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I don't know what to do about this guy... at the beginning of the summer i found out he liked me and the more i thought about it the more i liked him back, well i jacked up really bad cuz i accidentally misworded a quote he had told the person that told him so ever since then he thought i said no, but i didn't, he was just so mad at the peron that told me that he didn't give me a chance to say yes... well he hasn't talked to me since then and it's really depressing, not only cuz he won't talk to me but because he won't talk to the person that tole me either and he get's POed at anyone who brings it up from what i've been told... i don't know what to do, if anyone can help i'll rate high.
thanks

o, yeah... 14/f

talk to him about it if you can. try to get his attention and tell him it's important. there isn't much you can do but tell him how you feel.

good luck!

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ok i have a friend name aurora. she's bin really sad alot latly. the reason why is that she barly has any friends. well i've tried getting her out into like really socil public places where she's likely to make some really good friends. but she keeps on my offer. and she is being too stuborn her self. ok here is my question. How the hell can i help her out if she wont listen to me?

hmm since you already tried there isn't too much you can do. let her go for a bit and see what happens. if she gets worse, then try to go back to her and see if you can help again.

good luck!

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well the other day when my friend slept over it was time to put our pj's on and i usually go into the bathroom to get changed and my friend just started to take it all of in front of me and i got nervous so i went to the bathroom.....does that mean anything?? like did she want to see me naked or somthing?? because she is usually a private person about that stuff

signed confused?

i rate 5's for GOOD answers

PS im a girl

hmm..it doesn't really mean anything. maybe she juss feels more comfortable around you since you guys are friends. plus that happens in the locker room all the time. if it keeps happening and you feel weird about it, talk to her.

-hope that helped

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I like this girl, I mean like I REALLY love her. But, she only likes me as a friend. I recently sent her an email asking her out, but I think she's at sleepaway camp or something. I want her to love me so bad, how can I do that? Don't tell me that there are other fish in the sea, because I can feel that she's the one. How can I make her love me? Wiseasses get reported. Thanks!

tell her how you feel. she'll be extremely flattered and might love you too. you guys should hang out and get to know eachother, because then she might see you as more than juss a friend. i know it could be nerve racking telling someone how you feel about them, but it'll help in the long run.

good luck!

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How do you change the weekdays to something else? Like .."Stupid Sundays" or whatever? Haha..Stupid Sundays..That was the lamest thing.. :\

here's a website with a whole bunch of codes!

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=html________________________0

-hope that helped

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Hey. Well, i just bought my hair straightener yesterday at JCPenny's it was $130. And i haven't used it yet but someone told me that u have to buy like some gresse or some oil to put on after or before doing it. Is that true.or can u just do it like that without putting anything. And if true can yall tell me what to buy, and were to get it from. Thanksss.
Brenda

i have this dove stuff you can buy at grocery stores that's like "straightening" gel, but it's definately not neccessary. what you do is wash your hair, dry it. make sure it's completely dry and then you can juss straighten it with the straightner alone. the gel and stuff is juss if you want it like extra straight.

-hope that helped!

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this is the story... one of my good friends leah liked me friend dan and he liked her.. or at least he thought he did.. he lied to himself to make himself like her.. while he was supposedly likeing her he told me he was confused and thought he liked me too.. this was bad.. the thing is his best friend likes me too.. and my best friend likes him.. we both have feelings for each other but we cant do anything about it bc of our best friends.. we went to six flags a few days ago and we all hung out but i could tell that my friend was soo bored with this girl.. he realized and told her a few days later..the thing is i told her that he wasnt worth it and that she could do better.. i really dont think i had alterior reasons for telling her... i dont think i told her bc i wanted him for myself. but if i go out with him then everyones gonna think of it like that and i dont want to be a hypocrite!! HELP!! WAT DO I DO???

i rate high...

tell her how you feel about him. you can cleary see that he wasn't interested in her. she should understand that. you told her to watch out for her. it isn't your fault that he isn't really interested in her. i think you should explain the whole thing to her.

good luck!

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Does anyone know any cool things i can put in my AIM profile.Thanks(i rate high for good answers)!

try fades! theyre really neat. i can take you step by step.

1-pick a quote you like, here's a site that could help, www.firehotquotes.com

2-pick diff colors you like, here's a good site, http://wellstyled.com/tools/colorscheme2/index-en.html, try to pick colors that go together, diff pinks, blues, etc.

3-line up the quote, meaning when you highlight it its all lined up. you could do that by adding characters like , * ;
highlight this-
example
example
example
it should come out like that

4-go into notepad and do the codes
< font.back="color code" > text here
etc etc, but make sure theres no spaces inbetween the arrows

5-add it to your profile!

feedback for more help

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What does the phrase "wearing your heart on your sleeve" mean?

it means everyone can tell what you're feeling. you wear it on your sleeve so everyone can see it. basically it's juss a quote dealing with love and what you feel, not keeping feelings to yourself. it could be good er bad however you look at it.

-hope that helped!

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I've been with my boyfriend almost a year... and we've been having unprotected sex and usually doesnt pull out. but I'm also on birthcontrol.. I know that thats not always effective.I'm 18 also... But for my question.. Recently I got sick with a cold and was put on Amoxicillan... I was told that when your on one of those it messes up your birthcontrol and it doesnt work right. We have sex a couple times a week.... My period is due like... Tuesday Or Wednesday.. Is there any chance that I can be pregnant... I spotted a little yesterday... Sorry Soo Long :/

there could be a possiblity that you might be pregnant, juss because of the fact that the amoxicillan could change your birthcontrol. try going to the doctor that perscribed the amoxicillan to you. since you spotted i wouldn't be too worried. if you don't get your period by saturday then get a pregnancy test.

good luck!

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i'm going with this boy who is the hottest boy in school. he could get any girl he wanted with the snap of his fingers. but he chose me, which is hardly believable. he gave up fooling around with every girl he wants to with no strings attached, to have a relationship with me. how can i make him see he made the right choice, and that girls aren't just objects, and they need to be respected?

talk to him about how you feel. you seem surprised that he picked you, and i'm not sure if that's a good sign er not. sometimes guys like playing around with a whole bunch of girls and not settling down into juss 1 relationship. since it seems that he wants to have juss 1 relationship, and that's with you, he probably knows you're good for him. maybe he's making a change in his life to only be with one girl and knows that they were never objects. be happy, and if you have problems talk with him about it.

-hope that helped!

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okay well me and this guy have been "together" all summer... but were not really goin out... its wierd tho, he seems like he likes me one day and the next he wont talk to me... everytime i confront him he makes up some excuse like i had to go to the doctor, or i had to go shower... but ive kinda gotten fed up with it! hes really sweet and i really like him... but should i just stop talkin to him, or try and keep are relationship togteher and til we can move it further?? please help!

talk to him about how you feel. maybe he doesn't know that him not talking to you is a big deal to you. i'm sure if you talked to him about it, he'll try to talk to you more. try to work things out and if it goes wrong then you have to move on and find someone that can talk to you more often.

good luck!

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this morning i woke up by the voices in my head screaming at me-it scared the crap out of me!!!! this is an honest question is somthing wrong with me!?!?!

hmm it could juss be a bad dream. sometimes when you watch scary shows, er see something weird during the day, it affects what happens at night. i wouldn't worry about it too much. if it happens again, i'd go get it checked out. there's actually dream doctors and stuff you can go see to calm you down. nothing is wrong with you, it could've juss been a bad dream, so don't really worry about it unless it keeps happening.

good luck!

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I haven't even had my period for a year and it comes like every two weeks and lasts like 5 days... it sucks! Is this normal?

Thanks!

that isn't normal. you shouldn't skip months in a row er years er aynthing like that. go to a gynocologist asap.

good luck!

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is it absolutely 100% neccessary for a woman to go to a gynocologist at some point in her life? and what do they do, exactly?

it is neccessary, especially when you become sexual active. i never went, but i heard it wasn't that bad. they do a whole bunch of check up stuff. here's a website [it's not gross]. most girls go around age 16.

http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0643.html

good luck!

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What is the song called that goes like this...

How the hell'd we wind up like this? Why werent we able, to see the signs that we missed, to try to turn the table?


??? ill rate 5s

nickle back, someday

-hope that helped!

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well first i am 14/f, and anyone makes fun of my question in anyway, i will report you and get you banned. and well people who are willing to help, please help i need help ASAP. my problem is this. i am crushing on a gay guy. i just met him and he first denied that he was, but today he told me and my friend that he is gay. but he is fits so perfect for my dream prince. he likes stuff i like, and such. not to mention he is sooo hot.

so please, is there anyway i can turn him straight? i know it will be really hard and i can't help it because its like hormon, but i have heard of few stories that it can happen. but i dont know how, and please dont say give up, because i know most of you will try to do that but i already know that , but i have to try at least!! so please please help me.

i rate 5 if it helps even a little.

aww gay guys are awesome!! and most are definately hott. ok well it could be really difficult to turn a gay guy straight, and i don't think that's the approach you wanna take. tell him that you like him, even though he's gay. maybe he'll realize he likes you too, even though you're a girl, know what i mean? i don't think there's really ways to turn someone straight, but maybe he'll like you as a person and you guys could get together er something.

good luck!

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ok well i had my period.. 2nd time now.. and i dont know.. like how many times a day should i change my pad/ tampond?? or like my mom never had the talk with me so idk what to expect

you change it when you feel the need to. for a pad, i change it like every 2-3 hours, but for a tampon you should change it about every 5-6.

good luck!

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Coming up is my boyfriend and I's one year anniversary. I have no idea what I should get him! He's 18 and he likes football, clothes, etc... I want it to be a nice gift... Suggestions PLEASE! WILL RATE 5'S!

a jersey! guys love jerseys. you juss gotta find his fav team, player, etc.

good luck!

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This kid likes me but I don't like him because he's NOT a good kid. I like my ex boyfriend and my ex likes me but if i go out with my ex the other boy will hate me along with my friend who's my ex's ex. (sorry if this is confusing by the way.) BUt the kid that likes me that I dont like keeps accusing me of liking my ex and if i tell him i do he'll tell EVERYONE and then if everyone finds out they'd hate me. What am i gonna do??????HELP ASAP!

tell him how you feel. you can't hide it from him you like someone else. you can't not go out with your ex, and ruin things for you guys because of this kid. you have to tell him so you can date people.

good luck!

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