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How do I show him I won't stretch the truth? It's kind of hard to do that...he has a trust issue. I don't have any idea what could make him believe that I would never lie to him about anything and that I love him.

Well thats kinda tuff but i can try to help you out on this.. Just tell him first that you wish you could of talk about how he had this trust issue and how he didnt like you streching the truth and then you could of worked things out.. then say cause if you would of talked about it then that would of been a wake up call for you and you would of tried your hardest not to lie to him.. and that your sorry that you did that to him.. hope i helped some way ♥

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don't delete..i really don't know wat to do

one of my friends ..kinda..had this boyfriend and i knew him..and not to long ago he got my sn from the myspace and he told me who he was and we started talking ..well they broke up like so long ago..and the thing is my cuzin nows him and my cuzin best friends with his ex .and he likes me and i like him ..we wanna go out but i'm not sure if we should since ..it might start dramma with her and my cuzin with all for of us . and hes like 2 years older and my cuzin would probably think thats nasty ...wat can i do ?

Well i would find things out about him cause there goes two relationships he had that wasnt good and didnt last.. but talk to your cousin and your friend about how you feel and stuff. you got to think about them too cause they did go with him and could of had some sort of feelings for him but then again maybe not.. just find out things and then decide ♥

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Me and this girl Katie hung out all weekend. She wanted me to come over, but I had to wait till 3:30 (its wus 11:30 at the time) another girl Jessica called me and Katie to go to the pool, but Katie couldn't go b/c her parents couldnt drive hur to Jessica's house. So me and Jessica went to the pool and I feel bad for blowing off Katie, what should I do?

Your mean and you should feel bad..

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I'd tell you my name, but I want to keep this anonymous...so anyway, I have this problem with someone called, let's just say "Robert". Since last year, we had been going out for ten months, up until the 11th of May, when he quickly dumped me. He said that he wasn't happy with me, mainly because I have this little issue with stretching the truth....don't know why, I just do. I tried to tell him that I don't do that to him at all, and he wouldn't listen to me. He says that he still loves me and always will, but as of right now, he wants to be friends. It's been almost two weeks now and I understand where he's coming from, and I have tried to respect him and his decision, but I want to date him again. What should I do? I want him back.

Well maybe show him that youll stop stretching the truth.. but if that dont work id try to move on even though im sure that would be difficult.. much luv ♥

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I have had two periods in one month. Is this normal for a thirteen year old girl? I don't know what to do because the first one I had ended on the tenth of this month. Then, two days ago, I had one that ended TODAY! It only lasted two days but I skipped a lot of periods last year after I had first started my period. I don't know if this is normal. Is it? HELP! PLEASE DON'T BE RUDE ABOUT THIS BECAUSE I WILL KILL!
(JUST KIDDING...:-)) Seriously, though, if you're mature enough to answer a question like this, please do. I'm sick of this! HELP!

Yea some girls might have more then one period in a month.. nothing is wrong with you hun your having what some girls have sometimes.. no worries much luv ♥

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every one told me that my second period would most likley be late..but it was not..is this normal? and does that mean that most likley all my other periods will be on time to? thanks..i would appreciate any advice.

yea its okay if you have your period on time.. and it doesnt mean all your periods are going to come at the same time.. probably for a year or so it'll be a while til your periods are regular.. they could start being normal and thats okay too..

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Hey im a white guy, but i like the way black girls look. How do i get a hot black girl to have sex with me. I know that black guys supposedly have big dongs, but mine is 8 1/2. How do i show a black girl that i hae all the equipment of a black guy

Okay well i got alot of black guys friends actually most of them are black males.. and that isnt true about black males having bigger dicks then white or any race.. but also this is what you shouldnt do to impress a black female dont try to act all ghetto and ruff if your really not.. act yourself.. show that you have interest in her and treat her like you would any girl.. and when you talk to her dont breg about your 8 1/2 inches cause that will throw her off and not want to talk to you not unless she's a hoe or something.. but good luck if you need anymore advice leave it in my inbox.. much luv dez x0x0 ♥

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Could rope jumping be counted as cardio excersizes?

Yes

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ok if i have unprotected sex(stupid and dumb i know)...but the guy cums in my mouth and not in me....can i still have gotten pregnant?? i need serious SERIOUS help!

Apparently your young and stupid.. no you cant get pregnant..

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how does birth control work? should the guy still have a condom on if your on birth control? and how much does birth control cost?

Yea birth control deff works.. If you dont want STD's then yes use a condom.. but i believe if you think they might have something then you shouldnt have sex with the person anyways.. but it depends on your income.. i pay 14.99 for a pack of pills and it depends on what you get.. like what kind of form of birth contro lyou get.. such as the pill,shot or the patch.. ask a doctor they should help you out.. much luv dez x0x0 ♥

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im 16 im living with my boyfriend i know im (young its complicated)I was kind of pressured into having sex with my boyfriend i did say yes at the start but then changed my mind and told him i wernt ready he ignored me and carried on i tried to push him off he was to strong i started crying wen it was finished in the morning he acted like nothing was wrong and brought me a cuppa tea in the bed. was i raped? or am i just being a baby? what should i do

Yes you was raped... you didnt want to do it.. its easy as that.. you might of not said NO but you tried to push him and told him you didnt want to anymore same as sayin NO.. its rape..

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im 13 female and hes 15 male

me and my friend have known each other since forever and i havent talked to him in a while and then he called me a couple weeks ago and i went to his house yesterday and we talked for a long time.. well he called me at like 11:48 last night and we were talking and he was like you should come over to my house Saturday night and sleep over and stuff and then he was like what would we do adn then i was like idk and hes already experienced in that department and im not and well he wants to have sex with me and may i remind you hes 15 and im only 13 and i just dont know what to do because i dont want to have sex with him but then if i do i kno it will ruin our friendship and i dont want that to happen and if i dont i dont know what he will do because he might not talk to me ever again but i know you will say then hes not worth your friendship but i seriously do love him and i liked him ever since i was in 1st grade bc we hung out all the time and i just dont know... and if you dont want me to then what do i say to him to make him understand! please help me

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Wow thats sounds pretty messed up.. um deff dont have sex yea you might love him but like you said you might end up ruining your friendship and then you might also regret it.. and not having sex with him could also ruin your friendship too but you need to talk to him about this.. like tell him your two years younger not experienced and deff not ready yet.. tell him you think your to young and if you have sex with somebody you love then you want to be with them... trust me youd be more comfortable wouldnt feel easy either.. just tell him you dont exactly think that would be a good idea because you guys are such close firneds and if you ever did have sex with him youd want a relationship more then friends after you say that then most likely hell just be like okay because mainly that is what he wants to use you for.. he dont want to have sex with you because he cares and loves you he wants to have sex wiht you like for any reason guys want to have sex *just to have it* guys dont always have feelings for people when they have sex and dont get as attached as girls.. so deff talk to him about this whole thing.. much luv dez x0x0 ♥

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okay i went to the movies last night with my bestfriend. my bestfriend is a guy... we kissed and such because we had gone out b4. in th emovie theater he wanted me to give him a h.j. i wasentt all that comfortable right ?! so i didnt do it.. now hes like rly upset with me and i cant stand it when hes mad at me.. he asked me out and i said yes. (( again )) last time we broke up i got hurt rly bad so i was like "okay maybe he wont be the same" cz we got that close. he said hes gunna be grounded this summer so we cant chill.. we broke up later that night and now he wont talk that much to me cz i didnt give a h.j. but i said i would at school this week (( only 3 days left of school ))
is that bad .. what should i do ?

dont do somethng that your not comfortable with.. if he cant respect that then he deff isnt a good friend cause he should be like okay thats fine.. i think if you do something like that with him then you should do it privacy not somewhere where you can get caught.. much luv dez x0x0 ♥

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There's this guy @ school, Derek, who I'm friends with, and I've known him for a few years.. and I've been in love with him for the past 2 years. School just ended, and I just can't comprehend the thought that I won't see him again for another 3 months. The thought of it makes me nauseus, and I get depressed. Last night I cried myself to sleep because I missed Derek so much.. and school just ended yesterday. He doesnt have a cell fone, but I have his house #. I wanna call him, but I don't wanna sound dumb. Ive never called him before, and he doesnt have my number. I dont know what to do.. I just really wanna see him, or atleast talk to him. I'm going to go crazy this summer if I dont. What should I do? Btw im really shy :/

Well you should call him.. just be like hey whats up this is ****** your name and ask how he's doing and stuff then be like what you doin this weekend would you like to hang out and do something.. then maybe keep goin on with a conversation after he answers like if he says yes ask what he'd like to do.. if he says no say maybe some other time then if he has an excuse.. much luv dez x0x0 ♥

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how do i get rid of stress. like a stress reliever. if it matters it is over boy troubles. Thx!!!! plz answer.

Working out reduces stress

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Can you be in love with someone, and not be physically attracted to them?

Yes.. okay i know my boyfriend isnt the best looking and girls have their little remarks bout him and guys too of course.. like say im too pretty for him and shit but i dont care if people think he's cute little things to me are adorable.. and i love him for being himself.. it is completely possible to love somebody your not attracted to.. but eventually you'll probably find things that attract you to him maybe not looks but something bout his personailty

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well my friend that i liked this year asked if i was coming to school the last day of school ...i said that there was no point becasue we get there at 8:00 and leave at 9:30 and were only going to be allowed in are first hour class and watch a movie ..he said that it would be my last time for me to see him and that he wanted to see me.i like him alot ..i was gonna kiss him but i think that would be to werid wat can i do ?! please help me

get his mumber before the last day of school and hang out sometime..

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Anyone know how to french kiss? Im a fourteen year old girl whos frenching someone for the first time today please help!!!I rate high :c)

go with the flow... ♥

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okay im 16and me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 2 years now we had a massive argument da ova day and he put a knife to my throat and ses he would kill me if i shouted at him like that again i really like him thought and he dont always act like that but now im scared just to have an argument with him ive talked 2 him about it and he ses im being stupid bt i dont wana break up with him what do i do?

Sounds to me your in love and your stuck you need to do something before you end up in the hospital or worse.. much luv dez x0x0 ♥

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ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i really love him. he has only had sex with one girl. but many times. they broke up long be fore we got together. so just say i lost my virginity to him do you think he would have any kind of std from having sex with just that ONE other girl.?? like do u think theres a chance of him having an STD, from that one girl and then having sex with me and then all of a sudden i get it??? thanks i rate HIGHHH

Yes that is POSSIBLE.. but if he used a condom i dont think you have to really worry about it.. hun just tell him to get tested before having sex with him.. that way you have no worries and stress.. thats the best thing you can do.. much luv dez xoxo ♥

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