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I HATE MY MOMS BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Every one thinks hes soooooooooo nice but theres just something about him i dont like hes hespanic but my boyfriend is hespanic so im not against hespanics and he was my moms teenage love. I just dont get it i hate him and i told my mom but shes like o shut up u never do anything for me. And that really hurt me. Im crying every night and i cant live with my dad cuz he is always traveling and i feel like dieing. She doesnt get it and my mom was always nice to me but now since she has been dating this guy. She is totally agaisnt me. Its not fair. He claims to "care" for me and my brother but i dont think its true. He thinks that my mom is going to marry him and she said it isnt true but i dont trust her. PLEASE HELP!!! I will rate 5
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I say you should sit your mom down and have a good talk with her. Tell her whats bugging you. And if she keeps going out with this guy try moving in with your dad. Travling isn't that bad is it?
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Well.. i feel the same way about my step dad..but i know exactly why i dislike him..you dont really have a reason why you dont like him..but my mom acted different when she got wit my step dad and it pissed me off cause sometimes she acted real geeky or something..but this is how i looked at it if he makes your mom happy jus try your best to get along with him..sorry if i didnt help much..~*DEZ*~
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he is bad news. insticts usually indicate when bad shit is going down, so keep your undies in a locked drawer and check for cameras in your house.
-hitler
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i am so sorry! first of all tell her exactly how you feel and what's been happening ever since your mom started dating him, and then see what she has to say from her point of view. tell her that she's been acting differently ever since she started dating him. then say that you love her so much and you want the old her back and you've been so uncomfortable since he came into your life. maybe she feels like she needs to have someone like a man by her side so thats why shes so into him. if they just started dating then they probably wont be thinking about marriage for a while. maybe your mom will get over him and everything will go back to normal. also, even though its hard, you may want to have a talk with him. tell him that your just not ready for a new man in ur mom's life and that you want him to understand the way you feel. dont be like oh i hate your guts or anything though. also, how does your brother feel about him? you should also see a guidence counsler at school or from somewhere and talk about this with her. you probably dont want to but you really should. it will make you feel better. then after you talk to one, maybe you could set up an appointment with her, u, and your mom. i hope i could help!
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Aww that totally sucks. You have to find someway to get your mother to listen to you. It could take a lot of work but you have to. A good way is to have your school guidence counselor call your mom and have her come in and the three of you can talk. Try Talking to your mom's boyfriend about him treating you better and tell him how you feel with your mom there. Worse comes to worse you might have to move with ur dad even though he travels a lot. Good luck!
~Brina~
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your mom should never put some guy before her own child. and then he's not your dad. you have got to tell someone else, cause you most likely can't stop this yourself. and it sounds like she will marry him, so you dont have a bunch of time.
your mother's goal was suppposed to be to find someone the family likes, and you are immediate family. tell her this and if she doesnt get it, find someone who will do something. hope i helped any. good luck!
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WEll I think you should have a long talk with her and if you hate him that much tell your mom if she really cares about you that she should brake up with him my parents are still together but allot of my friends parents arent and all of them said that every single person that there mom or dad went out with they hate them and I can understand maybe that it its not them same like your dad. if she really cares she will trust you
HOped I helpd
Megan
p.s. hope it works out for you
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Well see a therpist or someone u can talk to and try and look up the guys records. Find out if he is bad or good. If it says he is good then try talking to that theripist again and work out your problems. Hope that helped. Test the guy like pretend tyo hurt your slef infornt of him and see if he cares...But don't really hurt yourself though.. Hope that was a helpe
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if your brother is old enough, talk to him or live with him... or call the youth crisis hotline at 800-488-4663 or call kids save which is info and referrals for kids in crisis at 800-543-7283
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I think you should talk to your mom about this all. Your her daughter and she should listen to what you have to say. Tell her that you don't think this guy is right for her and that you think she changed because of him. You just need to have a heart to heart talk with your mother. Just let everything out that you've been meaning to tell her. I'm sure she'll understand and be there for you. Maybe she'll even try to shape things up. I'm not saying she's going to leave the guy she's with, because she probably won't. Even though, you'll always be her daughter and I think daughters should come before boyfriends.
♥ Krissy
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