ok i have a friend name aurora. she's bin really sad alot latly. the reason why is that she barly has any friends. well i've tried getting her out into like really socil public places where she's likely to make some really good friends. but she keeps on my offer. and she is being too stuborn her self. ok here is my question. How the hell can i help her out if she wont listen to me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xo_jenna_respects_ox answered Monday August 15 2005, 2:38 pm: I don't think she needs new friends, it might help, but i think you should go shopping with her, do some fun stuff together, maybe that will cheer her up a bit. It is also sometimes hard for people to make new friends if they are shy. Have you ever asked her if she wants new friends? I think you are being a really great friend to her. Keep doing your best to help her out. Maybe invite some of your friends to hang out somewhere, and invite aurora, maybe they will like each other, and you can all hang out. Hope I helped!
emster812 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 11:25 pm: Try being a good friend to her at moment. Maybe what she needs is some support instead of a new crowd to hang around with. She will most likely make friends in time. At the moment, just be the good friend you can be. Many people have trouble making friends and only have a few.
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pinkfreak417 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 4:09 pm: be the best friend you can be to her right now cuz what she might need is support instead of a new crowd to be in and you should give it time cuz she might not want a bunch of new friends
sum12die4u answered Sunday August 14 2005, 2:05 pm: If she is being stubborn about meeting new people its cause she's scared and shy. all you can do is be the best friend you can to her. if she is a good person, she'll see what you mean to her. thats all you can do... [ sum12die4u's advice column | Ask sum12die4u A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Sunday August 14 2005, 1:46 pm: hmm since you already tried there isn't too much you can do. let her go for a bit and see what happens. if she gets worse, then try to go back to her and see if you can help again.
beautiful_disaster101 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 1:45 pm: ok, well maybe if she wont go somewhere, you have to bring the people to her! like, have a party at your house, like a "goodbye summer" party and invite alot of social people who would like Aurora, also ask people to come who like the same things as Aurora. Have your friends start a coversation with her and she'll have friends in no time! Also, a great time for you to relax and have an awesome party!!! haha, hope i helped. If you need anymore advice, my sn for AIM is "Silverwolf1561".
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