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Bff???
My BFF is acting, well, different. she has turned into the punk/rock type. I don't want to control her or anything, but idk. Do you understand?? I was so used to her personality, and know she's so different. We don't sit with each other at lunch anymore. When I talk to her she goes on and on about how much i mean to her. i just miss her. Please help
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omg wow u just described me! haha ok well i talked to her.. but that didnt work cause she just said the exact same thing.. but then i got to know this girl who used to be best friends with with the girl my x best friend is now best friends with and now me and her are best friends! does that make sence? lol well what i am trying to say is get to know her friends!
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Well, if your friendship is working out that's very good! You two must be doing something right to keep your relationship. Your friend is changing and your going to have to get used to it. I know change might suck sometimes, but people (especially in their teens) are always changing because their trying to find out who they are right now.
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WEll I have a friewnd like thqat and I hate What she wears and It really annoyes me. I tell her that I don't like what she's wearing and seh says that is nice or says she doesn't care. I have learned to overcome her being like this and tried to pretend she wasn't like that. Maybe you could give it a try. Or if that doesn't work them explain to her how you feel and what you don't like about her... Hope that was a help.
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hey, well people do change over time and you can't just expect them to be the same for ever..just go along with the "new her" and try to get along and understand what she's going through too.
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people change..sorry..all you can do is talk to her and tell her how you feel
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Just because she looks different doesn't necessarily mean she is different inside. Yea she's grown up, changed a little. Everyone sorta does that, more than others. As much as it may bug us it happens and you have to let your friends make choices for themselves. Just don't say anything about drugs or bad stuff just because she looks like a punk/rock kind of person. It makes you feel like you are being judged by your looks because a lot of people see a person in black and say "bad". It's really frustrating, (believe me I know ) and if you want to keep her just trust her. Go do things by yourselves.. she will most likely be her usually self you know with you.. because she's grown accustomed to being a certain way around you. I really hope I helped, and update me if you need anymore advice. :)
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Aww, hey hun. Well can you talk to her about it? Tell her everything you stated in the above. Ask her it why she is acting this way and how you are her bff and trust her so much. Tell her you dont want to loose her!
♥ Michelle
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