Ok well i wanna pierce my belly button but my parents won't let me. So, i'm gonna do it myself. What are some good tips for piercing your belly button and wut type of needle do ya need...thnx a bunch
If you do decide to do it, go and ask the people who work at a piercing place and see if they have any ideas. They know what they are doing and they might have some good ideas. But be careful. It might get infected if it doenst get done right. Not to mention your parents might be pretty pissed off if they find out that you went against their wishes. Good luck! Hope my advice helps!
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my 2 best friends, lets call them mary && cindy.... mary and cindy are having like a sleepover tonight, and we just finished finals so its like a celebration. but all 3 of us are best friends and i`m like the 1 being left out and i`m rele kina pissed... i know we dont have to do EVERYTHING together, but i can`t help myself.. i`m pissed. is it rong to be mad??? Ox
No it isnt wrong, but most likely they don't know you are upset. Let them both know how you feel, but dont come on to strong because it might make you seem like the jealous type. Hopw my advice helps!
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Okay, here's how it is: one of my best friends' boyfriend (I'll call him K) isn't the loyal type, but she doesn't really care. The only problem is, he has a crush on me but won't admit it. EVERYBODY in the choir (we're choir geeks, sosumi) knows he likes me. I have a boyfriend. I have no feelings for K. It doesn't bother her that he talks to her about her other crushes. It just bothers her when he talks about me, 'cause I'm one of her closest friends.
I've been considering the following plan: Actually yanking him aside one day during lunch or whatever and saying "look, I don't like the way you're always hitting on me and stuff like that. It really kind of bothers me, and I'd appreciate it if you stopped." If he doesn't stop after that, I figure I'd sic my boyfriend on him and get him to tell K to lay off me (but my guy already wants to beat K up for hitting on me, lol).
What do you guys think of this idea? Is it a good idea? Do you have any other suggestions? I hate to see my friend upset...=(
I think you should try and talk to him first. You have to lay down the law and make him understand. Also explain to him that your boyfriend also doent like it and you both would really appreciate it if he stops. If he keeps at it then its okay to have your boyfriend confront him, but try as much as you can to keep violence out of it. Hope my advice helps!
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ok so i was best friends with my neighbor steve from first grade until about sixth when he moved to a different neighborhood. during his move and after, we kind of grew apart and now i want to ask him to this big dance my school is throwing in may and i want to be his friend again because he's moving back into my neighborhood. i never see him in school and we're both in the eighth grade. how can i start talking to him again and get to know him enough again by late in may? please help me!
Find out where he lives and stop bye and say hello. Have you seen him since he moved back? Start to talk to him more and let him know that you still want to be friends. If you want to send him a carnation, you can. I think its a nice way of telling him you want to be friends again. Hope my advice helps!
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Well, at the end of the school year, we are having a little "formal" to send off the 8th graders into highschool. My problem is what am I going to wear? Im pretty sure the dress style is formal, but I need help picking my dress/gown/skirt/whatever. Any ideas? Thanks
Check to see if there are special colors that you have to wear. Then you can find something stylish in a store but also make sure you are comfortable and make sure that you can move around in it. There is a possibility that they will have dancing so you want to be prepared. Hope my advice helps!
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Well, I was on the way to school, and my girlfriend came up to me and said she likes another guy. So she is deciding whether to go out with me or the other guy. should I even still go out with her? should I like her anymore?
I don't think that you should continue going out with her. You have feelings too and she can't just make you wait until she chooses who to go out with. Besides, if you guys are going out, then she shouldn't be crushing on other guys. Hope my advice helps! Let me know how everything turns out!
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hey..there is this guy who i have liked for a little awhile now. We say hi and smile at each other n stuff...and my friend who is friends with him said that she thinks he likes me and that he sed that he wud ask me out wen he gets to know me..but that was a few weeks ago and he had sed he would try to get to know me..i know hes really shy..and i imed him and he talked a little but i can't really tell if he likes me..what should i do? and do you think he likes me?
It sounds like he is starting to like you. The only thing though that you can do for right now is just keep talking to him. The better friends that you become, the more he'll get to know you. Hope my advice helps!
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hey i'm in college and i'm really shy. i can't seem to make friends with anyone in class. i have friends in my dorm and im comfortable with them, but i see people in my class that i would want to be friends with, but i can't seem to get myself to talk to anyone. i like crawl inside myself and no matter what i can't say anything. especially to guys (im female). i've been trying real hard to open up, but i just can't seem to do that. any advice on how to start opening up and becoming more comfortable with myself and be able to talk to people without being scared that they won't like me? i know im in college and shoud be over that already, and i am for the most part, its just when im surrounded by people i dont know it makes it really hard. thanks in advance to anyone who answers this
Everyone gets shy. I myself am shy. Just try going up to them and make an excuse like asking for a pencil or something. That way it opens up room for a conversation. Or you could try hanging out with your friends and if they know anyone or even if they go out with their other friends, you can meet new people. Hope my advice helps! Let me know how everything turns out.
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i need to know stuff about having boobs. i'm 15 years old and i need to know stuff. like should i wear one at night? what kinds of bras are right? and they hurt sometimes, so what can i do?
Every girl is different. You need to find one that you think is comfortable. You don't have to wear it at night. It sometimes get uncomfortable at night. Hope my advice helps!
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ok well i have had a huge crush on this guy, let's call him bob, for awhile now. i have told him this-anonymously- but i can't get myself to talk to him. i tend to be shy around guys, but i'm definitely not hideous looking either. i don't know what to do. any advice??
I think your should ask him out. Everyone tends to get shy. If you really like this guy, you should ask him. Just set aside your fears. If you overcome your shyness, then you'll be gaining a boyfriend as well as a new friend. Hope my advice helps!
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i have this friend who is so selfish. she told me that if i went out with his guy named matt that shed hate me more then her friend olivia. i really like her as a frind..but i want your opinion..thanx
Dont let this girl threaten you. She obviously isnt your friend if she is going to let something as little as a boy ruin your friendship. Talk things over with her. Hope my advice helps!
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ok there is this guy i really like and apparently he likes me too but he wont go out with me because he doesnt like my friends..... i dont know what to do because i cant get over him but at the same time i wouldnt be able to hang out with him and my friends at the together
I think you should go out with the guy. As far as the problem with your friends, you are going out with him, not your friends. Set some time aside for your friends and your boyfriend. Make them all know that even though you want to hang out with them, it's also important for you to hang out with your boyfriend (and vice versa) too. Hope my advice helps!
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in two weeks im going to florida and we'll be gone for 17 days. I have a cat and i was thinking about asking a friend to come by and take care of him. (for money of course) I was wondering would the cat get too lonely being that we wont be around for so long and my friend will only be in the house for five minutes to feed him and change his litter box? Another option is the kennel..but i hear they are very expensive. Do you know about how expensive they are? Should i have my friend come by or take my cat to a kennel? Thanks and i'll rate you guys because i appreciate your time and advice..i too am a columnist. Thanks again..
-melissa-
I can understand your problem. Kennels are nice but your cat might get lonely or scared because they are going to a strange place. On the other hand, your cat needs more that 5 or 10 minutes from your friend. Try asking your friend to go over to your house often and spending a lot of time there. If she cant, look into a kennel or a pet hotel. Pet hotels are really nice and animals love them. Look to see if there is one near you. If there isn't, just ask your friend, or even a family member or a neighbor to come often while you are gone. Hope my advice helps! Let me know how everything turns out! ~Jenny
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i have a friend who used to be very down to earth and friends with everyone. now she is "popular". Just because of that, she thinks she is better than everyone else, and everyone agrees. she is snobby too, like saying stuff like "omg i hate fat people, old people, smelly people, and people that dont like me." the problem is, i love being friends with her!! she is so much fun to hang out with when there are not other people there. with other people, she seems to think she needs to act like that. when i ask her why she is so mean to me, she says "you are mean to me because you think you are so much better!!!" what should i do?!?!
It sounds like she is letting her reputation get in the way. If she is a true friend, she wouldnt treat you that way. Even though you might still want to be friends with her, try hanging out with others and less time with her. You need to show her that she isnt the boss of you. Sooner or later, she'll get the hint. I hope everythin goes okay with you and her. Hope my advice helps!
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i have this friend beth and shes makign all of these bad choices liek havin sex and doin drugs.. how do I help her?
Explain to her that you are worried about her. If she acts defensive just tell her that you really care about her and don't want her to get hurt. Even though you are worried, only she can control her actions. It's her choice about what to do. Hope my advice helps!
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Alright i was talking to the guy that I have kind of been more than friends with and his girlfriend called him while i was on the phone with him... when we were doing stuff together he didnt have a girlfriend... but ne wayz he came over to the other line and i asked him who is was and he said it was his girlfriend.. i asked him if he wanted me to let him go and he said no. he told his girlfriend he was busy and then he told me that he was talking to me ne wayz. well anywayz i really like him but i dont want his girlfriend to get hurt should i back off until they break up or what... plus doesnt he seem like he likes me???/ im confused please help......
Try to keep your distance for awhile. If he doesnt like the idea and still wants to talk to you, make it clear to him that although you still wanna hang out with him, you still don't want his girlfriend to get hurt. Hope my advice helps!
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13/f/7th grade
There's this really cute 8th grader that I like and he kinda doesn't know that i exist. I mean i see him a lot at my cousin's house and he notices me but i don't know how to get him to like me. Please, for the love of god, help me!
Try going up to him and starting up a conversation. If he seems interested try to talk to him more often. Hope my advice helps!
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ok tomorro night my dad and i are going out for a steak dinner and maybe some shopping. My friend tutored me for free a few times, which was really nice of her. My mom suggested me taking her tomorro.. my dad said he didnt mind even though he did mention he'd rather it be just the two of us. What should i choose to do?
Hi! I think you should go with your dad alone. Explain to your mom that your want to spend some quality time with your dad. Then take your friend out a different night. Im sure your mom means well for suggesting it, but its not going to hurt anyone by putting off a date with your friend for a few days. Hope my advice helps!
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ok my best friend is going out with kid and he is younger than her and he is crazy and jumped her brother and pulled a knife out on him and said he was going to kill me and our other friend to but she wont listen to me,.. i tell her to dump him but she said she loves him and i dont no what to do and they had sex and he is two years younger (sorry i cant spell) and they have only bin going out for like three weeks and i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP!!!=(
Hi! You have to really lay down the law with her. Be firm but gently explain that you are worried about her and that you don't want her to get hurt. As for the threatening part, tell a trusted adult as soon as possible. If this kid has possesion of knives and other weapons, and if he is treatening to kill you, its something to be taken seriously. This kid is prbably dealing with a lot of emotions right now and he needs help. Tell someone you trust. If your friend isn't going to stand up to that kid and tell someone, then you have to. Please let me know how everything turns out. I hope my advice helps you! ~Jenny
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i feel like im growing apart from some of my close friends..is there any way to prevent this??
Signed,
Missed Friend
Hi! Everyone at some point feels that way. Try going and making new friends. Or if you really wanna stay frineds with them, try spending a lot of time with them or even try just going up and talking to them. Just be like "I feel like our friendship is growing apart and I dont want that to happen." You might even be suprised to find that they feel the same way. Good luck with your friends! I hope everything turns out okay! Hope my advice helpes!
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