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ok so there is this guy and i really liike him. but he is going out with my best friend. before he started going out with her he would flirt with me. But guess what he asked her out instead. she always gets the guys . But i really like him and when she isnt around he flirts with me. i dont want to break them up. but i need some help in what to do b.c they always want me with them when he is @ her house or @ his so i have to watch them flirt. i thought about making myslef look better and show him what he is missing but idk . Plz help !!
13/female
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Hi there, this must be a tricky situation for you. My advice would simply to leave it be. If you split them up, not only could you loose the guy but you could loose a good friend too. Do you like him flirting with you? If you do then it could lead to trouble if you act on it e.g kissing, hugging. Just let them get on with it. Who knows you might just yet get him for yourself? Daniel.
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Okay, i don't think you should let a guy come between you and your best friend. if you try and take him from her and "show him what he is missing", it will cause major problems with you and your friend and could even ruin the friendship. what do you want more - a best friend that you could have for a life time, or a guy that you'll break up with in a year at the most (you're 13, relationships rarely last even that long). i would just let it go, and not let your feelings be known to anyone but you. let your friend have the guy this time. try talking to other nice, cute guys to distract you.
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Hey. Some advice for you: my good friend was going out with my present boyfriend a few months back. And it really bothered me, because even though I really cared about my friend, I really liked this guy too. So I went to my friend and told her over instant messenger because I was too afraid to face her. And I told her that I though I liked Adam, the guy. She was fine with it and told me that she was going to break up with him soon no matter what: she didn't want to dat him anymore. She broke up with him, and said she was happy for me when I asked him out. So, I would talk to your friend. Hey, it worked for me!
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he chose her..let her have him...there are plenty of other fish i the sea sweetie.
you can IM me if you wnat..or e-mail me
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She`s 13 and sooner or later they will break up.. so just be patient then wait til then do flirt because flirting starts stuff and causes problems.Just let them so what they want because they won`t last for ever,but also talk to your friend and tell her you don`t like watching them flirt & all that . ♥
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well, the main thing is ..
Despite that you two flirted,
he chose your friend.
And since they are together, just leave the situation alone.
And tell your friend that you dont want to hang out with them because its awkward, you dont need to explain why, but tell her youd prefer it if you two you and her just hung out.
You could make yourself look better and show him what hes missing, but I dont suggest that, because hes with your BEST FRIEND! that would be mean, so hes missing out on you wiht your BEST friend? That doenst make sense, dont let boys wreck a friendsihp.
I wouldht worry about them etiher, since if shes the same age as you, or around that, its not like the relationship is permanent, and its not like they are going to get married.
Because when your in middle school, dating is kinda imature, because most middle schoolers arent even allowed on a "real" date until they are 16, and their dates cant drive yet anyways.
You know what i'm saying?
so its okay, theree will be tonss of other guys.
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