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When do you first start going to the gynecologist?

there are several different reasons people go...theyre sexually active, they have irregular periods, need to be put on birth control, have extreme pms symptoms or are considering becomming pregnant. those are the ones i can think of besides theyre 18. it varies for everyone.

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im sooo tiried of people at school calling a slut or a bra stuffer just i have big breast doesn tmean i stuff my bra. and i have been going out with alot of guys and the baddest part is that i went out with three best friends and i broke their friend ship do you guys think that i should try to not have a boy freind for a while so that people could stop calling me a slut??????

yeah maybe you should stop going out with guys for a while. as for the bra thing, people are jealous...it happens. i told someone this a while ago but one of my classmates was getting crap about that so she said "bring her over here and let me prove it to her." thats all it took for the subject to never comeup again. yeah she was lucky but im sure it could work for you. just dont mess around with guys especially in public places.

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As it gets warmer outside I start wanting to buy a summer dress. This happens every year but I haven't had a proper summer dress since I was 11 years old. I'm 18 now.

Every dress I try on either doesn't fit properly or is just plain unflattering. I'm 5'9 and I weigh around 14 stone. I take a (British) size 18 because i have a large bust. My measurements are as follows Bust=111 cm, Underbust=96cm, Waist=87cm and Hips=110cm. I have basically got an hourglass figure but I'm plumb and buxom to go with it.

My appearence is pretty low maintenence so something quite simple would probably be best.If neccessary I can make the dress myself from a sewing pattern as I just got a sewing machine.

What cut of dress would be flattering and suit my figure?

im not great with metrics for body measuments although i should be anywayy try a lot of them on. as for figure, i think you should try one that has a high waist to show or you hourglass figure. try thincker fabrics too. or you could also go "a-line". if they simply dont make one that you are comfortable in, buy a cute skirt with a matching top. or you could go diy and make it yourself. cute and original! let me know if you interested in that...

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I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO.... i dont have a shirt to match my jeans! help.... what color looks best with jeans... FASHION IS EVERYTHING!

basically ANYTHING can match with jeans. seriously, it does. so just find a top that is clean and fits, put it on a vuallllaa! youve got an outfit!

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Me and my boyfriend went to the movies last week. Just me and him.

:sigh: he just wanted to get in your pants. if he doesnt like you after you arent sure if you wanna do anything like that then hes only there for one thing. sorry if thats disappointing to you.

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what are some tips to make me a better kisser? guys espcially:: what is your favorite thing when a girl kisses you?

suggested reading: August issue of seventeen has a whole article on the do's and dont's of kissing. if you cant get ahold of a copy, try seventeen.com !!

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How can I make 200$$ in a week. Witth -out baby sitting, paper routes, and a job?

you could clean out your closets and sell old junk for some cash to resale stores or just have a garage sale.

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Hey! My username is x_pink_x109 and I wanted to let you know that I added you as my favorite columnist! I ♥ Your advice!

sweetness!! i ♥ being a favorite!! wOOt wOOt! anything you need, ask awayyyy!

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after being fingered for the first time, i had this brown liquid come out, is that normal, if not could you tell me what i should do?

well im guessing he popped your cherry so it would be blood. it could be that you are on your period and its just menstual fluid. i think it is normal...wear a pad so you dont get stains on everything. www.about.com

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This years camp play was supposed to be Annie. I wanted to be annie so bad! But the counciler said I was really good. So I got the part. The next day on stage I was getting my costume on. The tiny red dress, just didnt fit. It ripped in half! I mean I know im overweight but I have never ripped clothes before! What do I do to get a new dress? I cant buy one! The play is 3 nights! HELP!

hmm i think the costume people should have made adjustments. ask them where they got it and go to the costume store and tell them what happened or get a rental costume. good luck!

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I have a little brother who is 6 years old. His name is Denis. I love him and all, but.. he's a weirdo. He's overweight.. he's only 6 and hes 114 lbs. I dont know how to tell him he's overweight without hurting his feelings. It's kind of cute though.. I call him my little oompa loompa. Hehe. Well, please give me much advice. Thanks much!

-Cynthia

aww!! well set a good example, get him involved in sports, play with him in the back yard to get him moving then make tasty healthy snacks. hope this helps!

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um like i'm to embaressed to buy k.y warming gel or w/e but what else could i use to lube up my fingers like would vasaline be okay or what? URGENT lol

yeah i think vaseline is an ok lube.

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My boyfriend fingered me three days ago, and I guess he must have done it harder than usual, because when he pulled his finger out, it was covered in blood, and *down there* was a little bit bloody. I have been bleeding a little bit since then, but not that much. I don`t think that it wasn`t my period, because I just had it like a week ago. Could it have been my cherry that was popped, or what?!?!

yeah he popped you cherry or if your not regular yet it could be your period. nothin to worry about.

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Heyy. On my page, my profile doesn't show up! If anyone could help, I realy appericate it! I'll rate high to any advice! Thanks!!

it doesnt show up on anyones...just wait a while till it gets fixed by admins.

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what is orgasm...like people are talkin about it and stuff and i dont get it...plz help...thx in advance....

*/Confused/*

lucky for you i know where to look for an actual definition: An orgasm is a few seconds of intense physical pleasure that is the climax or end point of sexual stimulation. Many girls have experienced it and can identify the feeling clearly. Others, who may not know what to look for, may be having orgasms but not know it.

There's never been a really good description of exactly how an orgasm feels. Sometimes people say it's like a sneeze but a lot better. Some people say it lasts much longer than a few seconds, other people say it's a series of very quick spasms. Everyone is different.
^www.beinggirl.com try that if you need anything else!

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I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes him too I think I should tell her that I am goin out with him or should I not But we tell each other like every thing

I will RATED YOU HIGH
Please help mee

Always
Mee

i think you should tell her before she finds out. do it nicely tho...

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Hey Everyone. Well i went to someone with this same question on a different site.. but i wanted to see what others thought too.Um before i start..My name is Katie,im a girl lol, & im 14. Okay, well..My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over a year now. Well i have a friend we used to be like best friends, but kinda grew apart. Somewhere along the way.. my friend lets say her name isssss..um..Jane.Anyway like i was saying, somewhere along the way Jane & my boyfriend started being "best friends". Well he calls her everyday & stuff. It sorta makes me feel bad. Now i duno whats the real story behind this.. but ive asked them before if they had a little more something going on.. but they both said no. i wana believe them.. i really do. But for some reason i have a little bit of doubt.And once i even heard he asked her out when we broke up but of course we got back together. I feel like a jealous girlfriend. Am i over-reacting? Soo what do you guys think.. do they like each other & if you think so..what should i do?? im so confused.PLEASE HELP!Thanks so much!!!

if you ask them if they had somthing going on and they didnt think it was "anything" (friends with benefits type thing) then yeha they have the right to said no, nothing happend. its ok to be jealous...this girl is a bit overly involved with your guy. it can happen to the best of tho. just tell your guy that it kinda bugs you & leave it at that. if he doesnt do anything or nothing changes, break up with the guy. hope this helps!

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well I was going with this guy and i had stayed after school and I had told my parents that I was staying for tutoring but I was really staying with him we made out but then all of a sudden he grabbed my hand stuck it in his pants I told him I didn't want to but then he let my hand go and then you know what happend I gave him a hand job I felt really bad I stil do cause you know I have parents what should I do

jerk! he shouldnt do that if you dont want to. as for your parents..why do they need to know? "hey mom i was in the bathroom with this guy and i gave him a handjob" will lead to some interesting things. forgive yourself and promise yourself youll be stronger next time something like this happens. thats pretty much all you can do...you cant erase it. if your parents knew, they couldnt do anything either.

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I can't get my profile to show up on my column
:-/ what should i do!!!!!!! I tried erasing it a few times and then retyping the whole thing!It happened when i changed the colors of my background... Thanks...
XSugarpieX77

yeah i have the same problem and i asked about it last night...it should be back soon. i think it happened to all the column...the featured columnist has a prob too.

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Okkaay so mah breeasts r kinda like pointy..like not round like every1 elses and i was wonderin if any1 elses were like dat..is there a way 2 make them more round? thanx..

its just a stage in development. try a molded bra with very little padding.

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