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Ok..just a couple minutes ago my friend told me that she saw my boyfriend smoking with his friends. Sure I think that him smoking is a problem..but what really makes me mad is that he told me that he stopped smoking. And the other day his friend walked up to him and goes "omg dude! you were like drunk last night" and he told me that he didn't know what he was talking about. But now that my friend saw him smoking I don't know what to think. Should I believe her and just ask him about it..or what? Dang I'm so confused
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I think you should tell him about it! I dont think your friend os going to lie about that and If you said that one of his friends even siad he was drunkn the other night that kinda points you in the right diresction. He is first off sneaking about it and lying. In a relationship Honesty and trust is a big factor. How can you trust him when hes lying? You cant change guys no mattwer how hard you try and you know it will just get worse. If I were you I would confront him and if he denys it ditch him you deserve wayyy better and I know there are guys out there for you!!!
hope it all goes well
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you should ask him about it, and plus friends are always gunna be there and guys come and go.. believe your friends over a guy any time.
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DEFINITELY confRont him on it!! I'm shoRe youR fRiend wouldn't lie to you, but foR ALLLLLLLL the facts.. no one knows them betteR than him!!!! HoweveR, if you discoveR that he's lying, I would end it! You shouldn't have to be putting up with that!! I know I don't know him, but fRom what you've put down.. it seems like this kid is a complete waste of youR time!!! You deseRve much betteR, and this kid can't give you anything!! I hope eveRything woRks out!! Hopefully I was some help!!! Take caRe!!
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Ask him about it. Chances are hes just not doing it around you and was doing a very good job hiding it.
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i think that you should ask your boyfriend, and then ask your boyfriends friends.and if he is smoking then you should really tell him how bad it is and if ur mad at him for lieing i would be to
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Yeah, you should talk to him about it, because he did lie to you ... twice. Ask him what the hell he's been up to? lol
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well yooh should talk to him bout it before yooh beleive anything nd explain to him that yooh dont want him to lie to yooh nd if he says he doesnt or he didnt yooh have to think if your frinedd has ec=verlied nd if she would lie bout somthing like this .. well i hope i helped nd if yooh need to talk then yooh can im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
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DAmn Confused...
ask him about it.
hes your man right.
discuss it with him.
hope i helped.
-xxmandaxx
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I dont know how much this guy means to you. Probably alot. But if he lied to you, there maybe many things he'll lie to you about in the future.
Anyways. If he was smoking with his friends ask one of them, even though they will probably cover for him. But you could go through his things ( I know it sounds horrible) and see if you find anything.
This same thing happened to one of my friends. But she believed him. Then she found cigarettes in his locker at school. He said he was just 'selling' them. But if he sells them, he does them. But yeah she stayed with him and, he cheated on her, he continued smoking, continiously got drunk, and much more.
If this happpend to me I would stay with him. Believe him. But ask him about it. If the same situation came up again I would probably not stay with him.
HOPE I HELPED
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Believe her and then ask him about it. Maybe him being drunk was an excuse!!
-xXoBrianna
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this exact thing happend to me .. and i asked him and .. he lied!!!!!! so my friend played truth or dare when i wasent there it was supposed to be man hunt or something but it got boring? but he said truth and she asked "have you ever smoked" and he said yeah so i found out the truth .. trust your friend
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ask him about it. I know you think its terrible b/c he lied to you and all that, but its not the same thing as if he were telling you he didnt kiss a girl and he really did. nope, nope , nope. Its alot different, he probably didnt want you to feel bad for him or worry so he told you. He could have possibly even tried to quit and then went back. Talk to him about it, tell him your no trying to hassle him you just dont want him to be hurt. Tell him the bare truth. Just dont freak him out w/ websites and crap he'll think your like overwhelming. Take it easy and talk to him.
good luck sweeets
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as long as you know your friend wouldnt lie about stuff liekt hat then definately ask him. dont b all mad tho bcuz he may get upset with you. try just tlkaing about it and ask him whats reallyt gopin on and let him no you're questioning him bcuz u care about him, not bcuz u think hes a liar or ne thing. pleez rate-hope i helped=)
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well if shes really ur friend then she wouldnt lie 2 u...either way u need 2 talk 2 him...see how he feels and calmly ask him not 2 lie and what the truth is and maybe u can find ways 2 help him stop but u need 2 talk 2 him....hope this helps!!:]
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I would ask him about it, if I were you. Someone's lying to you, and you have to hear both sides of the story before deciding who it is.
I mean, if my boyfriend told me he stopped smoking and I found out he didn't through a friend, I'd confront him about it. I'd ask him what was going on, and tell him to tell me the truth, and promise to try not to get mad. I'd be more mad if I found out he was lying than if I found out he was smoking.
Anyway, I do think you should talk to him about it. Ask him what's going on. This situation's icky and needs to be cleared up, I think.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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