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secret friend...or distant??
i have this friend named elle. we always used to hang out together, but one fight and now she says " we shouldnt talk for a couple months" because we were such good friends that it hurt more..even if the fight was about somthing so small. shes found friends..only thats because sh turned them aginst me...i dont want to loose her as a friend...but what should i do???
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it doesnt really matter b/c u have cancer and ur going to die in 3 days!
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If she needs time and space to cool off maybe you should give it to her. But don't give up on her.. maybe she just thinks your leaving her just like you think she is. So maybe she is just trying to find some other friends just incase? I know I've had that problem before..
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talk to her and try to sort things out, friendship is a strong bond that shouldn't be broken because everyone needs friends to survive whether or not they believe it
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talk to her... i know it sounds like o that wont help but really belive me in these situations it does! and the fact that you think your in a fight over something small probaly makes her even more mad. when i got into a fight with these girls they said i cant belive your mad over something so small... but the thing was it was a small THING but my feelings arent small... so maybe thats how she feels! look at it from her point of view and talk to her but dont yell and stuff be calm but act like you know your right. >>brookie<<
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just confront her...tell her i know u want a break from me but that doesnt mean u need to cut me off and turn my other friends against me! (but do it in a nice way!!!) and then.... all i can say is to just move on! if she is that great of a friend she will come back..other wise there are better friends out there...i am not saying to be mean to her i am just saying that you should be friendly with her but find someone else to do everything with!!
Hope i helped!
Hannah
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Hey that is ExAcTlY what happend to me and my friend she just got mad at me for haning out with some one she doesnt like and she yelled at me for all kinds of things!! but if she really cares about you being her friend again she should talk to you more and more and you just have to build up that friend ship again, and a true friend would have at least talked to you about the situation, but that is just how people where i live work it out, Hope i helped! ♥ kristi
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if she's going to turn other people against you, she's not a good or true friend! good friends wouldn't do that.. and if she wanted time away from you.. that's not good. the better thing to do was to work it out or to talk to you about it. i think you need to forget her and find a better friend. i'm sure you could find a more loyal friend.. hope that helped =)
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you definitely need to confront her about this issu and tell her that you are really sorry for fighting with her. and that it's really stupid that you are throwing your friendship away and then remind her of all the good times you've had as friends. and then maybe she'll come to her senses and if not just forgot about her and when she comes around and wants to your friend again then go ahead if you want to keep this friendship that you guys have. good luck!
*BeSs*
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I have the same exact problem....What I tryed was to take a couple weeks off and then she came back to me and needed me. She couldn't last without me. Maybe you should try that. I didn't want to lose her either but I tried to overcome that fear and it worked. But the thing id we have fighten over many other things also not just that thing. And now I feel I don't know if she really is a freiend to me or she just uses me or something. SO it worked and now i am the one with the problem I hoped my advice worked..
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