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Has anyone here ever heard of the band Panic! At the Disco? (link)
That is one of my favorite bands.
Their music is so good!



Ever been ridin down the road listening to the radio and just being like I want to download that song and that song & that song then when your actually home in front of the computer draw a blank when it's time to download em? lol or is it just me? Can yall help me put together a cd? I love all kinds of music from country to r & b, rap, simple plan.. anything but gospel or rock. (link)
3 Days Grace - I Hate Everything About You
A Thorn For Every Heart - February
Acceptance - Bleeding Heart
Acceptance - Take Cover
Bayside - Just Another Day
Halifax - Anthem For Tonight
Hawthrone Heights - Niki FM
Hawthrone Heights - Ohio is For Lovers
Hawthrone Heights-Transition
Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby
Hellogoodbye - Dear Jamie... Sincerely Me
Hellogoodbye - Shimmy Shimmy Quarter Turn
Motion City Soundtrack - Everything Is Alright
Motion City Soundtrack - My Favorite Accident
My Chemical Romance - To the End
Story Of The Year- Untill The Day I Die
Sugarcult - Memory
Sugarcult - Saying Goodbye
Sugarcult - Pretty Girl (The Way)
The All American Rejects- Stab my back
The Postal Service - Be Still My Heart
The Postal Service - Sleeping In
Weezer - Perfect Situation
Yellowcard - Lights and Sounds
Yellowcard - One Year, Six Months
Yellowcard - Way Away
Zeromancer - Famous Last Words
Panic At The Disco - Lying Is The Most Fun A Girl Can Have Without Taking Her Clothes Off
Wisin y Yandel - Rakata
Zion y Lennox ft. Daddy Yankee - Yo Voy Lean Back Remix
Wisin & Yandel ft. Aventura - Noche De Sexo
Nivea ft Young Bloodz Lil John - Okay
Toni Braxton - Please
Don Omar - Dale Don Dale
Jason Mraz - Geek In The Pink
Kaila Yu - Sugar
Judy Torres - Faithfully
Kasey Chambers - Stronger
Keyshia Cole - I've Changed My Mind, I Should Have Cheated
Kylie Minogue - Red Blooded Woman
Lalaine - Did You Hear About Us
Lucy Woodward - What's Good For Me
Mariah Carey - Dont Forget About Us
Ne-Yo - So Sick
Nickleback - Photograph, Too Bad
Silverstein - Smile In Your Sleep
Stellar Project - Get Up Stand Up
Sugarcult - Pretty Girl
Sum 41 - Still Waiting
The Ataris - The Boys Of Summer, In This Diary
The Spill Canvas - All Hail the Heartbreaker
The Starting Line - Lasting Impressions
From First To Last - Emily
Bratz Rock Angelz - So Good




im in 9th grade and im not sure what i want to do in the future.. suggestions? (link)
No one can really suggest what you should do/be in the future. The choice is all your's! Think of what you like to do and what you are good at.
I want to be a wedding planner. It seems like a fun job and I believe that I can do it.
But some suggestions are lawyer,doctor,party planner,interior designer, social worker, teacher. It really depends on what you enjoy doing.



I really like this guy and i told him like a month ago and he asked me out but then he said he was pressured to by his friends and he didn't really like me and I was too good for him. so i tried to stop liking him and this person asked me out that i liked and so i went out with him thinking that i like that person when i realized i didn't i broke up with him but i still like the first person. I told the first person that i liked him, but should i just give up? (link)
Honestly, I think you should get over the guy.
Move on and go find another guy. I think that the guy who told you he was pressured by his friends and you were too good for him, made all of that up.
To me it seems that he didn't have feelings for you anymore, so he made up all these excuses and you really don't need some one like that.
So forget about him.



is it bad to charge your battery every day??

thanks (link)
No. If your phone is already recharged and you didn't use it that day then there would really be no reason to recharge it, unless you want to.
I recharge mine every other day.



Hey yall whats up I just wont to know how do you get a picture smaller on myspace it wont let my put them on b/c it says it is to big so how do I get it smaller? I rate 5 if you try to help thx luv yall
Me (link)
Open your picture on Paint. (I'm pretty sure you have Paint since MOST computers do.)
Then at the top on Paint You will see File, Edit, View, Image. Click on Image then click stretch/scew. where it says Stretch change the 100 to 15 on horizontal and Vertical.
If you need more help, drop one in my inbox.



ok i am not one of those girls who cares about there wieght but i was just wondering is 127 over wieght even if i am really really muscular and i am 5ft and 8in o and i am 13/f
i rate really high (link)
That's not bad at all considering you are really tall.



If you put a white rose in a glass of water with purple food dye, would you get a purple rose in a few days? Would it die more quickly because it has dye and all? (link)
Yes it will work. In 5th grade I did a science project on flowers changing colors.
I put white roses in different colors of food coloring.
With in a week the flowers changed colors. Like for example the rose in red food coloring turned light red, blue good coloring, the rose turned light blue. The flowers did not die faster with food coloring in them.



This might be a dumb question, but whenever my boyfriend gets mad about something, or when he is in a bad mood, he always takes it out on me, and he's just in a bad mood so it makes me in a bad mood, and i was just wondering what I should do about it, like is there something that i can do about it to not get so upset about it, or like tell him or anything? I just don't know what to do. The help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. ♥ (link)
I think it is best if you talk to him about this.
Tell him that it is wrong of him to take it out on you especially when you are his girlfriend. He should be able to talk to you about what ever is going on not bring you down with him.



Hey does anyone know any good cookie recipies??? (link)
Sugar Cookies:

Ingredients:
2 cups all-purpose flour, sifted.
2 teaspoons baking powder.
1/2 teaspoon salt.
2 large eggs.
3/4 cup sugar plus additional sugar for topping.
2/3 cup vegetable oil.
2 teaspoons vanilla extract.
1 teaspoon grated lemon zest.

1. Sift flour, baking powder and salt into a medium bowl and mix well.
2. Whisk eggs in a large bowl until blended, Add sugar, oil, vanilla extract and lemon zest and mix well. Stir the dry ingredients into egg mixture until blended. Chill, covered for 30 minutes or longer.
3. Preheat the oven to 400(F)
4. Drop the cookie dough by rounded teaspoonfuls 2 inches apart onto ungreased baking sheets. mist the bottom of a 3-inch flat-bottom glass with water and dip glass in additional sugar. Press in sugar before pressing each cookie.
5. Bake cookies until lightly browned, about 8 minutes. Cool on baking sheets for 2 minutes.


Peanut Butter Chocolate Chippers:

Ingredients:
1 cup creamy or chunky peanut butter.
1 cup firmly packed light brown sugar.
1 large egg.
3/4 cup milk chocolate chips.
granulated sugar.


1) Preheat oven to 350(F)

2)Combine peanut butter, brown sugar and egg in medium bowl until well blended. Add chocolate chips to the dough; mix well.

3) Roll heaping tablespoons of dough into 1 1/2-inch balls. Place dough balls about 2 inches apart on ungreased baking sheets.

4) Dip table fork into granulated sugar. Press suagr coated tines of fork in criss cross fashion onto each ball, flattening to 1/2 inch thickness. Repeat dipping fork into granulated sugar to prevent it from sticking to dough.

5) Bake cookies in middle of oven until set, about 12 minutes. Let cookies stand on baking sheets for 2 minutes. Remove cookies with spatula to wire racks. Let cool completely.





Hey everyone, I'm burning CD's right now, and I can't seem to think of any more songs. The type of songs I need are recent ones that are playing on the radio, or even older ones as long as you can dance to them. I'm having a party tonight and need to have lots of music, so any suggestions would help. Thankss so much! (link)
Amerie - Touch
ATC - Im In Heaven When You Kiss Me
ATC - My Heart Beats Like A Drum
Becky Baeling - Getaway
Bon Jovi - Run Away
Bosson - One in a Million
Britney Spears - Outrageous
Chamillionaire - Ridin'
Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me
Dante Thomas - Miss California
Erika - Relations
Fallout Boy - Dance Dance
Fun Factory - Close To You
Garbage - Why Do You Love Me
Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby
Jay Sean - Don't Rush
Kevin Lyttle - Turn Me On
Khriz y angel - Ven Bailalo
Kylie Minogue - Red Blooded Woman
Leanne Rimes - Can't Fight The Moonlight (Dance Remix)
Louie DeVito - Let Me Love You Tonight
Lucas Prata - And She Said
Lucas Prata - Let's Get It On
Lucas Prata - Never Be Alone
Milk Inc - Go To Hell
Milk Inc ft. Silvy - I Don't Care
Natasha Bedingfield - Unwritten
Nivea ft Young Bloodz Lil John - Okay
Haddaway - What Is Love
La Bouche - Be My Lover
Ace Of Base - Beautiful Life
Amber - This Is Your Night
R. Kelly - Burn It Up
Red Carpet - Alright
Robbie Williams - Tripping
Shakira ft Alejandro - La Tortura
StoneBridge - Put Em High
Zion y Lennox ft. Daddy Yankee - Yo Voy Lean Back Remix
Wisin y Yandel - Rakata
Wisin & Yandel ft. Aventura - Noche De Sexo



how do i get lime wire and how much does it cost i really want it so i can listen to some good music. thanx (link)
http://www.limewire.com/english/content/home.shtml

Limewire is free.
I have it so if you need any help you can drop one in my inbox or IM me on XXMiSZJUCiiXX.



I've been dating this guy for two and a half weeks. We've been close friends for a year before he asked me out. I have a pretty good idea of what I want to give him for Valentine's, but I need advice.

I'm planning on painting a guitar pic (since he plays guitar) and I'm going to paint on it "Happy Valentine's Day" and have a cool design on it. I was thinking of baking him cookies and putting them in his locker. Then last but not least, I want to get him Fall Out Boy concert tickets sicne we both love them. The tics are about twenty something dollars, and I was wondering...too much for a relationship this short? give me your opinion. if you ahve any other ideas, alterations, or suggestions they are appreciated! (link)
I honestly think the painting and cookies are enough since you two only have been dating for two and a half weeks. If you want you can also get the Fall Out boy concert tickets. It all depends on how much you really like this kid.
What ever you will get him, I am sure he will love it.




I like this boy and he knows I exist, I never talk to him because I'm shy and afraid. I'm afraid he thinks I hate him or something. Our school has this carnation sale where you send a flower to a person with a note. Should I send one to him? Or would that be weird? (link)
My school is doing that too right now and I think that is such a cute idea.
You should totally go for it!



I was wondering
Is it true if you blow dry your hair and straigthen it like everday that by the time your 25 your hair will fall out?
I usually do that everyday except for on weekends.
Will my hair fall out? (link)
Yes it is true. Most of your hair will and you will have VERY VERY thin hair.
It is not healthy to straightenn/blowdry your hair EVERY day.
I used to and my hair got so bad so try to reduce the amount of straightening/blowdrieing.
You can straighten your hair once every week or even like two times a month.
Scrunch your hair it looks super cute if you do it just right!



Why are some guys such JERKS? No, that's not really my question, but I would like to know.

My question is this... I have a boyfriend. I think. Thing is, I haven't spoken to him since early December. He WON'T take my calls. How do I know? "Hello Mrs. Carr, is Andrew home?"
"Just a second" *calls his name in the backround*
*Andrew whispers back* "Who is it?"
"May I ask who's calling?"
"Yes ma'am, it's Brandy."
*Andrew whispering again* "I'm not home."
*His mom* "Brandy honey, could you call back in a few minutes please?"
"Of course."
So I wait a few minutes, about fifteen, and call back. NO ANSWER. I call my friend Meg who lives right next door to him and asked if he was there. She said yes. I called him again. No answer. I waited a few more minutes and called back. No answer.

He missed my birthday and hasn't spoken to me at all in over a month. I just don't know what to think. I mean, he hasn't broken up with me, so does he want to be with me? And if he didn't want to be with me, couldn't he grow some cohones and tell me instead of ignoring me?

*Sigh* (link)
Wow! He is such a jerk!
Move on. You don't need him. And he missed your birthday? That is just so messed up.
Seems to me like you guys already sort of broke up without you knowing because he didn't have the guts to tell you.
Either break up with him officially or just ignore him like he does to you.



13/m. Okay, so there's this girl, and I like her, and she knows I like her. But she just likes me as a friend. No... like isn't strong enough a word. But I can't say love, because everyone says that teens don't know love. But isn't infatuation a necessary part of our lives? (Besides, it's been so long that I've liked her, it's not quite love anymore...)

Background info on her: she's smart (I'm smart too), she's hyper (I'm hyper too). Um... yeah that's it.

So anydangways, I was reading her blog just now, and I was astonished to see that she was talking about how she needs a boyfriend, and single life sucks, and she wants a "hot cool british guy to un-single her. cuz brits r cool." I know she thinks guys are hot, but I didn't know that's what she looks for in a guy!!! Or that she tries to get a boyfriend for the sake of un-singling herself! I don't know what to do; before I know it she'll be taken, or perhaps she'll just never like me! Just because I'm too nerdy! Or any other reason! What should I do?

Plus: Valentine's Day is coming up soon, and I know I should do something special for her, but I don't know what! I've tried asking her out, and I told her my feelings, and she said back in August that she'd tell me whenever she, too, feels that way. So I want to respect her privacy by not rushing her, or telling her stuff again and again and again. I don't want to seem obnoxious. But I gotta do something, just to tell her that I still like her! What should I do? Please help!!! (link)
Hey, well since she didn't tell you that she feels the same way about you I honestly think that you should move on because it seems to me like you are just wasting your time over a girl that has no feelings towards you as more than a friend. You should move on and and find your self a girl that does like you as more than a friend.

If you really want to do something nice for her on Valentine's Day then maybe you can get her a teddybear with a rose and write her a note saying that you really like her. just don't go overboard with your feelings. Make it short & sweet.
Don't go around chasing her.
And make sure you act like yourself. Because if she does not like you for who you are that is her loss. And if you go and try changing your self just for her to like you as more than a friend, it won't be the TRUE you that she will like.
Goodluck and I hope everything works out with you two!



My problem is that I am always thinking so critically of myself. It started a few years ago when I realized I was obese. I have lost a few pounds since then, not enough to be rewarded for but I still feel fat and ugly all of the time. Technically, if you went by my BMI I am overweight still. I wish I did not feel this way about myself because I have always admired confident people, you know? I want to be like them. Its like, I tried to slim my body but NOTHING works so I have given up on that. Yet when I look in the mirror I see a fat, ugly person that everyone hates. What should I do? Life is miserable this way. Please help... (link)
Hey you should NEVER think so negatively about your self. I am sure you are a pretty girl and no one hates you.
You are who you are and you can't change that.
What I would do is jog around your block every morning and evening for maybe a half hour or more.
Exercising helps you lose weight too.
Crunches, sit ups, push ups.
All you need is a HEALTHY diet that you can stick to.

Half of the problem is that you have no confidence in your self.
Without confidence it makes it so much easier to be so critical about your self, and that will just make you want to give up.

Since you said nothing works for you to lose weight then what I would do is go see a nutritionist. They will be able to put you on a diet that is just right for you.

Check out these sits maybe they will help you out:

http://www.discussbodybuilding.com/Back_to_Basics_~_Body_Weight_Exercises/m_76900/tm.htm

http://www.egoplanet.com/health.htm

http://www.holbrook.k12.az.us/hhs/geny/kim/diets.htm

http://www.overweight-teen-solutions.com/lose-weight-safely.html

If you need anything else drop one in my inbox or you can IM me on XXMiSZJUCiiXX anytime.



well im 14, and when i was around 11, i found out that i had scoliosis. which is sorta like a disease,its where your spine grows on a curve. and well i was in 6th grade at the time. and i like, wore it all the time. but when i got to 7th grade, i was like w.e and didnt wear it as much. now in 8th grade, i sorta never really wear it. i just pretend i do. and when i get home from school then i put it on. the doctor says taht if i dont wear it then ill need to get surgery, but seruiosly, i never really wear it anyway, and the doctors are saying that my bad is fine and geting better. but they think that im wearing my brace all the time. so i was wondering what i should do..should i like just wear it. or like what im doing is fine. i just need to knwo what should happen. a comment would be fine.
thanks (link)
I personally think you should wear it all the time.
Your back might be getting better but think about it; your back may get better FASTER if you wear it all the time. Then you won't have to wear it anymore.



is 16 years old too old for a 14 year old?
because i don't think its a problem and it never ever seemed like a problem until one of my friends brought it up. hes totally cool with it. and he doesn't like force me to do anything. its nice. but is he really too old? (link)
Not at all. Don't worry about it. As long as you guys don't mind it then nothing is wrong with it.
Don't let people judge and try to get to your head.





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