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should i call him?


Question Posted Saturday May 21 2005, 11:41 am

There's this guy @ school, Derek, who I'm friends with, and I've known him for a few years.. and I've been in love with him for the past 2 years. School just ended, and I just can't comprehend the thought that I won't see him again for another 3 months. The thought of it makes me nauseus, and I get depressed. Last night I cried myself to sleep because I missed Derek so much.. and school just ended yesterday. He doesnt have a cell fone, but I have his house #. I wanna call him, but I don't wanna sound dumb. Ive never called him before, and he doesnt have my number. I dont know what to do.. I just really wanna see him, or atleast talk to him. I'm going to go crazy this summer if I dont. What should I do? Btw im really shy :/

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Additional info, added Saturday May 21 2005, 11:59 am:
If i DO call him, what should I say? Should I ask him to hang out, or not? And btw, he isn't really friends with my friends..

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SoftballxBuddy answered Sunday May 22 2005, 9:25 pm:
aww thats cute. if your madly in love with this guy just quit worrying! call him .. but dont make it sound too - planed , ya know? just talk about things like .. who do you want as a teacher next year or are you going anywhere for vacation? by then he should say something , or just YOU can randomly bring it up. BEST OF LUCK!!

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xosweetiepiexo answered Saturday May 21 2005, 4:53 pm:
what do you have to lose? iF you don't at least try calling, then your just gonna be miserable all summer which would stink, call him and say "hey, I wanted to know if you wanted to come hang out with me and a few other people, and you can bring your friends too." since he isn't really friends with your friends, you can let him invite his also and you'll all get to know eachother and you'll start hanging out on a daily basis.

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>_Ashlie!_< answered Saturday May 21 2005, 3:24 pm:
go for it! call him... most people miss out b/c they are afriad to say how they feel.. you've got to overcome your shyness and just talk to him, you'll feel better if you do

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MaScArA_xo_TeArz answered Saturday May 21 2005, 2:05 pm:
If school just ended and you miss him as much as you do now then shoot call him up ask him to hang out chill or what ever .... if you dont know what to say ... just act like you guys are at school and your talking to him like you guys are face to face and just say " hey whats up? I was wondering if your not doing any thing this week if you wanted to hang out ?" and just go with the flo from there

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VanityScore answered Saturday May 21 2005, 12:48 pm:
If I were you, I'd call him. I call my guy friends all the time, it's not too much of a deal for me.. but my friends have trouble with it. Usually, when they want to call a guy and ask him to hang out or something, I'm there, because ussually I'm the person who talks them into calling him. Or just for support, or whatever else. It's easier to call people when someone else is there.

Ask him to hang out. Say something like "Did you hear about 'name of movie here' (pick something he'd probably be interested in)? I really want to see it.. but, like, all of my friends are busy this weekend... yea, so I was wondering if you wanted to go?" Ask casually, make sure he has a good time, and there's a good chance he'll ask you to hang out next time (even if it is just as friends.)

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ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday May 21 2005, 12:41 pm:
Well you should call him.. just be like hey whats up this is ****** your name and ask how he's doing and stuff then be like what you doin this weekend would you like to hang out and do something.. then maybe keep goin on with a conversation after he answers like if he says yes ask what he'd like to do.. if he says no say maybe some other time then if he has an excuse.. much luv dez x0x0 &hearts;

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Casey answered Saturday May 21 2005, 12:31 pm:
heyyy its alright to be shy and to worry you wont see your friends over the summer!!! just think even if you didnt call him youd probably see him anyway right? think if all your friends went to the mall he'd tag along right? youd see him there... but i still think you should call him! friends call eachother all the time! its totally normal chicka! just call him like a friend and he'll think nothing of it! that way it wont be such a big deal and you wont have to feel shy!!! i say just call him hun, we all get a little nervous before we cal the guys we like for the first time.. its gonna be alright!!

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beachbarbie721 answered Saturday May 21 2005, 12:16 pm:
wow...2 years is a long time...how do you hold something like that in...i say call him! tell him how much he means to you. it's okay to be shy but if you want him to know bad enough, tell him. if it doesnt work out- it wasnt meant to be. it's tough. but that's love. however it if does work out - you'll be sooo glad you called and told him.
I hope that helped.
-&hearts; Me

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imsexyx0x0x answered Saturday May 21 2005, 11:49 am:
heyyy its alright to be shy and to worry you wont see your friends over the summer!!! just think even if you didnt call him youd probably see him anyway right? think if all your friends went to the mall he'd tag along right? youd see him there... but i still think you should call him! friends call eachother all the time! its totally normal chicka! just call him like a friend and he'll think nothing of it! that way it wont be such a big deal and you wont have to feel shy!!! i say just call him hun, we all get a little nervous before we cal the guys we like for the first time.. its gonna be alright!! x00x0x hope i helpedx0x0x

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