this is the story... one of my good friends leah liked me friend dan and he liked her.. or at least he thought he did.. he lied to himself to make himself like her.. while he was supposedly likeing her he told me he was confused and thought he liked me too.. this was bad.. the thing is his best friend likes me too.. and my best friend likes him.. we both have feelings for each other but we cant do anything about it bc of our best friends.. we went to six flags a few days ago and we all hung out but i could tell that my friend was soo bored with this girl.. he realized and told her a few days later..the thing is i told her that he wasnt worth it and that she could do better.. i really dont think i had alterior reasons for telling her... i dont think i told her bc i wanted him for myself. but if i go out with him then everyones gonna think of it like that and i dont want to be a hypocrite!! HELP!! WAT DO I DO???
but i think you should talk to your friend leah and tell her that you think your starting to like dan and ask her if it would be ok if you went out with him or if she still has feelings for him.and mayb dan's bff and leah could go out.
ok tht wuz relly confusing for me so sorry if this advice doesnt help you at all.
xomegaroni answered Sunday August 14 2005, 12:52 pm: tell her how you feel about him. you can cleary see that he wasn't interested in her. she should understand that. you told her to watch out for her. it isn't your fault that he isn't really interested in her. i think you should explain the whole thing to her.
karenR answered Sunday August 14 2005, 12:42 pm: Tell your best friend just that. Tell her you didn't tell her those things because you wanted him. Have a good talk about it. Don't let that stop you from going out with the guy if you really like him, just let her know you had her interests at heart. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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