ok, I've been goin out with this guy for a little over 3 months, he's 16 and he can drive and I'm 15. It's summer so he's always tellin me how he's really buisy, I never see him anymore b/c he says he's always gone... in someways he sounds a little "overly" buisy. He lives like 8 minutes away from me, and he's only come to see me one time ALL summer. When we first started goin out I liked him sooo much that I made the mistake of telling him i would never break up with him... Things aren't working out and I don't feel the same about him, but I don't want to hurt him and I don't know how to break up with him in the right way. I don't want him to think I'm a liar and I regret tellin him that cuz I should have known it wouldn't last forever... What should I do?
Everyone always says they will never break up because at the beg. everything is always good then starts falling apart.I don`t think he will think your a liar because you shuld tell him why your breaking up then he should understand bcus what`s the point of having a boyfriend if you only see him ONE time the whole summer when he lives 8 mins away..Just tell him how you feel & see if you and him can see each other more & if not then break up.♥
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ok so i have a girlfriend and she loves me to death and i love her too but we've been together fer almost a year. Things are starting to wind down and my g/f is noticing that and she's affraid of us breaking up. What if it gets so bad that we never see each other anymore. I will admit that i'm kinda un-falling in love. i'm starting to not love her day by day because i'm noticing all these things that she does because she knows me too well. it gets annoying sometimes tho i liked it better when we were complete strangers ( well not complete strangers). If it gets that we just grow appart how would i break up with her because if i do she'll be crying her eyes out. she does that everytime she thinks we are falling apart. how do i break up with her without all the tears?
HELP ME
sincerely, someone u don't know
Aw .. well it seems like you two are falling apart & you can`t just wait and break up.All girls cry when a guy breaks up with them that`s just how we are..she will cry and then get over it sooner or later.Just call her or have a your good friend tell her..you can't just not break up because your afriad she will cry...just tell her you two will still be good friends,make it sound not so bad ♥
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So..there's this gurl & i guess we're " best friends" well like 1 min. she'll be fine w/ you and then the next she goes crazy and talks behind ur back and says all this crap about you that's not true!
I don't know what to do because i thought we were friends...?
Confused.
She is deff not a true friend..friends don`t talk behind your back.You don`t need to be friends with her if shes doing that.Next time she talks about you or behind your back you need to shut her up and then she will see that you are serious and want her to stop.♥
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Ok so me and my bf have sex like everytime we are together. Its not that I dont like it or anything like that but I would like to ave a great day with him with having to have sex. Is there something wrong with that? And how can I tell him this without making him feel bad?
Oh wow..just tell him what you just told me that its not that you don`t like it that you just want a great day with out sex.He should understand because that doesn't make him feel bad and it`s saying it in a nice way.♥
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im 12 and i dont shave my legs yet and its soo embarassing !! im just too scared and embarassed to ask my mom about it .. over here its been like 90 degrees and i`ve been wearing jeans! i can`t wear capris or shorts or anything because of my legs. and i just can`t talk to her it`s too embarassing. she doesn`t talk to me about this stuff so i don`t think that she`ll be bringing up the subject all of a sudden. i also dont wanna shave behind her back pleasee help me
~hairy 4 life~
Aw.. well the only thing you can do if talk to it`s not even that embarassing.Your 12 and should be able to shave it's something all girls do tell her you want to be able to wear capris and shorts like everyone else I`m sure your mom will understand..♥
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i'm getting braces soon. i don't know what color to get. i like the colors baby blue, light green, and baby pink, although i'm afraid those colors will bring too much attention to my mouth. will they? what colors are good so the braces arn't as noticeable. nothing vibrant like hot pink right?
You can get a bright color because in a week or 2 they fade and go light. I usually get colors that aren`t so bright like white or gray sometimes people don`t notice them that much.In the summer its cute to get bright colors but its really all up to you ♥
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ok recently, my relationship with my mom has gone pretty much down the tubes.... it always seems like ive done something wrong or shes just mad at me idk... i am pretty moody a lot and i get mad and storm off and then when i come back shes like giving me the silent treatment... its annoying me and whenever im in a good mood, she just like looks all sad which makes me mad.. idk its strange but is there anything that i can do??
13/f btw...
thanks
Same with me and my mom just try to ignore her for a while and what ever she says do it then go to your room and do other stuff.The more you fight with her she will get worse.If you don`t feel like ignoring her sit down and talk to her maybe theres something going on and shes hiding it just talk to her about it.But thats just how most moms are..♥
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I'm 17 & been with my boyfriend who's 18 for awhile now and we have an amazing connection. Our relationship is healthy, fun, and still growing. I'm a virgin, he's not. He's not exactly pressuring me, but when we're both in the mood he'll want to go further. I feel like I lead him on too. How do I tell him it will happen but for now, I'm not ready and pressuring me doesn't help.
Just sit down with him one day and tell him it will happen just not now. He should understand because if you just hide what you want to say chances are it might happen anyway.Since you said you lead him on maybe he thinks that you want to just talk to him about it.♥
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i'm a 16/m and
i dunno if this is in the right category or not but is it fine that i'm a guy and i shave...everywhere besides armpits and bellow the knees???
i mean i'm pretty athletic looking and really fit...so i thought its just a normal athlete thing.
but some people notice and ask me and its kinda embarassing. some girls like it. some think i'm a freak. i just dont know what to think about it.
i guess i just like the smooth look, body hair is wierd.
It`s really all up to you .. who cares what people think do what you want ♥
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Ive been with this guy for a few months over a year now. We have our ups and downs, but lately i dont feel a connection. We will probably get it back and im not too worried. I have problems getting over past boyfriends. I still have feelings for them long after we break up. I have managed to get over all of them but one. And my feelings are building. He was my first serious relationship. We broke up because i didnt feel i was ready for it. However now i am much more comfortable with sex and that and i think we could really make it work. (im 15, my boyfriend is 17, and my ex is 14) Last night i told my ex i missed him and we remminissed about are time together. He asked me out, saying i didnt seem too happy with my current boyfriend. Which i guess is true. I was thinking about telling my boyfriend i wanted to break up for a couple months or so. Just to get some space and if we got back together we would appreciate eachother more. I feel we take eachother for granted. I would make it clear that we could see other people because im not going to make him be single for that long and its up to him if he has another realtionship. I have already suggested this and he said it was up to me and we are talking properly tonight. I would then say yes to my ex so we could try and make things work and if i couldnt then i would probably finally be able to get over him and no it really wasnt meant to be. I need some input. Am i being mean? What do you guys think i should do? Thanks xxxx
I don`t think your being mean at all if after you break up with someone you still have feelings for them chances are you still like him.. and for your boyfriend now just be honest with him and tell him the truth. I think you and your ex have a thing for each other & aren't ready to move on & thats perfectly normal and pretty dang cute. ♥
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hi im kate
i have a boyfriend called alex and we used to be really happy together. now we always seem to fight all the time
i can't take it anymore. i really don't know what to do
i have tried talking to him but can't talk with out fighting
please can you help
i would really appreciate it
thankyou
from
kate
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Sounds so familiar .. if two can't talk with out fighting chanced are you two aren't meant to be together.I know it sounds gay but it's true.Talk to him once more and tell him if you two don't stop you will break up with him .. maybe he will stop , if not then just break up because you might be wasting time like I was. ♥
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How do I cut holes in my jeans to look "natuaral"?
You take sand paper and move it left to right,but make sure you have something under it so you don`t mess up the back of your jeans.♥
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I'm a little on the ugly side if you ask me.
I don't have a boyfriend ; while all my friends do and I feel left out. It's getting to the point where I'm moody and depressed ALL the time ; and it sucks. I really want a boyfriend. How can I make myself more attractive and look better.
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Also I have another question; My best friend always talks about her boyfriend and it pisses me off. I've told her to stop because it makes me feel left out but she still hasn't. (I've told her many of times) How can I make her stop?
1.Don`t say your ugly because you probbly aren`t you might just think that.Sooner or later a perfect guy will come to you but you shouldn`t be worried about not having a boyfriend it's better being single.Just spend more time putting on make up and doing your hair but don`t change yourself just because of guys or wanting a boyfriend.
2.Seems like she`s trying to piss you off on purpose and rubbing it in your face next time she does it just tell her to shut her mouth and be mad at her for a while she will realize it`s ignorant of her to do.
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How do I tell my boyfriend that I have AIDS. He wants to have sex with me but I don't know a good way to tell him..help?
That`s something you can`t just wait & then tell him just be staight up with him and tell him because later it might be too late.♥
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okay i have a boyfriend and i like 2 other guys. i really dont know what to do. because i really like my boyfriend and i really like these other 2 guys. its really confusinng! and the 2 other guys like me! and im really stressing ouut!HElLPP!
I think you need to break up with your boyfriend..and see how things go from there because if you like 2 guys and your boyfriend doesn`t know thats ignorant so just be honest and break up with him.For the other two just see which one treats you better and you like more.
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ok so there is this guy and i really liike him. but he is going out with my best friend. before he started going out with her he would flirt with me. But guess what he asked her out instead. she always gets the guys . But i really like him and when she isnt around he flirts with me. i dont want to break them up. but i need some help in what to do b.c they always want me with them when he is @ her house or @ his so i have to watch them flirt. i thought about making myslef look better and show him what he is missing but idk . Plz help !!
13/female
She`s 13 and sooner or later they will break up.. so just be patient then wait til then do flirt because flirting starts stuff and causes problems.Just let them so what they want because they won`t last for ever,but also talk to your friend and tell her you don`t like watching them flirt & all that . ♥
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Alright, so there's this guy I like. He says he likes me too. We have this really cute and awesome relationship where we can like make fun of each other (jokingly, of course) and then just be like i love you. It's like more than amazing. Oh, and I take back what I said before; I don't just like him- I LOVE him- like for sure. It's just awesome. But anyways, he doesn't want a girlfriend. Like, he says "going out" is pointless and that its no different than just liking someone, but I see things the complete opposite. It's confusing; Please help!
Aw well it seems like your in mad love with this guy it`s so cute ! It's kind of hard because he is saying going out is pointless when its not.Just talk to him and tell what you just told me & make sure you tell him you are in love with him.Ask him for just one chance.I think after you talk to him you two will end up going out.If anything else ask. ♥
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if a guy you are making out with puts his hands on your boobs like ONTOP of your shirt, not under it, is that sexual harrasment or assault? what if while youi were making out he put his hands in the back pocket of your jeans and squeezed your butt? is that harrassment? thanks so much!
That`s just how most guys are I don`t think its harrassment but if you asked him to stop I guess you can say it is but if not then no.You have to consider thats just what most guys do..it`s not that bad.♥
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Hey guys..I just wanted to know what you think is better..Being single over the summer or having a boyfriend?
It`s really all up to you if you like doing stuff with other guys and not worrying about fights and just bring free then >> single.But if you really like someone and want to spend alot of time with them then >> having a boyfriend is better. Most girls like being single but it`s all up to you.
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My ex boyfriend and I dated for almost 2 years, off and on, when he cheated on me back in March. I haven't talked to him since.
He's tried to call me and talk to me but I was too mad and hurt.
Well, on my birthday, he came to my house and gave me a 10 min. long apology. As my gift, he gave me 2 tickets to a concert (Dashboard Confessional--my FAVVV band) and asked me if I would go with him. I told him I'd think about it and call him.
When I got inside, I opened the envelope that the tickets were in and he had written me a note. It said how great I am and that I didn't deserve what he did to me, etc. He said that he knew that the concert doesn't make up for anything but he'd hope it'd be a start to our friendship.
So, I called him up and told him that I'd take him with me to the concert.
Then, about four days after my birthday (today) he calls me and tells me that he can't make the concert because he *night* be out of town that day!! WTF is that? If you buy tickets to something and want to go, then you'd know if you were going to be in town that day or not! Am I right?
What do you think his problem is?
Once a cheater always a cheater..I know he probly cares but if you buy someone tickets you don`t go out for the night or anything. Just forget about him..
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