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I'm 14 and me and my friend kristina have been friends for like ever! since like kindergarten.. Well she got really serious with her ex boyfriend. They're like made for each other.. Well they broke up and were seeing other people for a while.. She got involved with this kid jason and he's totally obsessive! Well they broke up and she got back w/ the first guy.. Now jason won't leave her alone.. If you have any ways she can tell jason to leave her alone that she's with the one she loves completley could you tell me.. I was kinda lost when she told me about this
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This can be a real problem... Try having her talk to Jason and tell him the old "I just want to be friends" thing... I know a lot of times people hate this, but if he really likes her maybe he'll understand that she's happier now with the other guy. If he becomes serious though, into a creepy stalker type guy, she should really talk to a trusted adult. Someone who will look out for her well being... No one should be bothered or harassed by someone they don't want to be with.
Hope I helped!
~Lana
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tell him that being a stacker is stupid and to just get over it
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well, i doubt she would want to do this, but she could get a restraining order, where if theyre seen within 15 yards they r arrested, but ur only supposed to get that if theyre like abusive...otherwise just tell him to shove off, or find other girls
hope i helped!
me
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Well, lol, I don't think this is the best advice, but I would threaten him. threaten to beat him up, or even better, a restraining order. And if he doesn't leave her alone, call the police on him.
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haha wOw the same thing happened to me .. but the guy like 'jasOn' is wierd arOund me and i knOw he likes me and stuff cause he asks about my bOyfriend all the time. i jus ignOre it, but if it gets to the pOint where it gets annOying just tell him to leave her alOne! it might wOrk.. nO wOrries!
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If it's that serious, tell her to go to court and have them put a restraint order on him. Or have the first guy kick his ass!! Either way, good luck.
-xXoBrianna
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if your friend is too afraid to hurt jason's feelings, i know this is the wrong thing to do, but maybe you can just tell jason. like once there was this kid who was obsessed with me and he stalked me and called me constantly. my 2 friends were over when he kept calling, and i had no other choice but to let my friends curse him off on the phone... they totally went at it... it was really mean, but he left me alone.......?
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o k i think this is something she should talk up whith her parents and if he is stalking her then that is illegal so tell them about that too
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