my friend always touches me on the wrong places like my ass or my breasts n i dont know if he does it on purpose or not. he likes to jump on me n when i am laying its like he is trying to have sex with me but i tell him to stop and sometimes i think if i tell the teacher he is going to get mad or something. the thing is he broke up with his girlfriends for me n every1 thinks he likes me but i dont like him that way hes like a realli good friend but i dunno what to do
lovergyrl05 answered Saturday April 17 2004, 11:52 pm: ok first of all if you dont want him to touch you..tell his ass to stop. you need to have enough respect for yourself to stand up for your self. if he was a true friend he wouldnt keep doing it. if you let him get away with it..hes going to continue doing what he does because he sees no problem with it. fuck him getting mad, you need to have respect for yourself [ lovergyrl05's advice column | Ask lovergyrl05 A Question ]
babygoddess answered Saturday April 17 2004, 6:54 pm: Ther are t2 things you can do. 1 is that you can get a boyfriend and let your boyfriend hang around you two so your besd knows his lace. 2 is that you can tell your friend that you dont like him like that and slap him every time he touches you. If you need any more help with anthing at all im me a bebexoxox@aol.com [ babygoddess's advice column | Ask babygoddess A Question ]
GC_rox_my_sox answered Saturday April 17 2004, 1:53 pm: If it keeps happening, then it is not an accident. It also means that he doesn't respect you. This guy is not your friend, he is just trying to hit on you. Stay away from him, he's a loser and he could hurt you. Or talk to him on the phone or instant messenger, where he won't be able to touch you. [ GC_rox_my_sox's advice column | Ask GC_rox_my_sox A Question ]
Cspinoza1 answered Saturday April 17 2004, 12:09 pm: Confused Girl-
Well first of all what he is doing is called harrassment and that is because he is touching you in a manner that is not liked by you or you do not concent. And if you keep letting him touch you and you don't tell him or a teacher things are just going to get worst or they won't stop. And you say he is your friend, then he should listen to you when you tell him that you don't like him like that. But if it continues I would tell a teacher and risk him getting mad.
Winona1992 answered Saturday April 17 2004, 12:01 pm: MAybe you need to tell him how you feel, and tell him to take it slow. Now you dont need to tell a teacher, but you can. Maybe he wants to have n intercourse with yoy, and tell him how you feel!
friend2all answered Saturday April 17 2004, 4:52 am: sit him down and tell him u dont wanna ruin ur friendship but u dont want him to touch u in that way. if he is a true friend he wil understand if he gets mad then walk away and tell ur parents and teachers they will tell him and warn him about the serious things about what he is doing be strong and sticjk up for your self i hope things work out for u take care and lots of love [ friend2all's advice column | Ask friend2all A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday April 17 2004, 1:38 am: Have you sat down with him and told him that you know he likes you, but you don't feel the same way about him? Somewhere in there, I suggest you add the fact that you don't like the way he's always touching you in those places. I mean, if a guy that liked me that I didn't like did that to me, he'd get one hell of a black eye. Lol - Good luck!
-Siren [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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