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boy trouble
ok, see there is this boy that i dated a while back and I really liked him until he broke up wit me, but now i am back with another guy and I am completely in love with him and our relationship couldnt be better. but everytime my friends like my ex...i get so jealous and mad...why is this? i really need some help
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Well, A few years ago I was in that kind of relationship; where I was totally in love with my new guy, but i hated the fact that other girls liked him, and i have always wondered why. Upon reading your question, i understood the answer. You are not jealous of your friend for liking your ex, you are jealous of your boyfriend for having people like him. Even though that is slightly selfish, you will get over it, and life does go on. Chill out!!!!!!
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oh, dont worry!this is normal. you probably don't realize it, but a part of you might still feel that he belongs to you or you're still hurt over the fact that he broke up with you. You might even feel that way because your friends like him after what he did to you. but just remember that he's not your problem anymore. hope i helped you at all.
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Best friend's are OFF limit's to our ex's...that's just the rules! But if she asked you first, then that's a whole 'nother story. Assuming she's not a bestfriend and just a friend to ya' then it sounds like your suffering from "I dont want him, but dont want no-one else to have him either" disorder. {lol} It's very common, every girl at some point in her life has felt that exact same way! Just focus on the wonderful thing you and your new love have and forget the past!
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You probably still have feelings for your ex. Sometimes it takes awhile to make them feelings go away. Just keep reminding yourself that he broke up with you and broke your hair, not you have a new boyfriend who you love. I'm sure the feelings will go away once you relize how much you love your new boyfriend.
♥ Krissy
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OMG, I so get what you mean. This has happened to me. I guess it is just human nature. That happens to me sometimes, just think about why you broke up and thats why you shouldnt be jealous and they will have to deal with him. Thats what I do. I wish you luck on this situation, cause thats a toughie.
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