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Well, I have been close close friends with this guy since we were in kndergarten. We used to spend the night at each other's houses. Well now i am begging to like him more than a friend. our moms are really good friends and our familys are really close. I don't know if i should make the first move or not. He tells me i look good all the tims and that i am the prettiest in the school. I don't know if i should make the first move or not? I want to but afraid if word goes out that my family will find out and then it will become a big ordeal...help?!
Follow your heart. what is your heart sayings. Does your heart care what your family thinks or what. Maybe u should make the first move if that is what your heart wants to go with...Hope I helped
Okay well i have this really close friend of mine(guy) and he asked me out. Previsouly before that he just treated my bestest friend in the whole world bad. He told her he liked me better and he had to make a decsion between me and my best friend. At the time my best friend liked him alot!! And The guys asked her out right after he had said mean stuff to her. She was still really sad about it so she siad no. Well, A week later he asked me out. I said no to support my friend. But now i am begging to like my bestest friend old crush. I told him to ask me out again when i am ready to be in a relationship and when my friend gets over him. But now the guy who hurt my bestest friend has a really close friend and he wants to ask me out. I really want to say yes but then again i don't want the guy to get mad because we are almost at the point where we are boifriend and grlfriend. What should i do.. go with the guys best friend, or go with the guy>>???
I feel the same way w/ someone. i think u should decide which one means more to u. I think the best friend does. But u pick decide which one u'd rather spend your life with. Hope I helped!!
my best friend has a boyfriend who she thinks is more important than me. when i say something about him, she gets mad at me!does that mean she doesnt care about me anymore?
Well, not necceraly it doesn't it may be just her way of telling u soemthing u don't know the answer to. She might not be satisfied with her boifriend or having troubles and it may just be a phase. WHAT EVER YOU DO don't say anything bad about her boifriend try and talk positive.
okay ive babysat before before i moved to a new neighborhood and me new one has some little kids on it that i wouldnt mind to babysit so how should i let my neighbors no im avalible when they need me without being o like hi can i be your babysitter or yeah so any tips (and the kids i used to babysit were 2 boys ages of 4 and 6 and a little girl age 2-3 and the kids in my neighborhood are around that too)
Well meet them first and then be like I just moved in and is there anything i can do . Think and that will give u help
does anybody kno anygood rap or disco songs?
rap yes disco no...
Rap: umm hmmm ummm try eminem like just lose it or Mocking bird. Try Usher songs like My Boo or Confessions, Try Mario "let me love you"...hope that was a help
My favorite pants have a hole in the crotch and the fabric is worn thin around the seam. How can i fix the hole without sewing. I have tried duct tape and safety pins already. Do you have any ideas?
Well it is time to get rid of the pants huney...That would be really bad if someone found out that there was a hole there. They could jump to conclusions and soo forth...
I started cutting my self about a year, and I just did it to see what it felt like and to maybe finally get some attention from my mom and now I cant stop... its like after every little argument I have with her I have to go up to my room and cut my self or it doesn’t feel right. I have tried to stop and I have even made promise to people but I just don’t know what to do any more it seems like its getting out of control and I don’t want to have to go see a therapist because I don’t know if I could come out and say I have a problem so basically I’m just asking what I should do...?
I think ya should go see a therapist. Get help. You coulf dye from cutting yourself and ppl that love and really care for u would be sad and dissapointed that they couldn't have helped sooner please see soemeone...
i have this friend beth and shes makign all of these bad choices liek havin sex and doin drugs.. how do I help her?
You don't...
I HATE MY MOMS BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Every one thinks hes soooooooooo nice but theres just something about him i dont like hes hespanic but my boyfriend is hespanic so im not against hespanics and he was my moms teenage love. I just dont get it i hate him and i told my mom but shes like o shut up u never do anything for me. And that really hurt me. Im crying every night and i cant live with my dad cuz he is always traveling and i feel like dieing. She doesnt get it and my mom was always nice to me but now since she has been dating this guy. She is totally agaisnt me. Its not fair. He claims to "care" for me and my brother but i dont think its true. He thinks that my mom is going to marry him and she said it isnt true but i dont trust her. PLEASE HELP!!! I will rate 5
Well see a therpist or someone u can talk to and try and look up the guys records. Find out if he is bad or good. If it says he is good then try talking to that theripist again and work out your problems. Hope that helped. Test the guy like pretend tyo hurt your slef infornt of him and see if he cares...But don't really hurt yourself though.. Hope that was a helpe
my sisters planned a surprise party for my mom's birthday because she is turning 50! my sisters said i could bring a boy to it if i wanted. i really want to, but how would i ask him if he wanted to go?
Well just ask him if we wanted to come over to to celebrate your mom and then if he says sure i'd love to then go into details and that might be a way... hope that helped!!
i really want a boyfriend! i feel like all my friends have boy friends and i dont! i want to ask this one kid out but i dont think he likes me like i like him. how can i find out?
Well don't rush into a relationship. Don't want to go out with the guy because your friends have boyfriends and you don't. Like him because of who he is and what is in the inside. Maybe your aren't ready to be in a relationship or maybe your friends rushed into one. Take it slow...
Are you suppose to wash your hair everyday?Not Because I wash my hair everyday.Someone told me It like ruins the hair or bad for it.Thanx
Umm no not neccarly, Maybe if u wash it like 2 or3 times a day it might not be the best for your hair but washing your hair is good and it gets the dirt out of it...
i have this friend and we always hang out ....and mess around .........when i was scared at the movies ..becasue we wre watching a scayie movie ..he held my hand ....and at school he linked my arm with his ..and as he let go ...he grabed my hand ..i mean i like him ...i have alot of fun when i'm with him ...and some times i'll grab him by the hand ......when i say come on ....and he'll hold my hand .but for a like a couple of seconds....wat should i do .i like him..but i don't if he likes me or not .or is he just mesing with me
Well i think he isn't messing i think u are really close and go somewhere with it. U should make the first attemp and go for it. If he decides he just wants to keep it the way it is right now then so be it. But if he does want to go on go for it with him . Hope that helped...
i have this friend named elle. we always used to hang out together, but one fight and now she says " we shouldnt talk for a couple months" because we were such good friends that it hurt more..even if the fight was about somthing so small. shes found friends..only thats because sh turned them aginst me...i dont want to loose her as a friend...but what should i do???
I have the same exact problem....What I tryed was to take a couple weeks off and then she came back to me and needed me. She couldn't last without me. Maybe you should try that. I didn't want to lose her either but I tried to overcome that fear and it worked. But the thing id we have fighten over many other things also not just that thing. And now I feel I don't know if she really is a freiend to me or she just uses me or something. SO it worked and now i am the one with the problem I hoped my advice worked..
My BFF is acting, well, different. she has turned into the punk/rock type. I don't want to control her or anything, but idk. Do you understand?? I was so used to her personality, and know she's so different. We don't sit with each other at lunch anymore. When I talk to her she goes on and on about how much i mean to her. i just miss her. Please help
WEll I have a friewnd like thqat and I hate What she wears and It really annoyes me. I tell her that I don't like what she's wearing and seh says that is nice or says she doesn't care. I have learned to overcome her being like this and tried to pretend she wasn't like that. Maybe you could give it a try. Or if that doesn't work them explain to her how you feel and what you don't like about her... Hope that was a help.
How do you keep a conversation going? I usually say something then it comes out stupid and i stop.
You talk about anything that is in ur mind if it is stupid or not doesn't matter... I guess that is what I do and it works...
ok strange stuff has been happening to me I see like some thing happen in my head then they actually come true and soem times I will cry for know reason and then some thing later that day or week some thing really really sad happend weather its on tv or at home and then I told my friend that my cat might die becuz she was really sick and I promise 5 minutes later the vet called to tell us she died I think I am becomeing a freak
I don't. That might become good in some ways and bad in others. You never know if you head is wrong or right till it happens. It might seem bad to you but kewl to others
I Have this friend who is always putting themselves down and somethimes i dont know what to say becuase they arent the most attractive person and i dont want to seem fake about it. Whenever they tell me that there ugly or whatnot...im always like dont put yourself down like that your not ugly. Every time i talk to this person they always tell me how ugly they are! PLEASE HELP ME IN WHAT TO SAY TO THEM!!
Yah i have the same problem your friend is always putting her self down. Well i think you should try and explain to them that they are wrong and tell them the truth. That is wat i did. See if that works if not prove to them that they are wrong maybe...
hey this is for mainly guys unless there are any girls out there who play football- but i reallyyyyy love football and i am a girl and i want to be a coach someday- what do you think? could that ever happen?
Yes i think you could. I love playing football with a lot of guys and they don't treat me any different. I think you should follow your dreams and go for it...
Ok there is this New Guy that has been at my school for like 3 days. And he Sits at my table for lunch, and he also is in my Gym class and my S.S class. And i think he is cute but i don't know if i should tell him or not. Can you guys please tell me if i should your not.
Well ithink you shouldn't actually say the words to him "I think you are cute" I think you should maybe say it in different words... Like You look good today and always or something like that...??