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Well i was at my friends house and my crush was there and we were playin this game "base or building" base means if someone says a guy u have to say how far u would go w/ him ( 1st base - hug 2nd - kiss 3rd - make-out home - well u kno ) and building means someone picks 2 ppl and u say who u would rather push off a building. well i picked base and someone said my crush ( adam ) well he doens't kno i lyke him so i didn't want to say 3rd cause than maybe he wouldn't lyke me so i said 2nd ( but i really wish i would of said 3rd ) than the next time it was my turn they said my ex-b/f and i said almost to 3rd now i wish i could of said 2nd cause all my friends r teasing me saying i still lyke my ex and i don't!!! wut should i do PLEZ HELP ME!!!!
signed, I don't kno wut to do!!
(p.s. I RATE VERY HIGH) (link)
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ok firstly m going to expalin the bases
1st kissing and making out
2nd some gropage over the clothes
3rd gropage etc without the clothes
4th home run! lol
now then doenst matter what they think about you and your ex that will pass within a few days. as for the guy you like, tell him and then yall can go out and go to whatever base you want
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i was out with my ex boyfriend last night. we still hang out and all that crap. basically, we still act as if we are still girlfriend and boyfriend. well, while we were having dinner, i said to him, "im a good girlfriend, youre just to dumb to realize that you should be with me." i watched his reaction, which he didnt really have one, and a couple seconds later he replied "its better that were just friends.." he seemed sort of unhappy when he said that. well, after that being said, the rest of the night, he was holding me, laughing, all the good stuff.. and he tells me that he loves me. he bought me a painting to have it say [his name] loves [my name]. so right now, im feeling sort of confused. he always tells me that he loves and that were going to get back together when he gets his head together.. but then, he says that whole thing with us being "friends." how should i feel right now?
btw.. im very much in love with him, and so he says that he is with me. we are both 18 (link)
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from what youve given me it kinda sounds like hes playing you. now i dont have all the info so i could very well be wrong. still it sounds kind of suspicious if hes going back and forth like that. how much do you act like your still bf and gf? additional info would be nice ill be sure to come back to this question or you could drop one in my inbox
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for a couple months and I very much enjoy kissing him. The problem is, he always makes the first move. Out of all of my boyfriends, I've never made any first moves or anything. I want to just try something new and make my boyfriend realize I'm spontaneous, sexy and not shy. Any kissing techniques I could use on him? I really don't want to come off like I'm trying too hard, but I need help to get over this shy thing I have with my own boyfriend! (link)
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how old are you? you could try doing more than kissing if youre ready for that. if not try kissing him in other places. the nexk is a great place so is the stomache but when you get that low well theres otehr places that are better to kiss. as for kissing techniques, something that makes a kiss alot better is making your toungue and lips taste sweet. gum works for that so do some candies. it really does alot.
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Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm noticing that I'm interested in girls more than guys. I want a girlfriend. Not a boyfriend. But I can't tell anyone about my sexuality because people don't accept gays. I can never have a girl spend the night thought because I don't want something to slip. But I really want an intimate relationship with another girl. Its that ok? (link)
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what state do you live in? souther states yes are very agains gays however most western ones are not. actualy even in souther states most people dont really have anything agaisnt lesnbians seeing as how guys find them a turn on. does your school have a gay/strait alliance type of club? if so you should join. let me jsut reafirm no matter what bible nuts may tell you tehre is nothing wrong with being homosexual.
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hey i think i might be overweight. i'm 5'7 and weigh 105 lbs. my bff said i'm a beanpole. but i think i culd lose weight. help. (link)
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5'7 and 105? jeez my friend is 5'2 and shes 100lbs and shes skinny as heck.. youre not fat at all unless your body displaces the fat all weird wich i doubt
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I'm 14/f, and my best guy friend is really awesome, so awesome infact that I actually like him as more than a friend. The problem is, I liked him before too and I told him then and he (atleast then) liked someone else. I really like him, but I don't want to ruin our friendship! (link)
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2nd time is not the charm in fact its bad, if you were rejected once and you stayed friends trying again is one of the worst things you can do. now thats not to say you shouldnt go for it. flirt and stuff and make him ask you. if you ask him again it will make things fairly uncomfortable if he says he still doesnt like you. how long has it been? the less time theres been the more likely he will be to take the hint however the longer its been the worse of an idea it is to be the one to ask. hope that made sense.
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hey sweetie..question!:) my boyfriends birthday is coming up on sep. 3rd..and the same day is our 6 month ann. my first varsity soccer game and his 17th birthday. i already got him gifts, but i wanted to know what else can i get him..or surprise him with. i was going to hang out with him that night and do stuff with him like normal - but make it all about him..but i have my game..are there any little things you can think of? thanks!!
x0x-dani
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well you can... dont do anything until youre ready but lets put it this way they greatest gift a guy can get is NOT a sony playstation. but like i said dont do anything until youre ready.
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My best friend (katie) has a new friend (lauren) that i hate!!! and lauren hates me so much she calls me a B* and a lot of other things. i tell katie but she doesnt believe me cuz lauren has her under this dang spell or something! my other friend (brea) hates lauren too and they hate eachother. and me and brea are trying to show katie how awful lauren is by pasting her some mean things and ... but katie is too like obsessed with lauren to even care. shes always like "lauren is jus in a bad mood or w/e" and me and brea know how she really is but katie wont believe us! what should we do!? -Erin & Brea- (link)
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i dont get along with some of my friednd's friends. we simply dont all hang out together. i dont care when they hang out with people i dont like, as long as they dont bring me into it. and when we hang out we dont bring her into it
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hey im going to the movies with this guy i really like and he likes me too...we hold hands, make out n kiss n stuff like that all the time but we dont go out because we dont see eachother enough to be bf/gf...so we are kinda friends with benefits but we act like we go out...heres the problem...its so boring just kissing and holding hands all the time..i like him sososos much but i wanna do this to turn him on..im scared to kiss his neck bc hes taller then me and i dont wanna mess up n slober on him! ew!..so in the movies i want to do something with him but not handjobs or nothing because i dont wanna seem slutty or easy...wat can i do to get him horny and turn him on n posibly give him a boner? (link)
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kissing him is giving him a boner. kissing his neck is great, slobbering a little is fine just not too much. some guys have really sensitive stomachs, my gf (ex gf now) used to lick my stomach mess with it and it felt great. let him do stuff to you like massage your breasts guys love that. most otehr things will probly be going further than you want to go.
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Well there is this guy in my dance class ( I swear he's not gay) and I like him a lot and all my dance friends say he likes me and I like him too, and I've told my best friend about him and she said make a move but i don't know if it's right for a girl to make a move on a guy( I don't really think I'll be good at it), plus i think he has a girlfriend and another girl likes him in class(she's my friend too) what should i do... (link)
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girls that make the first move are a total turn on nothing to worry about there. make sure he doesnt have a gf though
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My Friend Lied to me telling me he got suspended for acting "pimp" and i knew that u cant get suspended for acting like that. But i had found out by a nother friend that he brought a knife to school. It totally shocked me and i started to cry because wat friend could do that. I'm still mad and frusterated. Now he may be suspended 4 good. im still mad for it should he still be my friend?? Should i trust him??? and I*m mad cuz wat was he gunna do wit da knife!
PLEASE ANSWER IMMEDIATLY!! (link)
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um what does him bringging a knife to school has anything to do with you? maybe he was threatened and he brought it to protect himself? talk to him man of all the stupid things to end a friendship over... anyways your other friend might have been liying.
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Well my best friend is going to move in a bit and well I wont see her that much, well I have a lot of guy friends and I want to become best friends with them.. will people think i am too much of a flirt? Is it ok.. do you think its alright? I mean it shouldnt be a big deal but I am afraid people with think i am a big flirt and stuff if i do that but i have a lot of good guys friends and i wanna be a best friend with one!Tell me what i should do (link)
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nothing wrong with it. im a guy and most of my close friends are girls.
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Hey I really wanna run for pres. of student counsil. But I'm not the most popular girl in school...im like the second. And the most popular girl is one of my friends. Should I still run? and if so what should I do to secure my spot in teh position? thanks for ur help!
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um run for vice president? or you can corun if the school allows it. sorry to tell you but student council elections are a popularity contest and the most popular person will win.
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im really confused.im a catholic and bieleve in everything it teaches.iv been baptised and confermed too.but i also beilieve in abortion.i think women should have the right to choose if they want.is this a sin? does this mean im goin to hell? pleaz answer. (link)
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well since im not catholic ill tell you that it isnt a sin, however most catholics will tell you that it is. you really shouldnt blindly accept your religion, make it your own. you can believe that a woman will have the right to choose, it is the actual abortion thats the sin. talk to you religious leader about it.
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I need a good way to study for my exam in Algebra 2...any suggestions? (link)
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program the formulas into your calculator.
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Hey, a couple months ago me and my boyfriend got caught having sex. I'm 15 years old and my parents were not too happy with me. They had no idea that I was sexually active before. They grounded me and told me that I could never see my boyfriend again, but I talked them into letting me stay with him, thats all taken care of but how can I gain their trust back? please help.. (link)
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if theyre letting you see him again then they trust you. jsut dont lie to them again.
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My best friend and I have known each other for a few years. Since we started high school, however, she has become really needy. She will "like" a guy but she won't do anything about it..then she'll blame them for not asking her out. It becomes the focus of her life and she gets really depressed if the guy doesn't 'pay her enough attention'. I've tried telling her that guys aren't the only thing in life and that her friends love her, etc..but she wont believe it and just uses it to show how 'unloved' and 'unlistened to' she is. What do I do? I don't want to end the friendship, but I'm tired of feeling used. (link)
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ask the guy out for her, be like "hey my friend is shy but she really likes you" then shell have nothing to complain about
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Hey! okay well heres my problem! School starts in like 10days so i dont have alot of time!! i originally was going to get homeschooled cuz i get teased alot about my weight n etc... but then my mom said no!! I was then going to attend a boarding school in Fresno, Ca.. but that was too expensive.. now I'm stuff with a public highschool or a private school.. im gonna start working on my weight once school starts bu i was htinki9ng fo to highschoo (my reg. one) in 10th n shock alot of ppl!! lol .. but now, should i go to a Private school or what is there any other ideas, alternatives, suggestions??? Thanks alot!! Also, if you go to a private school.. do u think I'd get judged more there or what??!?!?!? Thanks Again, xOxOxO (link)
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private school is worse, this is personal experiance talking here private school was hell i got teased about everything. anyways you will find friends in public school, there are more people and thus more chances to make friends. id recomend public school fo sho
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Well lets start off my saying im 13/f and I weigh 155.I use to weigh 165 but then I stopped eating and I lost 10 pounds and well not eating isn't very healthy for you body and ive tried exercising with correct eating and that still didn't help so I just completely stopped eating and I think I over exercised.I would exercise 3 or more times a day for an hour or more and well I know im going about this the wrong way.I hate the way I look when I look into the mirror and I hate when I go shopping and nothing fits.Im a size 13 in Jr.'s clothes.Most ppl tell me that Im just exagerating about how big I really am and well I might be but if you were in my position you probably wouldn't like the way you looked either.Anyways to get to the point I need another way to help myself to lose weight or to gain self-confidence and be happy about the way I look without becoming anorexic.I can still eat so Im not completely anorexic yet so I need help before I get to that point.If anyone has any advice once so ever plz give me it.And I think Im pretty and all but I just hate the way my stomach looks.So plz help.I'll rate good so plz just help.Thank you.
-Unhappy and Depressed about my weight (link)
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ok not eating is a very bad way to go about it. if you stop eating how long will you stop eating for? youll eventualy have to eat again and then youll gain back double what you lost. also theres something called glycogen in your muscles which can sustain your body for one day so the first day you will not loose any weight. my suggestion is the 90/10 diet + exercise. 90% of the time you eat healthy and 10% of the time you eat whatever you want. exercise regularly but not exesively and you will slowly, but healthily, loose weight
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well the thing is that most of my friends live far away and until i get my cell phone soon then i have no1 to tlk to at all except my fiancee whos away on business all the time..sumtimes i need sum1 to tlk to but there is no1 here to tlk to me cuz if i tlk to one of my sisters they all run their mouths and stuff and im jus confused cuz my sisters give good advice but sumtimes i jus need to tlk sum1 and not get all my business spread around..im jus sayin what do i do?..i mean sumtimes i really really need sum advice or sumthin but i have no1 to tlk to at all and it makes it hard for me.. (link)
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you can talk to people online in chatrooms or come here for advice. ive met many friends online and i talk to them often.
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