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ok well, i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY like my bf and we have been going out for 4 months. i think he is going to break up with me because he hasnt called for 5 days now AND when we do talk he never really....talks. i seem to be the only one on the phone at times. im not sure what to think. do you guys think he is going to break up with me? should i break up with him first? im so confused so PLEASE help me!!!!!!!!! thanks a bunches!
tell him exactly what you juss typed. he should call you since he's your bf. maybe he's shy er maybe he's not sure what to say. i know telling someone your feelings can be difficult, but it's worth it. if he doesn't really say anything, then maybe you should dump him.
good luck!
I have this friend. We are like best of friends and we chill every other day or talk on the fone.
okay and she used to be friends with J. J and her used to be like how we are now. Js kind of a whore like meeting internet ppl, making out with strangers, flashing ppl and dressing like one. So we both hate J and my friend hangs out with her everytime shes pissed at me or just to get her to stop calling her. Now shes been with her for 3 damn days in a row. So I called her and she wont answer and its making me mad.
Should I trust that she doesnt talk crap about me like we do J or what should I do? Is there a way to be in touch w/o her knowing its me and getting her to answer?
i think you should talk to your friend about it. J.J doesn't really seem like a good influence. hmm i'd try online if she has a s/n er anything. if not try pulling her aside and telling her it's important and you really wanna talk about it with her.
-hope that helped!
Ok, 13/m, Im out of town, my girlfriends birthday was four days ago and I dont get home for 3 more days... we havent been going out for long, but i still want to get her sumthin nice that says i love her and that im sorry i missed her birthday... any ideas?? thanks
send her chocolate, flowers, er a teddy bear. they're all really cute and a lot of girls love them. er you can get one of those giant cards saying i miss you. theyre soo cute!
-hope that helped!
do you know of any good "stuff" to put on your face to clear it up....(i hope you know what i am talkin about)
please help!
thanks
if you mean acne then yes of course. i don't have it myself but i know a lot of girls that do.
http://www.proactiv.com/
-the secret to that is that it gets worse at first, but then gets WAY better
http://www.clearasil.com/
-this is a good one too. there's different kinds of stuff
OR the clearasil pads
http://www.epinions.com/beat-Skincare-Blemish_Control-All-Clearasil-Pads
juss remember that a lot of people have acne so it really isn't a big deal
-hope this helped!
(if you don't mean acne message me back)
okay well this might be gross but please take it seriously and give me some advice my arm pits sweat kinda alot and at school they sweat and you can see the wet marks under my arms i hate it what can i do?!
if i were you, i'd go into the bathroom and like take some water and paper towels er something and juss dab your armpits even if a bathroom stall if you have to. i carry d.o around in my purse juss incase cause ima loser but it works!
-hope that helped!
by b/f and mines anniversary is comming up and i dont know what to do. its 2 years for us and i want to do something really special. thing is its kinda limited because we're only 16 so theres some things i cant do. last year i made him a scrap book. i dont know what to do this year. i want to do something really special. any ideas? im not too good with making things. but im good with writing...if that helps any. thanks.
do anything that'll let him know you were thinking of him. maybe get him one of those giant cards. they're soo cute. the scrap book was a really good idea, but you probably wanna do something different this year. make it er something. that always shows that you really do care. i guess you should juss find out what he likes, because you're the one that knows.
good luck!
Okay! Im 13 and have the oddest fear. I go to bed at like 1 30 AM and than ill go to the bathroom at like 2 and ill go to the bathroom and than go to leave but ill be too scared. So ill end up sleeping in the bathtub!! Its cuz im afraid someones in the house but no one ever is. Is there a way to get over the fear?
hmm here's an idea. go to the bathroom RIGHT before you go to bed. like make sure you wait so you really gotta go, and then go before you go to bed. it might stop you from going to the bathroom. if not, then turn on all the lights and go fast. do you have dogs er anything? because we have really noisy dogs that bark a lot. i'm sure if someone was in your house you'd hear him/her come in. don't worry about it. stay strong.
-hope that helped!
I have been with my boyfriend for a relatively small length of time, and its his birthday too, but im away on his birthday. Im going to get him a present and i wanted it to be really thoughtfull because im really into him but i have no idea what to get, any ideas for things? I have no pictures of us so picture frames etc are out. Thanks Muchly!
it depends what he likes. if he's a big sports fan get him like his fav fball team's jersey er shirt er hoodie er something. it really depends on what he likes. it's really the thought that counts.
good luck!
i have this thing called hyperhydrosis, which is when you have really really really sweaty hands and sweaty feet ALL THE TIME, and even if you wipe them off on something, they don't get dry, they just stay wet. my boyfriend keeps asking me if we want to hold hands, and i keep making up excuses and stuff because it's really embarassing that i have sweaty hands, but i don't want to keep having to make up excuses every time, because he asks a lot, and he's already starting to get really suspicious and everything. please help me think of a good excuse that i can use everytime, or tell me if you think i should just tell him about it. if you think i should just tell him about it, then tell me how i should say it.
i know this might seem like a stupid question, but please help, and i'll rate high for good answers!!!
i agree with the poster before. eventually you'll have to tell him the truth, so i would juss let him know that you have really sweaty hands. he'll probably juss laugh about it with you and you both can find a way to fix the problem. maybe if u carried something in your purse or pocket to wipe your hands every so often it'll help.
good luck!
I'm i'm a 14 year old girl, (15 at the end of september) i'm 5' 9 1/2" tall and i weigh 145 lbs. Now, i know i'm not unhealthy or anything... i mean i'm certainly not obese, but what's the best way to lose weight? i don't want to be anorexic or bulemic or anything (ew) i just want to slim down and tone muscle. I want to be slim, but not disgustingly skinny. I think i eat too much junk food but i love the sugar lol. Are fruits a better subsitute for cookies and ice cream? Also, i want to have defined curves. ( i dunno if losing weight makes it tough to have curves or something but meh) but i've got these, i assume, muscles under just below my hip that gives my pelvic region a kind of square-ish look. Somebody said this was because i do sports and i've just built muscle there and it can't be helped. Is that true? And i want my thighs slimmer, too.
o.o sorry that's so long. Any suggestions? Bottom line: how do i get my body to look the way i want?
-thanks-
haha wow i think you actually weigh the same as me and are about the same height! thats kinda weird. but of course, i'll help you lose some weight. it'll probably be 5-10 lbs er so, 10 at most. obviously curvy is better =) hmm but start off with this
-sleep 9-10 hrs a day
-eat 3 meals, especially breakfast, a good sized breakfast [studies shown that if you don't eat breakfast you either gain weight, er stay the same weight, because your body goes into starvation mode and you don't burn calories]
-eat 3 snacks inbetween the 3 meals, probably about every 3 hrs [this is tricky, because they need to be healthy snacks. fruit, veggies, crackers, etc.]
-exercise daily about 1-2 hrs per day. there's alot of different exercies you can do. basketball, swimming, and running can help you burn calories and lose weight fast
if you want specific exercises for you to do to tone muscles up, try this website-
http://www.dietquest.com/exercise_descriptions.asp
-hope that helped!
i went out with this guy like 5 months ago, but we broke up after 1 day because this girl from my school started a rumor that i was using him even though i wasn't, but then 2 months ago, he asked me out again and i said yes, and now we're still going out, but i don't really like him anymore because i got to know him a lot better and now i know how he really is. i was going to brake up with him yesterday, but before i did, he gave me all these presents and said that he was so glad that we were going out again, and that he hopes it lasts really long. and he still sort of doesn't know if i used him or not, and if i just brake up with him right after he gives me all this stuff, then he's gona think i just used him again, so what should i do? should i wait for like a month or something so that it's not right after he gave me all the presents and he doesn't think that i used him, or should i just go ahead and just brake up with him? i don't want to wait because i don't like him, but if i don't wait he'll think i just used him, and it'll also hurt his feelings because he's liked me for 2 years now and he's been trying to get me to go out with him ever since.
please help, i rate high for peeps with good answers!!!
explain to him exactly how you feel. tell him you didn't use him, but you lost interest. tell him that you appreciate the gifts and all, but you don't wanna be in a relationship that you aren't happy in. if you basically tell him all you typed, he might understand.
good luck!
ok here it goes there are a couple of guys that i am interested in and i cant decide who i like the best ( im 16/f) the first one is reelly hott and hilarious but he gets in trouble alot too and theres this other guy hoos one of my good friends and stuff but he annoys me all the time(hes just a little less hott)in a flirting kinda way and another guy who is so sweet and i know he likes me cause he asked me out before but i said no. So i was wondering if anyone could tell me which guy i should go out with and why *ill rate good for a good answer*
the 3rd guy seems like the best, but you should go on like 'hang out friend dates' to figure which ones for you.
first guy-him being hott may be tempting to you and being funny is a really good thing, but if he really is that hott, then he's that hott to a whole bunch of other girls, and you don't want them chasing him down a lot. he seems like someone to juss be friends with.
second guy-he seems a lil better, but if he's annoying that isn't good even if it is in a flirting way.
third guy-he seems sweet and plus you already knows he likes you, and since he asked you out he's ready to commit.
do what you think is best. juss tell them how you feel too.
good luck!
I just got my earlobes pierced for the 3rd time. The last two times failed because after a week or so of my newly pierced ears, they would always swell up and get infected. It would hurt and itch! Now, I got them re-done at Claire's and now my ears have formed a rash around the earring. I'm cleaning them everyday but they're still itchy! It's red and gross..I don't know what to do! It's my 3rd time..please help and is this normal?
hmm..i think it's some what normal. it could be the type of earring. sometimes certain earrings give you a reaction. you might need pure silver er pure gold. here's a website to help.
http://kidshealth.org/kid/grow/girlstuff/pierced_ears.html
good luck!
Sorry it's so long, but I desparately need help. This is an easy 5 because there's so many things I need help with. Alright, I've asked a bunch of questions on how to get my crush to like me, and it looks like I just need to ask her out! I need some help doing that, though. First: I want a nice special way to deliver it, like they did at the end of Bye Bye Birdie. Can someone help me there? Also, someone suggested writing a poem for her, I suck at poetry, can someone give me tips? Besides, her name doesn't have any rhymes.... Then there's my parents. They've been betting on whether I'm gonna get a crush before my best friends (we're all nerds) and obviously don't know about me and my crush. How can I tell them? Note: I'm a shy person. Come to think of it, where's a good place to ask her out to? I don't really see any worthwile movies out apart from the Aristocrats, which I can't see until I'm 17. So what's a good place? Dinner? Bowling?
And finally, there's rejection. What happens if she says no? I'm a shy person, and I really don't want to have her say no... I mean, she said she liked me as a friend when I told her I liked her, and instead of getting over her, as time passed, I thought about her more. I've been devastated since, and this is the only way. Please help!!!!!!
i'd totally be gentlemen about it. get her flowers. every girl loves flowers. i know you're a shy person, but if you never tell her how you feel, then how will you ever know if you guys could've had a great relationship? talk to your parents too. maybe they can help you out a bit. chocolate and flowers would be the best bet. i'd ask her to a dinner/movie theme. unless you know she likes bowling, then that'd be cool. er maybe that could be a 2nd date thing. try dinner/movie first. rejection can be scary, but like if you never give it a chance you could be really missing out. ok maybe she doesn't wanna date you right away er anything, but you guys could become close friends and then she'll start to really like you as a bf. juss try it. she'll be really flattered either way.
good luck!
i'm wanting to get birth control to be safe but i aint having sex or anything but if i started doing stuff and it happened. i wouldnt get preg. i'm still a virgin. but i want to get on it to be safe. what should i do. get one of my friends to go with me and keep it away from my parent's so they don't know??
hmm..take this into your point of view. juss say your daughter wanted birth control pills. wouldn't you be glad that she wouldn't get pregnant yet? explain to your parents that you're still a virgin, don't wanna become sexually active yet, but still be safe at the same time. i'm sure they'll understand. if you talk to them and they really disapprove maybe you should wait. plus, if you're under the age of 18 i'm pretty sure you need a parental signature for the prescription.
good luck!
i want to get my boyfriend something for his birthday.my problem is that he says he doesnt want anything..so what do i do?
hes turning 15
try to see what he likes. sports, food, activities, music, bands, etc. he's your bf so you should have an idea. maybe make him something cute. you could get one of those huge cards and get all his friends to sign it? er something like that. maybe he has a fav sport team? by him a jersey. you'll think of something.
good luck!
I've always dreaded the first day of school just because I don't deal with change very well. I know that it's not as bad as I think it'll be, it's always fine. But I still get panic attacks and get really sick the night before and that morning. Any advice on how I can overcome this?
you've asked the right question. i get panic attacks too and they aren't fun. the best thing you need to do is relax.
1-breathe, count to 5 in your head and juss take it slow and calm down
2-every1s in the same situation as you, nervous about school and everything
3-you can't worry. ok so lets say you do worry..that changes what? absolutely nothing. you still have to go
juss take it slow. you'll meet new people and everything and it'll be juss fine.
good luck!
i'm getting a dog next week that is a black lab border collie mix and i'm not sure what they look like. i tried googling pictures and got pictures all labelled as "black border collie". so i'm not sure if thats close to what my dog will look like or not, so if anyone could find pictures of a true black lab, border collie mix, that'd be great. thanks!
try this-
http://www.gotpetsonline.com/pictures-gallery/dog-pictures-breeders-puppies-rescue/border-collie-pictures-breeders-puppies-rescue/pictures/border-collie-0138.jpg
OR i found this lost dog site..
http://lostandfoundnow.com/Detailed/109537.html
OR
http://www.gotpetsonline.com/pictures-gallery/dog-pictures-breeders-puppies-rescue/border-collie-pictures-breeders-puppies-rescue/pictures/border-collie-0136.jpg
OR
http://www.gotpetsonline.com/pictures-gallery/dog-pictures-breeders-puppies-rescue/border-collie-pictures-breeders-puppies-rescue/pictures/border-collie-0025.jpg
-hope this helped!
I'm totally in love with my boyfriend.. How can I show him how much I love him? He went away for a week, and when he comes back I want to surprise him with something.
make him something. a poster er something with pictures and little sayings. maybe buy him something you know he likes. draw/write him something. you can also get one of those HUGE cards er something juss to let him know you were thinking about him.
good luck!
Ok... so i have a total guy problem! sorry if this is to long! i am 17 years old and there is this guy that works with me, but at a different location if you get what i mean. (hes 21) well we were in a parade for work and he was all over me! we were hanging out like the whole enitre time! so then he asked for my number and we hung out that night. (he had people over at his house) and we all got totally wasted... and i ended up staying over there. (just me) and i ended up doing everything but sex with him. so the next morning i left and he said that he would call me after he got done with work and he never did! then i went on vacation for a week and i came back and he didnt call me either! i dont know what happened! his friend told me i was to young for him, and i asked him and he said no. or was it because i hooked up with him? or wHy?! i totally need help... because i really like him! thanks so mUch!
hmm..sorry to say this but it seems like he kinda used you, er wanted you for your looks. if he really took interest he would've called you back by now. maybe he juss wanted a one night stand. i really don't think it's the age thing, because he took interest in you before he knew your age right? it seems like an excuse. try to get in contact with him to see how he feels, and tell him how you feel. i know it's difficult to tell people your feelings for them, but it'll be worth it.
good luck!