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ok so i am a virgin and one time i slipped a condom onto my finger and stuck it inside of me to see how it felt, then this white stuff appeared in my vagina and it smelled like latex. what was it?

It was discharge, and if the condom was latex then that's obviously what you smelled, the condom, not the discharge itself.

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This is for mostly for the guys but ladies please answer too!

I don't know what to get my boyfriend for his birthday. Any suggestions? What would you guys like to get as a present? Thanks in advance. =]

Not sure how old you/he is so it's a pretty open range of things.

If he drives, you could get him tires.. my bf wanted bigger ones for christmas last year, they're really expensive.

Or something like tools, golf clubs.. guy stuff, things he likes to do.

Orrr you could make him a cake and get him clothes or a hat, something like that.. if you want it to be simple.

Again it's kinda hard to say not knowing how old he is or what he likes. Good luck!

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Everytime I wear my bra it annoys me sooo much because the straps always fall down and I have to keep pulling them up every 10 seconds litarlly! I have to wear a bra and I don't like strapless ones that much. How can i feel the strap to stay up ?

make the straps tighter, or buy a smaller one =]

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I went to wal mart and got 2 things of non permanent hair dye.

The one brand is LOREAL Color pulse mousse. I got it in Iced coffee just to see what my hair would look like. I wanted to know if it really DOES wash out. i would hate to have my hair like that for more than a week. lol and i was also wondering if you ever tried it? What was youre experiences


One more question:
I also go CLAIROL Herbal essences Color flirt mousse. It says it washes out in 8-10 days. And i got black. It also says Sparkling low risk haircolor.I got the color midnight twinkle(black) I was wondering if anyone used this? experiences? yay or nay? lol

My worries are it wont wash out and will damage my hair. Although, they both say NO AMMONIA AND PEROXIDE.

PS. My hair is very very light blonde =]


THANK YOU SO MUCH!

Yeah it does wash out. I've used it many times from walmart and target. Sometimes it takes longer than a week though depending what color and how much you put in. I've gone from blonde to brown and back to blonde from brown using that stuff and it usually looks decent and doesn't take that long. But yeah it will wash out, or fade away which ever happens first. Good luck!

♥ Evy

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I have very staight hair and there is nothing i can do with it. I want to have it up so its out of my face but still have it looking good. I don't have much time in the morning as i like to sleep and i dont have many hair products. My hair is brown. Thank you so much if you can help me!!

You asked me this in like May and it's July..sorry I've been kinda busy! hah

Really straight hair looks good in a high pony tail with your bangs out and to one side.

You could try getting layers to where it's a little longer in the back than it is in the front that way it can still be put up but when it's down it's a change and shouldn't be in your face.

You should also add a little color or something, just for change.

good luck!

♥ Evy

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Okay so i asked you a question a while ago about my best guy friend & me getting in a fight, me losing his trust & like stuff like that - HOPEFULLY YOU REMEMER
But anyways. me & that same guy kind of made up like i guess, i gave him space & then eventually we started talking again. Not like best friends or anything but yeah talking. And like getting along. i think he might of even came over once, after that fight. And like then we went to DC on a school trip & we sort of hung out & stuff like that. And on the way home we talked about like our fight, and how like it felt like we had broken up even though we both liked completely other people & we were never really going out, i told him that i missed how it was & he said he did too & that like one step at time we would become friends again. I guess we sort of did. And like i dont know, seems dumb but I want it SO BADLY to be like how it was. He has mono now, and i didnt even find out from him - i found out from a comment he left his girlfriend. but like i wish i could just take him pop & like stuff to his house like i use to when he would be sick. And like, i told him something that was really important to me & it feels like he doesnt care anymore. And i mean in my yearbook he told me that no matter what he would always love me & that we would hang out this summer. I think theres what like 6 weeks left of summer, i've seen him ONCE & we didnt like mean to see each other, if that makes sense. I MISS HIM. you dont even know, its like i lost a brother. And alot of people might think that i really like him like a boyfriend, and i dont know if i do. i mean i really didnt think i did before. and i still sort of dont. But like i miss him. I cant talk about things w/ him anymore, hes going to a different school next year & i feel like were gonna lose touch. Please tell me what i can do, to start hanging out w/ him again & stuff. i mean before i blammed this ALL on his girlfriend, and i mean i still kind of do, but i dont know i hate it. Him & his girlfriend have been going out for like 9 months now, and he thinks he loves her.. i mean i think its retarded to think their in love when their only in 9th & shes in 10th grade. But i wanna be a good friend, i think he still sort of knows that i dont like her.. but I'm trying REALLY HARD to be nice to her & at least get along w/ her . but she annoys me SOOOOOOO Much its incredible. Shes going to be 16 in like 5 days, and my friend is only like 14. And i dont know. Shes OBSESSED w/ like all the guys in my grade & thinks shes best friends w/ them, And i mean i guess she is sort of good friends w/ some of them but i cant STAND it. and other then her boyfriend i am pretty much better friends w/ all of them but i dont know. i'm like jealous of what shes trying to become w/ MY FRIENDS. oh god, i need help. Please give me some advice.
Sorry its long, just like the last one but yeah.
THANKS IN ADVANCE.

Sorry it took forever for me to reply I've haven't been home alot. Anyways, maybe the fact that it's not working right now and hasn't in the past, is a sign that it's whats for the best. You know how you 'want something you can't have' i still think that's part of your situation. If he didn't have a girlfriend, would things be different? Yea they would but you wouldn't realize the feelings you had for him, or wanted i guess you could say. Are you sure that you don't want him as more then a friend? It really does seems like it and maybe thats the problem with wanting what you cant have.

People really do change and alot of the time there's nothing you can do but have believe in fate and pray. More than likely they WON'T be together forever, and when they aren't take advantage of that and start hanging out with him more. If i were you i'd probably take things to his house and hang out with him anyway. There's nothing wrong with that. It would show him that you care and are trying. He probably does care, he's just caught up in the whole thing with having a girlfriend. Maybe she's jealous of YOU, and maybe she tells him to stay away from you or something. You know how girls are with their boys, especially in hs. I don't really feel like im helping you but I hope it did atleast a little! I'm back now if you need anything else!

♥ Evy

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I love moiste towelletes.
Does anyone know any good brands of moiste towelletes?

-Cottonelle

http://www.cottonelle.com/products/folded.asp?WT.srch=1&WT.mc_id=482395&IQ_ID=482395

-SCOTT

http://www.scottbrand.com/us/products/tissue/tissue_wipes.asp?iq_id=252213&WT.srch=1&WT.mc_id=252213



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I just got Oxy pads in the black and red container thing. And i was wondering if anyone used it and if you liked it? I have combo skin.

Did you like it? Did it clear up youre skin? anything i should know?

Thanks tons!

I've used the kind in the red and white thing, it may be the same thing im not sure. But i looked it up and found reviews with pros and cons for it if you'd like to read em!

http://www.epinions.com/beat-Skincare-Blemish_Control-Oxy_Balance_Deep_Pore_Cleansing_Pads/display_~reviews

♥ Evy

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sorry about the length..
ok well i just got out of a relationship about a week ago and it was over the stupidest reason. at night he would come over around 1 and 2 in the morning and he did it alot for the entire time we we're dating bc most of the time we we're dating he was grounded and that was the only way he could get out. but then one night he told me he was going to come over and i told him that was fine but i didn't want to really "do" anything that night and he got REALLY affended but EVERY time he came over he would always want to do stuff so i just gave him a heads up beforehand so he didn't get mad when i turned him down or whatever when he came over. anyways he got PISSED and decided to not talk to me so we broke up. but during that week i kind of found another guy that i kind of might like a little bit but nothing serious. and then today i got an instant message from my ex apologizing for being a dick and now he wants to talk before school starts up again. i don't know what to do! hpoefully someone can help?
oh btw i'm a softmore in hs if that helps any..

If I were you I'd go for the new guy. If your ex got so pissed just because you didn't wanna do anything.. doesn't that kinda say something?? Not to offend you or anything but it sounds to me like he was just in it to get some but mayyybe im wrong. But just so you know, guys like that don't normally change on their own, or in such a short amount of time. If he's like that once, it'll probably happen again. I know it's probably harder for you to look at it like that because you obviously had feelings for him, but do you really wanna be with someone that wants to do things you don't really wanna do all the time when you don't have to? And your only a sophomore, I'd def go for the new guy. Even if it doesn't work out with him, it's better than doing what you don't wanna do with a dickhead boyfriend. There's plenty of other guys, you just have to find the right one! Good luck!

♥ Evy

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I am 14/f and i'm gonna admit. i am not skinny. i am not too overweight, and by no means obese. maybe the farthest thing from it. but i am always soooo self concious! iabsolutelyhateit.
i want to lose weight. but i just don't have the drive... until i lose some weight, how can i keep from being self concious???

Learn to love yourself for who you are. If you can't do it nobody can. And if they don't, they aren't worth it!

♥ Evy

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ok there is this girl named brittany i really like her and she dont know i tell her brother to tell her that i do but she dont believer me i want to know what to do? do i make our friends ship better then ask her or jus ask her? idk what to do so can yall please help me out?

You should just talk to her yourself and be straight forward with her. I know that if I was her, i'd prefer to be told by you more then her brother or friends. If you don't feel like you're ready to ask her out you should try hanging out with her a few times and get closer to her. If i were you i'd def talk to her and ask her, what's there to lose? If she says no it won't be any different than before because technically you aren't losing anything. You'll never know if you don't ask her..So i say go for it! Good luck!

♥ Evy

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Hey there im 13 female and i am 5'2 and 117 pounds i absolutley love my body but i have no will power to lose like 5 or 6 punds and if you answer please dont say get a friend to help i need real advice like how to get pumped to excersize. Thanks XOXO

Well you either do it or you don't. You have to want to lose the weight to do it. Because we all know it's not going to happen on its own. You said not to say get a friend to help, but that really could work. Go running alot and get a friend to go with you so it isn't boring. Or don't take a friend and just listen to music while you do it or something. If you don't wanna run at all, try simple walking or swimming everyday. Whenever you find yourself just sitting and not doing anything, get up and move around, that's excersizing. Eating right helps too of course but it won't on it's own. Good luck!

♥ Evy

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whenever I go to the carribean for a few days, I spend a lot of time in the sun without sunscreen. i would usually get a tan but then the tan would turn into a sunburn. about a week after i leave, my skin starts to peel. would putting on sunscreen keep my skin the same way, or give me the tan without the sunburn/peeling. thanks

I always put a low sunscreen on the sensitive parts of my body (face, shoulders, chest, etc.) and let it soak in a little and once it's in there I use Tropical Hawaiian Dark tanning oil. So basically i just put sunscreen on and then oil over it, and i almost never burn, just get really dark. But yes, putting on sunscreen should def help.

♥ Evy

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I really really want to get a digital camera and i know that if i want a good camera, i am going to have to pay good money. I really want one of those cameras that comes with the printer and you just sit it on top and push a few buttons and walla! well, i want to get a really good brand and make sure my camera will last a while, so i am needing advice on which cameras to stay away from and which are really great. Thanks. I rate

I got a kodak camera from walmart for around $130 and that was about one their cheapest ones and it works just fine for me and the pictures are clear. It didn't come with a printer though, or atleast the one i got, you have to buy those seperately. I got a cannon one for christmas 2 years ago and i only used it for about 3 months and it just stopped working. I'm not sure what was wrong with it but i havent had the best experiences with cannon. Anyways the ones from walmart are good buys and they work well, i guess it just depends how much money your willing to spend! good luck

♥ Evy

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13/f
i'm going to try out for my school's volleyball team this year.
i guess i'm pretty good,
but i still need to work on my serving.
do you have any tips as to how i can get better in serving other than to practice daily?
&& any other tips for volleyball is accepted, too.

thank you in advance.

I'm not sure if this will really help you or not because I think I'd have to show you, but if you know what underhanded serving is, you should try that. Talk to your coach first though because when I played for school in 8th grade, it wasn't allowed, but when I played on a city team we could do it any way we wanted. I don;t think its taught that way in school, but trust me it's alot easier. Anyways I found that it was alot easier to have control of the ball and it goes farther with the underhanded serve. If you don't know what it is, basically you make a fist and turn your hand to where your thumb is kinda on the side and kinda on the top, and where your fingers make a circle and where your thumb is, is where the ball should hit. Sorry if that doesn't make sense, if your coach says underhanded serving is ok ask them to show you how! And no, there really isn't anything you can do besides practice. I remember I even got bruises from 'bumping' all the time. It's alotta work but you know what they say practice makes perfect.

♥ Evy

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ok so like i have this best friend and shes like clsoe with this other girl . and like my best friend ditched me for this girl before and the thing is i hate the other girl so its not like we all can hang out and when eveer im with my best friend she talks about the girl real bad and than the next day shes like best friends with her. and like i just wanna be like ur so fake how r you gonna tlak about her but call her ur best friend . but everytime i talk to her i just cant be mad at her.. its like weird. its liek impiossible to tell her. and i dont know why. and i dont know what i should do. if i should like be mad and tell her .. or let it go cause its not that big of a deal

It is a big deal, otherwise you wouldn't be here asking for help. You should go with what your heart tells you. Don't worry about her being mad at you if you do tell her. It's the truth and maybe she needs to be told. I don't wanna judge her because I don't know her, but it sounds like shes a little two-faced. Do you really want friends like that? If she talks about her to you, she probably talks about you when shes with her. I think you should tell her, and if she doesn't respect what you say, find better friends. Good luck!

♥ Evy

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Well, I gave my boyfriends head. I told my friends. They got mad at me and they told thier moms. Now the whole school knows. All the moms and students hate me!!! Im soo imbaressed what should I do!!!13/f

Well if your so called "friends" told their moms you should find better friends.. and next time you do something like that, don't share it with the whole world. It's all said and done I don't really think there's anything you can do about it now. You did it so take the consequences and tough it out. It won't last forever.

♥ Evy

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Ok...Is it weird that i can only see myself havin sex with my ex...I mean i have other guy friends and all but i jus can't let myself get closer to them to build a relationship without gettin scared or thinking the same thing will happen to me again...givin my all to have my heartbroken again...But that doesn't stop me from talkin to my ex and still havin sex wit him...i really need advice... it's like i'm drawn to him and i know that we'll never be together again considering he still has a girlfriend...Please be real wit me...i can take it..i really need help...thanks in advance:)

You know the saying "You always want what you can't have"? Well I think that your situation is a little similar to that.. You're used to him and used to being with him.. and maybe you're a little afraid to be without him. Since he has a girlfriend, you could use that as a factor to help you. Tell yourself you can't be with him because he's already with someone, then think about how you'd feel if that was your boyfriend with someone else. You probably wouldn't like it very much. And you never know what might happen in the future him and that girl might and probably WON'T stay together forever.. next time he doesn't have a girlfriend, take advantage of the situation. Good luck!

♥ Evy

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Tomorrow I'm dying my hair for the first time. I am soooo nervous because everybody knows me as the girl who has the pretty, long, hair. I felt I had to do a major change in my life so this is what I chose. I'm cutting my hair way shorter and then going to like a local drug store, and buying dye and then I'm coming home and dying it! I want to know if this is a good decision or not. Like half my friends are like go for it! and then the other half are like... please don't do it! I personally felt I needed to do this for myself. I want to go for a natural look and stick to the similar color but I want people to be able to notice I dyed it and it's a BIG change. Is this right, or should I not do it? By the way I'm 14/f.

You should do what you wanna do no matter what anyone else wants or thinks. I'm not sure what color hair you have or are dying it to, but fyi if you dye/bleach it blonde be extra careful because out of the million times ive seen my friends dye their blonde it hasnt worked out very good or how they wanted it, but for some people it works you just have to know what you're doing. so if that's your choise of color it might be easiest to get a professional to do it. If not i say go for it! A little change never hurt anybody! They have good home dying kits at target and most of them are under $10, good luck!

♥ Evy

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ok so everytime ive tried to log on my myspace it just keeps asking me to log on or join myspace it just does this over and over no matter how many times i try to log on [it has been doing this for like 5 monthes]


[and my password and email are right and my myspace hasnt been deleted cause i can log on at other peoples houses!]

if anyone has any advice or knows what to do to fix this pleeeeasse tell me!!! any imformation would be greatly appreciated thanks so much!

Login has been disabled because of the power outages in california, and that's where the database is for myspace so, that's probably why!

♥ Evy

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