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is it possible..


Question Posted Thursday May 19 2005, 10:59 pm

Can you be in love with someone, and not be physically attracted to them?

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orphans answered Sunday May 22 2005, 6:35 pm:
Yes. It's called platonic love. I love my friend, but do I want to jump on them? No.

If you mean romantic love, then I think it could happen. It's odd to think about since so much of romantic relationships revolve on physicality, but I guess it may happen.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday May 20 2005, 7:56 pm:
Yes.. okay i know my boyfriend isnt the best looking and girls have their little remarks bout him and guys too of course.. like say im too pretty for him and shit but i dont care if people think he's cute little things to me are adorable.. and i love him for being himself.. it is completely possible to love somebody your not attracted to.. but eventually you'll probably find things that attract you to him maybe not looks but something bout his personailty

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i_define_weird answered Friday May 20 2005, 7:19 pm:
Yup, you definately can. You don't have to fall in love with someone with just because of their looks. You can fall in love with someone's personality/character. hope i helped.

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loser1028 answered Friday May 20 2005, 1:57 pm:
yeah. it's called personality you dumb shallow biotch. thanks

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kim___xXx answered Friday May 20 2005, 12:44 pm:
hey yes of course.you can be in love with there personality it isnt just looks you fall in love with.
love kim

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Poppsie answered Friday May 20 2005, 12:01 pm:
Course you can just becuase you might not find them physical attractive can still mean you are in love with them becuase you have looked past there beauty and you love this person because of their personality not there looks. Would you rather go out with a not the best looks but has a great personal;ity and humour or a really pretty person with a horrible bad personality? Its up to you. But i think you did the right thing by looking past their apperance and looking more at their personality. Hope this helped.!!

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mrs_radcliffe answered Friday May 20 2005, 11:34 am:
Yes of course you can just because you dont think there attractive doesnt mean they havent got a great humour or personality.

luv roxie
♥

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LoveNJstyle answered Friday May 20 2005, 10:16 am:
YES! it is possible! that shows that its not just about the apperence. good 4 u! <3

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S_C answered Friday May 20 2005, 6:24 am:
If you're really truly in love, then physical appearance just disappears. You start to think they're the prettiest person in the world.
That might be possible, but I'm not sure whether I believe that.
I believe that if you love someone, you love EVERYTHING about them.
I mean it might be possible, it truly might, but usually when you fall in love you fall in love with everything. Have you ever realized that when you think someone is really cute, then they do something really mean to you they start getting uglier and uglier? Well it can work the other way around too. Like you were originally attracted to the personality, but once you started to really like the person they became prettier and prettier (or cuter and cuter)

So as I said, it could be possible, but I'm not sure.

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Van_10 answered Friday May 20 2005, 3:18 am:
hi there
when yo usee someone the first thing you go fo ris the physical attraction, but that fades when that fades what is there to love

to me love comes from within , not based on physical appearance so the answer is yes it is possible to love someone you arent physically attracted to , beauty beauty is only skin deep, true beauty comes from the heart

Take care and God Bless

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ShYbl0nD3 answered Friday May 20 2005, 12:28 am:
yea i think its possible but im not sure how often it happens.

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dancer_freak05 answered Thursday May 19 2005, 11:49 pm:
Totaly!

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Peachgirly answered Thursday May 19 2005, 11:30 pm:
yes, it is possible. remember that if someones isn't that great looking you can still be attracted to them by their inner looks and personality. &hearts; Peachgirly

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Mackenzie answered Thursday May 19 2005, 11:28 pm:
Absolutely. TheRe is MUCH moRe depth to love than physical appeaRance...

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shake answered Thursday May 19 2005, 11:28 pm:
Yes. You can also be innocent in your white-T

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chocolate_lover answered Thursday May 19 2005, 11:27 pm:
yeah....
horomones can force anything on you. love is a very complex issue.
-hope i helped

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Pinkymeowcat answered Thursday May 19 2005, 11:18 pm:
OF COURSE!!! Remember, it's what matters on the inside not the out. NEVER judge a book by it's cover. :)

Luv ya
Hope I helped
The Fab
~Pinkymeowcat~ <3

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Sporkster answered Thursday May 19 2005, 11:07 pm:
Yes. Love is much more complex than physical attraction. It's a combination of mental connection, physical attraction, understanding, and friendship.

<3 Sporkster

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