Being a teenager is hard, and although every single person in the world has been a teenager at one point for example,Our parents.
I think they often forget how hard it actually is.
So if you need advice, a shoulder to cry on or just a friend, then ask me.
I am quite experienced in all sorts of things from boyfriend troubles to career choices, family matters, sex problems, you name it and I have probably been through it.
And thats exactly how I can help you - by working through your problems, lending a sypathetic ear a promise that I will never judge you or tell you want you want to hear. I will be trustwothy and honest.
So if any one needs to ask anthing please drop me a line!
- REMEMBER A PROBLEM SHARED IS A PROBLEM HALFED
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Gender: Female
Location: North East of England
Age: 20
Member Since: April 13, 2004
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i need the toilet all the time, but when i go for a wee nothing comes out. why is this? (link)
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Dear "Worried"
Just a thought, but you may have a bladder or kidney infection, its nothing to worry about it's easily treated. But you MUST vsit your doctor as soon as you can just so that the problem dosent get and worse.
Dont worry and get well soon !
Kate
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Oh my gosh! I think I am in love...please don't be harsh on me people. I cry about him all the time. I'm just so confused. I liked the guy for about a year, and I'm only 14. This isn't some middle school lust, or infatuation or a crush...this is the real thing. I'm so scared becasue I'm going to high school next year and...oh my gosh...he may not be in the same school because there's TON of different schools in this town. I love him...and I don't know what to do. Please help. I have it bad...and it's breaking my heart. What are ways to ask him out...he doesn't seem like the guy that owuld like little corny things. Please help me...anybody? I'm sorry, I'm just babbling adn I'm probably mispelling some words...but I care deeply for this boy. It's something I just can'r erase from my heart. Please help me...I'm EXTREMLY SHY! Seriously...I have no clue what to do...it's social anxiety disorder...
I don't want to talk to a friend about this...they won't believe me if I say I'm in love (even though they witness the way I talk about him)
Please somebody help...anything to....I don't know...Don't mind me...I only have a month and a half left, and I probably won't ever get the courage to ask him out anyway...GOSH I'M SO STUPID!
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Dear "In love"
First of all I would just like to say that you are NOT stuupid, feelings of this sort are all part of us girls growing up, it certainly wont be the last time that you have these felings I have to be honest !!! - but as you mature you will learn how to cope with them better.
If you havn't even asked the guy out yet, its very unlikley that these are feelings love, love is one of the strongest emotions that we have and the term is often used a little lightly.
You dont know what the guy would be like in a relationship, if he could give you everything that you wanted and deserved.
Think of the word love and what it means !!
However if you do end up seeing this guy and you each devote time and effort into your relationshp and it feels right am sure that love could devolope.
But until you get to know each other properly, you are pobably confusing your feelings of love with those of need.
Just think he may have loads of bad habits that you just cant stand, he may do loads of stuff that irritate you.
So until you know him well enough and realise your own feelings only then could you love him - warts nd all !!!!
I wish you all the Luck in the world !
Kate
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hi ive had 8 one night stands most potected and i have decided to change my life around i thought i would get some test done for aids or sexual dieses im only 16 and very scared i just want to no what happens its it taken by blood tests or wot help!!!!! (link)
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Dear "Worried"
I am so glad for you that you have decided to get a grip of your life, good on ya!!
You need to get in touch with your local sexual heatlh clinic, and ask for a full screening.
Its inevitable that they will take some blood tests, urine samples and possibly swabs from your genital area, just to be on the safe side - but please dont worry you may experience slight discomfort but it dosent hurt.
I admit you may loose a little dignity but hey thats life !!!
I hope you have realised that having unprotected sex is not worth all the worry, and I hope that within this life change that you decide to have more respect for your body and who you offer it too - your worth more than that.
Hope this helps, let me know how you get on
Kate
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My boss is young, quite cool and gay. All of these things are fine by me. However then I found out about his boot fetish. I'm finding it really hard not to mention it or burst out laughing or something equally insensitive.
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Dear "Amused"
Your boss is actually human believe it or not, and what he does behind closed doors is entirely his business.
Everyone has sexualy fantisies, its normal and how we develope our own sexual individuality.
If you do make fun of this he may be offended, just think how humiliated you would feel.
On your part,if you do say something it may effect the atmosphere at work only making it harder for you to work there.
Hope this helps
Kate
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I'm 15 and weigh 110 pounds. I think that's OK for me, because I'm about 5'3". But, some of my family thinks that I'm anorexic, just because I don't eat a lot of meat & stuff at family gatherings. Like, my grandma will be like "Oh I'm so glad you're actually eating!" When I'm like the biggest pig! I hate people thinking that I have an eating disorder, what should I do? (link)
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Dear "Worried"
Its often helpful to work out you BMI (Body mass index) to find out if you are a healthy weight.
Just type it in your search engine on the net and you can work it out online if you know your weight and height.
If you are underweight make sure that you have a healthy balanced lifestyle, i.e that means you are eating 2000 calories a day consisting of carbohydrates,proteins,vitimins, minerals etc. Make sure that you exercise sensibly.
If what your famiy are saying to you does upset you or make you feel unconfortable, then why not sit them down and explain how you feel I am sure that they will understand, and give you the encouragement and support that you need to feel confident.
Even if you are slim you still need to eat healthily and exercise - hope this helps in some way.
Kate
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Can some one give me an average age of getting a boy friend? (link)
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Dear "Confused"
There is no age at all, the longer you are single the better is what I say !!!
Time to enjoy yourself, spend time with your friends and figure who you are wnd what you want out of life!
If a guy comes along then GREAT, but make sure it feels right and he is worthy of your time and attention.
You have plenty of time to find a boyfriend - enjoy your life for what it is honey and when its meant to happen it will, and you will enjoy every minute of it.
Good Luck
kate
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My cheeks have always been kind of chubby, but the rest of me isn't. How do I get rid of my chubby cheeks without losing too much weight from the rest of my body? (link)
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Dear "Worried"
I have chubby cheeks too! and I always wanted to hide, or get rid of them. But in my experience most people say they're cute and sexy !!!
However if you would feel more confident try these little tips:
I dont know if you wear make up or not but what I often do is suck my cheeks in so my cheek bones stick out,and then apply a little blusher or skin highlighter, which emphesizes your cheek BONES and not your cheeks themselves, it gives your face a more proportioned look.
Also your hairstyle can often make your cheeks look chubbier than there are, if you have very short hairstyle that just skims your jawline this can make them look bigger, opt for a sleeker hairstyle, smooth, long and straight.
I hope this helps a little, but just remember everyone is beautiful and special in their own unique way.
Kate
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i care a lot about what people think
what should i do? (link)
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Dear "I care"
It's good that you care what people think, it indicates that you are a caring and sensitive person, which we often need more of in this world!
As long as you dont put too much effort into caring about what people think about you for example how you dress, or your image. As long as you are happy the way that you are then the people who REALLY care and love you will be happy too.
Take Care
Kate
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