up with him. Just make sure you tell him to stop...because if you go to somebody and they ask if you defended yourself, you have to be able to say you told him to "Stop"...otherwise they will think your crush didn't realize it. You know what I mean?
So just tell him to stop evrytime he harasses you, and in a week or so if he doesn't stop, tell
somebody right away. Make sure of it...this isn't something you should forget like a homework assignment or something. I'm no trying to care you but if you said he was violent, and you have a feeling something bad will happen, then yes...report him.
Good Luck,
*hug*
*-_GeSsYkA_-*
In additional info can you please add how long this has been going on for? Thank you...because if we know that me and other advicenators could probably help you much more.
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Go to the local police and file a report. (Going to the station generally guarantees that you'll get to talk to an officer so that things don't get easily confused.) Get your phone number changed, and make sure it's a private number so it won't get printed in the phone book. And start carrying some pepper spray in case he does get violent with you.
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this guy is going to far even for a crush u should tell him no leave me alone in a carm and sharp voice and it he carries on call the police they will worn him give him a big of a scare that ur serious and if her still carryes on get him arseted and a court order for him to be 1 mile near u. This guy seems to be havin probl;ems and may not no the affect he is havin on u dont b affaid u will b gettin him help u wouldnt like it if it did it to someone else . take care and lots of love
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