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More than friends?..sry its kinda long
Hey Everyone. Well i went to someone with this same question on a different site.. but i wanted to see what others thought too.Um before i start..My name is Katie,im a girl lol, & im 14. Okay, well..My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over a year now. Well i have a friend we used to be like best friends, but kinda grew apart. Somewhere along the way.. my friend lets say her name isssss..um..Jane.Anyway like i was saying, somewhere along the way Jane & my boyfriend started being "best friends". Well he calls her everyday & stuff. It sorta makes me feel bad. Now i duno whats the real story behind this.. but ive asked them before if they had a little more something going on.. but they both said no. i wana believe them.. i really do. But for some reason i have a little bit of doubt.And once i even heard he asked her out when we broke up but of course we got back together. I feel like a jealous girlfriend. Am i over-reacting? Soo what do you guys think.. do they like each other & if you think so..what should i do?? im so confused.PLEASE HELP!Thanks so much!!!
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Nooo your not jealous most girlfriends are kinda like that becoz they actually trust their boyfriends but if he pays more attention to her then you and talks to her mor than you then i wouldnt even go out with him!
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Alright, here's what I think. I have a boyfriend right now who is best friends with a girl, we'll call her Jill. Jill was his first friend when they moved to this town, and they're always there for eachother, like /best/ friends, always. When I first found this out, I would feel a little twinge of jealousy, like everyone in his family knows her, they do a lot together, and he'll give her a hug when they say goodbye because now they live farther away from eachother. Plus, she once asked him to go to her prom, (when we weren't dating), so I was a little uneasy. But then I realized that I trust my boyfriend no matter what. Plus, when he invites her to go places, he also invites me, and when he invites me, we go alone. I just really paid attention to things and realized that Jill and him really were best friends...she would tease him about (finally) getting a girlfriend and give him advice, and things like that. Anyways, just pay attention to the little things your bf and Jane do, and you should be able to figure out what's going on. Hope this helps.
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Maybe you should try to figure out whats going on between them.This happend to be once before and i didn't seem to like it much.The only thing you can seem to do is figure out what they do when they talk or hang out with out you and make sure theres nothing between them.
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If it bugs you, then tell your boyfriend and your friend, then maybe they would stop. But if it doesn't stop, dump your boyfriend and let your friend and him get together. I know, it will make you heartbroken to move on, but they are other fish in the sea!
Hope I helped!
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if you ask them if they had somthing going on and they didnt think it was "anything" (friends with benefits type thing) then yeha they have the right to said no, nothing happend. its ok to be jealous...this girl is a bit overly involved with your guy. it can happen to the best of tho. just tell your guy that it kinda bugs you & leave it at that. if he doesnt do anything or nothing changes, break up with the guy. hope this helps! <3
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You have to follow your heart on this one. Since you find it hard to believe them when they say nothing is going on, it's possible there is something going on.
Tell your boyfriend that it makes you uncomfortable that he's talking to another guy daily. Tell your friend that you'd prefer she not talk to your boyfriend so much. If he truly cares about you and your friend is a true friend, they will either stop the daily calls or include you in their conversations. If they keep it up after you talk to them, I would consider finding a new friend and a new boyfriend since they obviously don't care how you feel.
On a side note, sometimes it's good for your friends and boyfriend to be friends. One of my best friends talked to my boyfriend often and even got us back together once when we split up. It was nice since they both cared about me and if there was a problem in my relationship, my boyfriend and I could both go to this friend for advice.
Good luck.
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aww sweety dont go over your head
ok lets start from this do you completely trust your boyfriend? if no and you have a really strong feeling that something is actually going on behind your back you should get someone to spy on them lol i know this sounds crazy but if you really wanna know if there is anything going on bacause i doubt if there is somehting going on they will tell you
ask his friends
but if you really do trust your boyfriend let it go maybe they are just really good friends
let me know how it goes
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Wow alright, first of all.. you need to be able to trust you boyfriend, but most importantly a BEST FRiiEND. Trust is key in relationships. And if you cant trust either of them.. then thats a problem to begin with. But sometimes jealousy causes us to by iffy about our trust with people. So if i were you i'd talk to you're boyfriend && best friend.. and let them know that you dont mind if they talk, and hang out, but you'd prefer them to hang out if you were there too. Admit that you get jealous, that way they know that it bothers you. If they continue to hang out alone, they have no respect for you're feelings and they should be dropped. <3 Good luck , you deserve better--
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No i don`t think your over-reactinq bk i would probablly be thinkinq the same thinq. Okay it sounds like you and "jane" like aren`t freinds at all anymore. So she could have purpouslly tried to go out of her way to spend more time with YOUR boyfriend and maybe he didn`t relize how much she was hittinq on him. I don`t think he`s doinq anythinq but i whink she could be. Like callinq eachother day is kidna stranqe i meen really... your the qirlfriend, not her. if you need more help my sn is BR0KiN x PR0MiSE invite me in a CHAT bk i can`t talk on AIM it`s messed up. sorry hope i helped !=( courtney plz rate !
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