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There is this girl at my school whom I really like but she thinks I am a loser of some kind. I really want to ask her out. What should I do?
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Well if you were a good friend of mine i'd say blow her off because you shouldnt go out with someone that thinks your a complete loser cuz what kind of gf would that be in the first place and what will she think of you and your friends later? she may be able to change but still... thats my advice as one of you being my good friends... but maybe you could try and fit in with the cooler crowd and 2nd of all nobody's a loser in my book-trix ]
why should she think you a loser ? i don't really know about your crush , but i totally fall for those cute slightly nerdy type guys , especially those with glasses , and those cute , shy smiles .
why don't you find out more about your crush and talk to her ? if you are shy , just keep staring at her until she looks at you , and then quickly look down and blush ( if you can ) . Just remember , don't do this more than once a day , because you might seem deperate . ( desperation = turn OFF )
Don't worry , i'm pretty sure you aren't a loser , unless you are the type of guy who frequently gets beaten up by the so called "cool" guys . If you are somewhere in the middle , GO FOR IT !!!
hope i'm helping and GOOD LUCK !! ]
I know it will be embarrassing but ask her out the worst thing that can happen is that she could say no.Its worth a try, isnt it? ]
First of all, may I congratulate you? Yours is the best grammar I've seen the entire time I've been on this site. Sorry, I'm a bit of a grammar freak. Lol.
Anywho. Ah, the classic "I like her, but she thinks I'm a loser...help!" scenario. Been there, done that, only with a guy. Don't suggest it as a date. It helps to know your age, but I'll do my best. Were I in your situation, I would suggest the two of you go out for coffee, or something, and get to know each other better. Not in those terms, obviously. Something like "you know, I think you're a really interesting person, and I'd like to get to know you a little better. Wanna meet up for coffee some time?" Just be charming. Girls like that. =)
-Siren ]
you should ask her out cause that is if u like her if she thinks u are a loser well get her some candy or a bear and say i love you to her and then say that will never change that is if u realy realy like her then can say that kk goo
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I'm sorry to shatter your dreams, but if a girl thinks that you are a loser then you shouldn't ask her out. The only thing that you will do is hurt yourself. I'm very sorry, but if you want to ask a girl out, it is probably better to become friends with that person first before you start a relationship. If you're still interested in her, then become friends first. Go places together in a group first and slowly start flirting with her. See her response, if it's not good then move on to someone else. There are many fish in the sea.
~Joce ]
Dude, if she thinks your a loser she isn't worth your time. Trust me its never worth trying to go after someone if they cannot return the favor in any way. Trust me in the future this will save you from heart ache. So look for a girl that likes you not that thinks your a loser. Just think how are you going to feel when you ask her out and she says no or makes fun of you for trying?
Cspinoza1 ]
Don't change yourself to conform to what someone else likes. Believe me, it will never work. If she thinks you are a loser, then why do you like her so much? Because she's good looking? Find a girl who likes you for you, even if she is not the prettiest. ]
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