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I'm sorry this might sound strange but my friend is very nervous about her first time.
Any guys and girls that could reply to this would be awesome!
Do girls have to shave before they do it the first time? And if they do...how so? (link)
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Hey there. Tell her to calm down. No, girls do not have to shave down there unless they want to. Most guys prefer if you do though. lol. Um ... going about it ... okay, if you want a full detailed article, go to http://www.sex-project.com/shaving.shtml ... it's not a porn site, but has excellant advice on sex, and preparing for sex, and contraceptives ... and even some techniques. lol. But for the shirt version of the article, soak yourself in a hot bath for a while. It will soften up the hairs. Then, when you are ready to shave, put a moisterizing shaving gel on there ... prefreably with aloe, and use a new, clean razor and fist, shave downwards, to get the hairs off, and then shave up. Do each row down and up only once to prevent razor burn. Don't shave everyday ... it'll cause razor burn, and after you get out of the tub, put a moisterizer to soften the skin, and baby powder to prevent infection. Rate me please!
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i've just put in a tampon for the first time about 2 hours ago . i tried to take it out , but it hurt to pull at the string . is this normal , and could this be because my tampon is still dry ? if not , how do i yank it out without it hurting ? (link)
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Okay, here are some tips. The first time I did it, it hurt when I tried to pull it out. Here's what I have since learned. Get a tampon that fits your flow. Regular is the best for when you are starting. And WAIT 4 - 8 hours so that it can absorb something. It hurts when you do it too early.
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I've been thinking of growing a mustache and goatee.
I was just wondering though.....do girls like that or is it generally a turn-off? (link)
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my boyfriend has a mustache and goatee and I personnally like it. It tickles when I kiss him, and I don't know, I find it cute.
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Hey. Well I'm going into middle school and I practicually know no one there. I am scared that I will not make any friends, and I keep getting scared over and over again just thinking about it. My school starts Aug. 23, and my orientation is tomorrow Aug. 19, and there's going to be 7th graders and new students there and the bus is picking us up. I'm pretty scared about that too, but more scared of the first day of school. Can anyone tell me how to calm down about this and give me motivation so I won't be so scared anymore, and tell me how to make friends early and quick. Thanx!, and I would really appreciate it if you answered my questions. (link)
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hey hun, don't worry. I started middle school isn a whole new town, and I didn't know anyone. When they assigned us to our homerooms, we sat in groups., and the teacher was late or whatever, and I just started talking to this girl who was sitting next to me. truth is, everyone is scared and wants to make friends ... everyone is shy. lol. So just talk to them, no matter how scared you are. I almost pissed myself when I did it, but we ended up hanging out at school, and we made tons of new friends after that.
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Yep I need advice on love how orignal.
Okay I'm a 14 year old girl I'm home schooled and there is this guy that i like. (USE to like) He told me that he wasn't intrested in girls right now (That was early this year) so I have been acting like I hate him which is seriously hard for me sence I do hate anyone. Nadia a girl that I know is like a model, seriously she totally thin beautiful all of it (of course I'm the ugly one, Im not skinny but I'm not fat just the norm and I have awfull buck teeth so that doesn't help my looks) anyways he is like always checking her out which I find is fine but my heart says something different because when he looks at her I feel like something cold has hit me. I hate that I care! But the problem is when Nadia is not with me he always does his best to show off and it makes me think that he likes me but I know that he doesn't.
What my question is how do I get my heart to stop caring about him because its starting to kill me! Please answer this, It will be deeply appriciated! (link)
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hun, when your 14, everything is sooo confusing. Your self confidence is an all time low. Look, I'm just normal weight, and most guys don't have a problem with that ... and buck teeth aren't bad. A good guy wouldn't care about that. You like the guy, which is obvious, and you know he doesn't have feelings for you. there are so many other guys out there that would love to have you. And your friend, Nadina, she isn't perfect ... believe me. Ever heard of "the most beautiful rose has the sharpest thorns" .... well, that's how i see the situation. Just remember, being yourself, and not obsessing over someone elses looks, will help you more then anything, and will attract more guys. All guys love girls with confidence and respect for themselves.
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I've been going out with my boyfriend fro two months. well lately he's been acting odd lately, but not in a bad way. but hes been mentioning 'love' alot but never said 'i love you', for example we were talking about wat our last names meant and i said i didn't know what mine meant and he said '(his last name) loves'. its so odd because he makes sure that i know that he cares about me. dont get me wrong i love the fact that he cares about me because i care about him to, but i'm scared hes gunna say 'i love you' to me, becuase i dont love him, i care about him alot, but its not to the point of love. if he says it to me tho, what am i supposed to say? thanks for the help
-confused love (link)
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Well, I'm not goin to to tell you to say you love the guy when you don't. That's cruel. But, if he says he loves you, try to avoid saying it back, by kissing him. Or, you can just say, "I care about you soooo much hun, but I'm just not ready to be in that stage of our relashinship yet. " Hope I helped. ttyl.
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me n this girl did it n i think i might like her n idk what to do because i dont really wanna girlfriend (link)
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why are you just having sex with girls and not have any emotion towards them? Okay, first of all, if you like her, go out with her. The whole not wanting a girlfriend right now, is because you want to leave your options open to other girls who want to sleep with you. lol.
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Ok..just a couple minutes ago my friend told me that she saw my boyfriend smoking with his friends. Sure I think that him smoking is a problem..but what really makes me mad is that he told me that he stopped smoking. And the other day his friend walked up to him and goes "omg dude! you were like drunk last night" and he told me that he didn't know what he was talking about. But now that my friend saw him smoking I don't know what to think. Should I believe her and just ask him about it..or what? Dang I'm so confused (link)
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Yeah, you should talk to him about it, because he did lie to you ... twice. Ask him what the hell he's been up to? lol
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hey i asked the question about being 13 and pregnant well i just found out im having twins!!! my question is wht do they do in a c-section people r tellin me in to tiny and might have to get a c-section, nd i just wanna no like is it more or less painful, and wht do they do! ill rate u, i need advice!! thnx (link)
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yeah, it will hurt a lot less from what i hear. They numb your stomach and cut it open, and then they basically pull the babies out. Congratulations though. my uncle and aunt had twins and they are sooo cute!!!! lol
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I'm 15 years old & have been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's not a virgin and he's done sexual things with many girls. He told me he was ready to have sex whenever I was. I feel like I don't live up to his old girlfriends and that I'm such a good girl - being a virgin & unexperienced. I'm a little scared to have sex but when will I know I'm totally ready and mature enough to do it? Is it that wrong to not be sexually experienced at 15? (link)
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Hey hun. No, it's completly alright not to be sexually experienced when your 15. Look, don't compare yourself with his ex's. That will make your confidence level so low ... and it's awesome that this guy is willing to wait for you. Once you feel comfortable with him and yourself, do it. And you will know when your ready.
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i am a 13 year old girl and my parents r over protective i cant have a bf until i am in college i cant go to the mall wit my friends and i cant go to the movies unless i am wit my cusion or parents.when ever my friends call and ask me to go places wit them i never can. i have a bf right noe and he wants me to tell my parents about me and him but i cant?what should i do? (link)
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Hey there. Well, you should tell them, and if they get mad, tell them it is your life, and you made the decision to date him, and they can't force you to not date if you want to. I pity you, I really do. It's cruel for your parents to make decisions for you
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i rlly dont wanna go to school tomorrow...i get made fun of, but thats not the point. i just wanna make myself throw up one time. ill never do it again..is that really bad? (link)
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go to a doctor!!!! That sounds like an eating disorder, and I think that you should go to a doctor, or tell one of your friends. If someone makes fun of you, ignore them. They are just angry at themselves for being fake.
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I'm 14 and me and my friend kristina have been friends for like ever! since like kindergarten.. Well she got really serious with her ex boyfriend. They're like made for each other.. Well they broke up and were seeing other people for a while.. She got involved with this kid jason and he's totally obsessive! Well they broke up and she got back w/ the first guy.. Now jason won't leave her alone.. If you have any ways she can tell jason to leave her alone that she's with the one she loves completley could you tell me.. I was kinda lost when she told me about this (link)
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Well, lol, I don't think this is the best advice, but I would threaten him. threaten to beat him up, or even better, a restraining order. And if he doesn't leave her alone, call the police on him.
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Ok im really attracted to my friend and he's a guy and i really think he's hot but idk how 2 tell him how i feel or even if he's gay. Please help i am a 14 and im a guy please help! (link)
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Hey hun. Well ... so this is a complicated problem, because you are faced with two different things. Coming out of the closet (if you haven't already) and if you tell this guy you are attracted to him, and he's not gay, you might lose a friend. Well, first, I would beat around the bush .... ask him questions, like if he has ever been attracted to men and things like that ... if it sounds like he's gay, and your comfortable with it, tell him!!! Your not alone in this, I have a gay friend who has the same exact problem as you.
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i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
i rate good (link)
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well, if your ready, do it. It's okay to be a little nervous.
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15 femaile....i've been a week and 1/2 late on my periode and i'm scared as crap that i might be...i went and talked to one of my teachers today and she told me the over counter isn't going to help n then i had to go to my guidce n i was talking to him and he said he gives me till thursday and if i haven't started by then, then i have to tell my mom...well i'm scared as crap...cuz if i am i lose my recent boyfriend that i care for more then anything...n also they "father" well lets jst say i have no way to get intouch w/ him...cuz i only now lil things bout him! but other then that i'm jst scared bout my mom and telling her...n also losing the best guy ever!!??i'm so cofused n i'm so scared!!! (link)
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You poor girl. Hun, I suggest taking a pregnancy test, or going to your doctor to find out for sure. I wouldn't worry your mom just yet. Take a test to find out. Take 2 or 3 to make sure ... and make sure they are different brands. When you go to buy them, ask someone who works there and ask them which they think are the best brands.
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I still have time to think, but I have NO idea what I want to major in. Im really good in english but dont want to do any teacher sort of thing and the author life is too risky. I love horses, but couldnt be a vet b/c i could never bear the sorrow of putting a horse to sleep. I love animals in general. I love designing too, but Im not awsome in math so interior design would be a bit too tricky. I cant really draw. Could anyone just list some cool things to look into even if it has nothing to do with my interests? Thanks... for the help. :-D (link)
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Okay, so you don't want to end up in medical. If you are excellent in english, and you don't want to be a teacher or author, why not a journalist? You could become a news journalist and travel the world, reporting news back to a magazine, newspaper, or news station. Or just someone who finds the information and writes articles in the paper or magazine. There are some excellant jobs out there for english majors.
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me and my boyfriend give each other oral every now and then. well he recently mentioned something about me shaving my pubic hair. he said it would be sexy and easier to perform oral on me. i dont know if i should, it would grow in thicker and darker and id have to shave it all the time. i wouldnt mind it tho probably... what do you think ? (link)
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do it then. If you wouldn't mind doing it then you should. And yeah, most guys don't like pubic hair. lol. It the whole what if they get a hair stuck in their teeth kinda thing. lol.
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Hello,,,,i need help with my girlfriends problem of keeping herself awake while we have sex....i dunno if its boring or im just to small.....can sombody please tell me what to do!! thanks (link)
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Hey there. That sounds like a total confidence breaker, doesn't it? Look, it can't be too small ... size doesn't matter. lol. It all feels the same in the end. And about the boring part, I can't say ... I wouldn't think that any kind of sex would be boring ... okay, I have some ideas of what you can do to make it more stimulating to her ... and some reasons of why she's so drowsy. Okay, she may be droawsy because ... the lenth of time you have sex. Sex can be very exhausting after awhile, and that's why most woman fall asleep almost right away after sex. Maybe your girfriend just can't wait. lol. Or she could be lazy and get tired. lol. But yeah, you can keep her stay up by, doing things that will stimulate her. Such as kissing her neck, her stomach, perform oral sex on her ... and when you have have sex try different positions, because if it's the same everytime ... it will get boring ...anyways, i hope I helped!
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i have a friend from school who is petite and very underweight (by society's standards) but she sees herself as "fat" & no matter what anyone tells her she still tries to loose weight. shes only 80 something pounds! shes one of the skinniest people in school, and we're 15... and im scared it might become into an eating disorder. her parents want her to GAIN weight because she's so tiny for her size and can get hurt in sports. what can i possibly do or say to her because i've tried so many times...? (ps her parents are concerned and know about this, and they told ME to talk to her about it because she wont listen to them!) (link)
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Hey there ... well, you should talk to your friend .... it'll help. 80 pounds .... my god, almost everybody I know is between 100 - 120 and they are soooooo tiny .... I could only imagine .... it sounds like an eating disorder to me .... talk to her ... talk to her parents about it some more .... maybe everyone together, talking to her about it, will help.
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