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See, I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me . I don't want to ask him because, he's really proud and he can sometimes be a jerk . He's never been a jerk to me though, but one of my friends asked him if he liked me , and he supposedly called me ugly which lead to no . I have tried to get over him and at times I think I'm over him . So when I pay him no attention it's like he's paying me attention, and I totally get pulled back into liking maybe loving him because this has been going on for a year . Do you think maybe I have a chance with this guy . Do you think that I or maybe he is playing a game ? What should I do? PLEASE HELP ME BECAUSE IF I THINK ABOUT THIS ANY LONGER , I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING REALLY, REALLY STUPID .
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If he is a jerk then do you really think he's worth it? If he called you ugly then do you think he's good at heart? If you answered yes to both of these questions then go for it. But if I were you then I'd definitely not take that risk of getting hurt.
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He's a jerk that is palying games with you. Come on, he even called you ugly. What do you see in this guy? Do you want to be with some guy that treats you like crap and is a jerk to your friends. I don't know about you, but I see no appeal in that. I promise you there are much nicer guys out there.
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This is practically the exact same thing that happened to me. If he is proud and a jerk, then he really isn't worth it. Plus, if you get turned down, he will probably tell everyone. If this has been going on for a year, you need to put a stop to it. The bottom line: If I were you, I wouldn't ask him out.
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Sounds like he is playing games with you, and at the end of the day if something hasn't happened in a year, it's unlikely to ever happen. It's time to get over him and move on honey.
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Put it this way, he called you UGLY. That is just messed up, girl what you need to do is don't spend time trying to get him to notice you and focus your attention on a guy that maight like you. Remember liking/relationships have to go both ways. And just because he looks at you now doesn't mean he is interested, I'm not saying he isn't interested but from the information you have given he doesn't seem interested.
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GET OVER HIM!
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The guy is definitely playing a game, and it's a very stupid and immature one.
By thinking about him as much as you do, you're doing exactly what he wants you to do. Knowing that the girls who can't have him, want him, makes him feel special and important. Knowing there's a girl out there who doesn't care about him makes him feel insecure, so he goes running after that girl (in this case, you) to try and remedy the situation for the sake of his ego. It's pathetic, and he knows it, and you deserve way better than that.
Leave him alone, but when he comes running after you (like usual), pay him no heed. Until he can start acting like a big boy, let him play with the little girls.
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