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ok well i have a boyfriend and everything and i love him, but lately ive been talking to this other guy whos liked me since this past summer, and im starting to like him, and he knows this, but my boyfriend has no idea about whats going on.. he gets suspicious and asks me if i like him but i tell him to not worry about it. i like both these guys a lot and i dont know what to do. when im with my boyfriend he makes me feel like im a princess, but when im with the other guy, i feel totally comfortable with myself.. i dont want to hurt either one of them but when it comes down to it, i know i have to. Help Me Please! ive done everything i can to try to make up my mind but nothing seems to work.
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In my opinion coming from a guy u have to let both of the guys know whats going on otherwise you might loose both of them. If you really like the other guy you will have to tell him before you loose him if you really like him. Also you might wanna take a break from your boy friend if you like another guy. You dont want to end up wondering "what if i had gone out with him" in 2 years or a year.
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Well i think you should definitly take a break with your bf. if you are thinking that you like anotheer guy then its only fair if you tell him and see if anything could happen with the other guy
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Well this should actually be easy..you love the guy your with now as you say..but apparently not cause your thinkin about some other guy i mean you say you like em both alot but you love the guy your wit..so maybe if you didnt talk to the guy on the side you wouldnt have to worry about this mess.. thats whats up...For real for real.. Hope wasnt too mean jus lettin you know hun...~*DEZ*~
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you already have a boyfriend ! your hurtting him by actually just liking another guy, i would feel horrible just lying to him, def stick with your boyfriend hun, its the best thing to do, even tho you like the other guy, but just tell him to wait until you guys break up, or at least break up with your boyfriend before you start to like both of the guys ALOT. xox
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Girl I know exactly how you are feeling I have been through the same thing. Frustrating isnt it? Well what I did was 1) I made a list of al the good things about the 2 boys and which ever one out weight the other is the one I would choose. That didnt work so what I did was I asked myself: who can I see myself with in 10 years? Who would I rather be at the alter with? Who do I want to have kids for? But most of that didnt work so what I did was I told my BF I needed a "break" and that I wanted to get one by out of my system before I make a commitment to him. So he agreed and before the day was over wit h I was back with my man because I missed him I knew how much I loved him and how much I really wanted him. So forget the other boys feelings. Yea its gonna be tough but would you rather end up happily in love or ending up with someone because you didnt want to hurt their feeling? If you think your boyfriend wont go for the "break" thing then Just sit down and talk to your crush and ask him questions that you look for in a man and do the same for your BF and who ever comes out with the best answers that is the one you need to be with. If your man is the one you choose then just tell the other boy that you love your man and you just want to be friends and if he REALLY likes you he'll understand but if he blows you off then you're better off without him! if you need anymore suggestions email me at babyqueen08@yahoo.com
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TO: anonymous
well since yor boyfrend was first then mehbe yoo should be with him first.. i mean yoo should reallie give him a chance since, as it seems, he reallie likes yoo... and yoo can totalie be yorself with yor boyfrend too...i mean idnt that wat its all about? yoo shouldnt break up with yor boyfrend just yet...give him more of a chance... ya noe?
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