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I'M WORRIED OUT OF MY MIND
i have this friend beth and shes makign all of these bad choices liek havin sex and doin drugs.. how do I help her?
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okay hi the people that wrote you are telling all the wrong stuff...(god and stuff cant help her because god is the one who made her do it)okay your friend beth is going down the hill not doing right but thats her own life you got to worrie about you and only you...yeah you wanna be a friend and help but you cant help her...she got to help her self before you help her...she has to want the help before you give her the help
if she dont ask her the help and your that worrie about her go to her mom and dad,or who ever and telll them whats going on...or sit down with your friend and tell her how you feel and dont stop yelling and tlking until she gets the point that its bad...i do drugs but i havnt had sex yet...so this is all i know
~*trying to help*~
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There's not really anything you can do except talk to her and let her know your there if she needs you. She really needs God and you could help her see the light.
*Hope I helped!*
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tell her parents
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WELL!~ y don't you try talking to your friend! and if she doesn't stop go talk to an adult or something like that!
hope i helped!
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you should just talk her and tell her how you feel and hopefully she'll realise what shes doing to herself and stop.
always-jamie
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Help her by telling an adult if you both are underage.
If either you or your friend are not younger than eighteen, mind your own business.
Basically, people will have sex. People will drink. People will smoke. People will do drugs. However, people do not need narcs as friends.
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I think you should tell an adult. She may be mad at you for this but if you don't do it she could loose her life or become pregnat!
Hope it helps!
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You don't...
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Well, I had a friend like that too once. She could never stop having sex and doing drugs. Her mom talked to me once and knew that all of it was going on. If you talk to her mom, as long as she's kinda cool and wont freak out and kill her kid, maybe there could be some therapy. If not, just talk to your friend and let her know that you are worried about her and make up some story ilke your mom's friend died of aids and your uncle henry died of an overdose and it really hurts you to see her doing stuff like that because you know what it feels like to lose somebody to something stupid. If she doesn't listen to you and does'nt care what you have to say, simply realize that she's not a true friend and even though you've tried to help her nothing is going to work.
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tell her your concerned... i dont think you can totally make her stop making bad decisions, but if you tell her your worried about her, she will back off a lil cuz she knoes sum1 cares about her... Ox hope i helped
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Explain to her that you are worried about her. If she acts defensive just tell her that you really care about her and don't want her to get hurt. Even though you are worried, only she can control her actions. It's her choice about what to do. Hope my advice helps!
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You have to talk to your friend and tell her what your feeling. Telling her that your scared for her and care about her could help. If she doesn't understand what your trying to say and doesn't care what your saying, she needs to learn the hard way. Let her make mistakes in life, she can only learn from them. But you still have to be by her side and keep being the great friend your being.
♥ Krissy
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You need to talk to your friend and tell her that you are worried about her. Tell her that she needs to start making better choices because it's not only effecting her life, but also yours. She needs to know how you feel and you are the only person who knows that. If she doesn't understand, then you need to leave her alone and let her face the fact that she is making bad choices and suffer the consequences. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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tell someone, like her parents
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talk to your friend about it sometime after school, just tell her that your worried about her and scared, your just being a good friend showing that you care by talking to her, be honest thats the best you can do! xox
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