wondering answered Monday May 10 2004, 8:07 am: why should she think you a loser ? i don't really know about your crush , but i totally fall for those cute slightly nerdy type guys , especially those with glasses , and those cute , shy smiles .
why don't you find out more about your crush and talk to her ? if you are shy , just keep staring at her until she looks at you , and then quickly look down and blush ( if you can ) . Just remember , don't do this more than once a day , because you might seem deperate . ( desperation = turn OFF )
Don't worry , i'm pretty sure you aren't a loser , unless you are the type of guy who frequently gets beaten up by the so called "cool" guys . If you are somewhere in the middle , GO FOR IT !!!
Chelsea04 answered Monday April 19 2004, 8:51 am: I know it will be embarrassing but ask her out the worst thing that can happen is that she could say no.Its worth a try, isnt it? [ Chelsea04's advice column | Ask Chelsea04 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday April 15 2004, 2:15 am: First of all, may I congratulate you? Yours is the best grammar I've seen the entire time I've been on this site. Sorry, I'm a bit of a grammar freak. Lol.
Anywho. Ah, the classic "I like her, but she thinks I'm a loser...help!" scenario. Been there, done that, only with a guy. Don't suggest it as a date. It helps to know your age, but I'll do my best. Were I in your situation, I would suggest the two of you go out for coffee, or something, and get to know each other better. Not in those terms, obviously. Something like "you know, I think you're a really interesting person, and I'd like to get to know you a little better. Wanna meet up for coffee some time?" Just be charming. Girls like that. =)
-Siren [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
pimplaya answered Wednesday April 14 2004, 8:48 pm: you should ask her out cause that is if u like her if she thinks u are a loser well get her some candy or a bear and say i love you to her and then say that will never change that is if u realy realy like her then can say that kk goo
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sp4rklingr4in answered Wednesday April 14 2004, 7:20 pm: I'm sorry to shatter your dreams, but if a girl thinks that you are a loser then you shouldn't ask her out. The only thing that you will do is hurt yourself. I'm very sorry, but if you want to ask a girl out, it is probably better to become friends with that person first before you start a relationship. If you're still interested in her, then become friends first. Go places together in a group first and slowly start flirting with her. See her response, if it's not good then move on to someone else. There are many fish in the sea.
Cspinoza1 answered Wednesday April 14 2004, 5:37 pm: Dude, if she thinks your a loser she isn't worth your time. Trust me its never worth trying to go after someone if they cannot return the favor in any way. Trust me in the future this will save you from heart ache. So look for a girl that likes you not that thinks your a loser. Just think how are you going to feel when you ask her out and she says no or makes fun of you for trying?
GC_rox_my_sox answered Wednesday April 14 2004, 5:14 pm: Don't change yourself to conform to what someone else likes. Believe me, it will never work. If she thinks you are a loser, then why do you like her so much? Because she's good looking? Find a girl who likes you for you, even if she is not the prettiest. [ GC_rox_my_sox's advice column | Ask GC_rox_my_sox A Question ]
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