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is it wrong?
my 2 best friends, lets call them mary && cindy.... mary and cindy are having like a sleepover tonight, and we just finished finals so its like a celebration. but all 3 of us are best friends and i`m like the 1 being left out and i`m rele kina pissed... i know we dont have to do EVERYTHING together, but i can`t help myself.. i`m pissed. is it rong to be mad??? Ox
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NO! i would be mad to if my best friends left me out of something like that! you should confront and tell them how you feel and ask them if there is anything wrong. good luck!
*BeSs*
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Its not wrong to be mad. Maybe they just couldnt have 2 people sleepover. just talk to them. but no you arent wrong-trix
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its not wrong just start talkin with "mary and cindy" or wut u gurlz do...i kno wut it feels like my friends used to do it to me all the time so i just went off and did my own stuff....but if u dont like that idea just try doing more stuff with them....hope i helped:)
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I know exactely how you feel! Yes, you're allowed to be jealous, but think of this as a time where you can find someone else to hang out with. Take a break from Mary and Cindy. A group of three friends means most of the time one gets left out. A group of four means friends for everyone, and you can still hangout with the others.
~Nice_Girl75~
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no if i was you i would be mad to, you should say somthing to them and ask why they didnt invite you thats grimmy since your all best friends
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Feelings are never wrong, you just need to analyze where they are coming from.
You are feeling a little insecure cause your friends left you out and that's normal. But why did they leave you out? Was it an oversight? Did they do it on purpose or maliciously? Maybe they wanted to spend time together alone? Maybe one of them had something they needed to share with the other of a persoal nature and they didn't want anyone else around. It may have absolutely nothing to do with you at all. Maybe they're not happy with each other and this is a way to settle their differences. I don't know the entire situation, all I am saying is that there are a lot of possibilites and you'll probably never know the truth. Try to judge them favorably and give them the benefit of the doubt. But in reality, even though it seems really important to you right now, it doesn't really matter what the reason is.
You matter. And you are letting yourself get to yourself. It's not about them it's about you. They're going to have a merry time with or without you. You need to figure out how to be merry by yourself and not worry about what mary and cindy are doing. Go hang out with another friend. Do something with your parents or a family member. Read a book. Do something productive. the most important thing is not to mope about it.
Be happy. Life is great. You just finished your finals. All that hard work is over and it's time to relax. Don't ruin it for yourself. You can have a sleepover with either one of them whenever you want after tonight. Or you can have one with a different friend. Or not have one at all cause it's all about what you want to do to make yourself happy.
Hope this is helpful. That's my advice.
John
(bobcohen5309@yahoo.com)
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hey. its not wrong, it just shows that you care about them. dont worry, many people feel this way at one point or another. the thing is that sometimes people like to hang with just one other person for one night. just to that person. its different. maybe thats why. i have two friends which i'm really close to, and we have sleepovers as well. sometimes its the 3 of us, sometimes its just 2 of us. but we learned that its not because we want to make one person feel left out. its just because its different to hang out with one person or the other, or all of us together. maybe you should talk to them about it and see why they did it. maybe they didnt mean to. even though its not wrong to be pissed, you cant be mad at them for having a sleepover without you. just find out whats going on, i'm sure theres a good explanation. hope everything works out.
peace and love
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omg no way, this happens to me all the time!!!! ♥ Julia=)
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dont be mad. not every1 HAS to like you.
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Don't worry, you have a reason to be mad at them and it's alright to be mad.
-Karen
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Girl, it's ok to be mad because i would be mad too. The friends I used to have always left me out so i decided to make truer friends and i left the old ones out. and we hav'nt talked in like a year and a half---yea I regret it sometimes, but these people were madd grimy to me
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No it isnt wrong, but most likely they don't know you are upset. Let them both know how you feel, but dont come on to strong because it might make you seem like the jealous type. Hopw my advice helps!
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if i were u i would be mad too. ask them y u weren't invited
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