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im 16 im living with my boyfriend i know im (young its complicated)I was kind of pressured into having sex with my boyfriend i did say yes at the start but then changed my mind and told him i wernt ready he ignored me and carried on i tried to push him off he was to strong i started crying wen it was finished in the morning he acted like nothing was wrong and brought me a cuppa tea in the bed. was i raped? or am i just being a baby? what should i do
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yes, you were raped...but i think you should talk to him about it, and if he truly dose understand, and nothing else happens hopefully things will work out, and if he dosnt undersatnd, and this continues, id recomend taking police action
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as long as you said no very clearly you were raped make sure to get a pregnancy test follow ur heart to decide what to do u dont want to be livng on the street
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If you clearly stated that you didn't want to do it and you said "No" then you were raped. You really should report this.
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If you made it cleaR to him you wanted him to stop, and he did not Respect youR wish and kept it up... YES.. that IS ABSOLUTELY 100% RAPE!!! RepoRt this..
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yes you were, so since he raped you you could call the police, & if he is over 18, then file for stagatory rape (having sex with a minor) & rape, & so then he'd really be in trobble, so to answer your question, yes you were raped
-Cameron
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At any point in time that you state "no" and it is continued, then it is considered rape. You are not a baby, your feelings were not considered and you were technically violated. The easiest solution would be to remove yourself out of that situation completely, not sure if you have that option or not.
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If you said no and he did it anyway then yes you were raped.
First of all you need to find someplace else to live. You can threaten him with the cops if he does it again. You can also report this past event. I don't know how it would go though... sorta depends on how long ago it happened. A report on record is a good thing though even if you don't choose to follow through with the charges at this time.
You are not being a baby. MOVE OUT NOW!!! :)
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You told him no, you said you weren't ready for it. You were raped, and you can file a statuatory rape report against him and have him arrested. Of course, you will have to go through tests and blood samples, to prove that he actually had intercourse with you.. and you will have to go through lie detector tests (and so much more)but if you want justice, it will be worth it.
You should move out of that house. Move back in with your parents, or grandparents, or even to an orphanage. Whatever you do, just get out of there. Obviously, you're not exactly safe. I'd go to the police station and tell them... that way you're out of the house, in case your boyfriend decides to walk in at that time. You don't even have to file the report if you don't want to, just get out of there, and break it off with this creep.
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sounds like it was.. really, you should bring it up and say something to him about it :( im so sorry to hear that hun.
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You were raped. He can go to jail for this, it's statuatory rape. File a police report now!!
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Yes you was raped... you didnt want to do it.. its easy as that.. you might of not said NO but you tried to push him and told him you didnt want to anymore same as sayin NO.. its rape..
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YES you were definately raped. None of this is your fault..even if you say yes at first and then you say no, stop..HE MUST STOP.! you always have the right to say stop it..and if he doesnt stop, its rape. So what should you do now? well you need to tell your mom, a guidance counselor, close relative, police, some adult! dont say you cant because you love him and he loves you..because if he loved you, he would not have raped you. You need to tell someone so he gets in trouble..otherwise, further down the road he will rape other women..hes on the road to becoming a rapist..he will probably do it again..put a stop to that! They have places by me called Plan Parenthood ..and there you can talk to social workers and professionals for free ...you can be in a group of other girls who are in the same boat as you..find a hotline and call...get the police on him..something!
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Yes that is date rape and this is when they force themselves on you, when you say no. This is not only wrong but you can also press charges, if it is really serious. No you are not a baby you did not want this and you refused. You did nothing wrong. It was not your fault and don't ever think it was. If I were you I would press charges. I am so sorry hun..
~Hope I was of Help~
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you said no, and he continued, you were rapped who only wnats you for something that you didn't want to do.
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in my eyes i would say you was raped as you told him you wernt ready and you didnt wana do it he stil ignored you and done it without your consent even if use didnt have sex but he done something sexual to you without you wanting him to could be classed as rape i say tell someone and get out of that relationship he thinks he has power over you and he is in control but show him hes wrong
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