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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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how can u have sex with your underwear on?? cause u said that in one question : "what is the difference between dry sex and regular sex?"

you basically hump each other because nothing can go in because of the clothing.
♥ Steph

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Well, today I asked my bf if he'd told everyone about us (we've been together 6 months today) and he said he had except one girl. When I further probed him about why, I found out she was a girl he had asked out (but she refused) before we got together. Well, he won't tell her because her parents seem to think he's a suitable candidate for her to marry and he thinks they would be hurt if they found out he was in love with someone else. I feel really hurt by this, because even though I know he meant well not to hurt them, I feel this shows he has feelings for her still, or at least is trying to save has as "Backup" in case things don't work out.
Am I justified in feeling this way ? Or could he have genuinely wanted to spare their feelings? Or does this mean there are some genuine problems in our relationship?

I will rate. And thank you.

if i were you i would make him choice betwenn you the girl he loves and the other girl. no guy should play a girl that. you deserve to be treated like a princess not to hurt because of a girl the rejected him. you need to tell him how you feel about all of this and explain t him that he is hurting you when the girl was the one who hurt him. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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what is the difference between regular sex and dry sex?

regular sex is when you have your clothes off and having sex. dry sex is wheen you have underwear or stuff like that on.
♥ Steph

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what is 69 and 666? everyone seems to know what they are besides me....

69 if you look at it closely it looks like a guy eating a girl out and a girl sucking the guys dick. i am not sure about the 666 but it looks like a 3 some probably.
♥ Steph

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I have little red bumps on my legs, I'm pretty sure they're from shaving. Is it because I shave up my leg instead of down?

And how could you get these to go away?

you are doing it right by shaving up. but what could be the problem is either your not using enough shaving cream(or not using any at all) or your razer is bad. either try changing your razer or putting some lotion on after shaving.
♥ Steph

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I'm going to my best friends bat mitzpa. I'm wearing a black dress with a black purse, black open toed shoes, and possibly a little black makeup. Should I wear black stockings? I'm African-American and 5'5. If this helps at all, I have a scar pale scar on my foot, nice toenails, and im not dark at all- im a little darker than chocolate milk but lighter than milk chocolate.

dont over do the black. dont wear the stockings.
♥ Steph

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I was just wondering what most people thought.


Would you rather regret something you said or regret not saying anything at all? And why? Your opinion means nothing if you don't explain.

i think not saying anything would be the worest. what if someoene bad were to be able to happen and you could have been able to stop it but you didnt say anythign to anyone about it.
♥ Steph

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Is it true that if you dont shower when you're sweaty or after a workout you get acne because the sweat clogs pores or something? j/w

kinda. because when you sweat and it stays it will make your face oily and then it will clog up your porse..
♥ Steph

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my bf fingered me (barely)for the first time. he put two fingers in, but it was only like 1 inch. the following day i was bleeding, however i didn't feel any pain. is it still possible he popped my cherry?

yup everyone reacts to things differently and for you it would be that he popped your cherry and it started to bleed the next day.
♥ Steph

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you know that song.."ive got sunshine on a cloudy day" and then its all MY GIRL my girl my girl.

WHO SINGS THIS?
:]

my girl by the temptations
♥ Steph

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so i was going out with this kid, and we were like best friens. Yesterday, i found out that he was using me so we broke up and all that. I dont know what to say becuase its really awkward now.

♥

yes it will feel akward but you need to get over it if you still wanna be friends with him. try to forget about even going out with him and try to act like you used to before you went out with him. it will take time but it will happen. otherwise dont talk to him.

♥ Steph

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does putting toothpaste on pimples overnight seriously work? if so, how fast?
thanks *

it is supposed to. i tryed it for me it didnt really work. i didnt think it works but what it is supposed to do is dry up your pimple and and will pop but it DOESNT work. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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Is losing your virginity on prom night the worst thing ever??

cause me and my boyfriend are staying in a hotel with his bro and my best friend... but with 2 rooms?

Im a good virgin but i love my boyfriend... and i dunno if im ready...

if your not ready dont do it. you should be preasured into doing that. when the time comes it will happen. i mean if you preasure urself in it then you wont enough it as much. have fun at prom.
♥ Steph

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if a girl asks a guy to prom, does she pay for both tickets? does the boy traditionally pay, or does each person pay for their own?

well i was always taught to be independent. so if i was in thta situation i would pay for my own ticket. but really the guy is supposed to pay for both.
♥ Steph

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do you think its weird. if you stay with your first boyfriend forever
b.c i think thats gonna happen to me
i dont mind. but is it likey to happen

i feel the same way about my boyfriend.it is normal but very unlikely to happen..
♥ Steph

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hmm okay this might seem kinda confusing, but i need some advice.
so im 15/f in 9th grade. all of my friends (and i mean pretty much ALL) get guys all the time and have boyfriends and what not. most of them are also really sexually experienced and arent virgins.
i never get guys and ive never even been kissed or had a boyfriend! its NOT that i just want to go out and hook up with guys and stuff cause thats kinda shallow. and im not just trying to compare myself to my friends either. but what i want is to meet guys, and possibly start a relationship. the only thing is im not really interested in dating any of the guys in my school (its a small school, about 200-250 kids). well i dont really know where to go to meet some nice guys or even how to approach them. everytime im someplace like the mall or anything and see a cute guy im always too shy to actually go up and talk to them because i dont know them.
sorry this is so long, but thanks for reading it. hope you can help. =)

i dont like goin out with guys that go to the same school as me so i go for guys that go to different school. my advice to you is go to the mall with your friends and try to meet new guys and find yourself a guy that you like there. hope this helps.
♠ Steph

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i really need to know some good love songs!!!! so if oyu have ne good ones please reply!!!!

Jessica Simpson- I wanna love you forever
Carrie Underwood- Inside your heaven
Backstreet Boys- All I Have to give
Cascada- Everytime We Touch Candlelight mix
Stacie Orrico- I Promise
Enrique Iglesias- Hero
Nivea- Complicated
Jagged Edge- Gotta Be
Monica- Why I Love you so much

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Ok,
I have a boyfriend BUT the thing is that I am not allowed to have one. I don't know how long my relationship will last before my mom and dad find out...but I really like the guy. If I tell them I have a bf they will freak out...I really don't know what to do! PLEASE help!
(14/f)

i am in the same situtation as you are in except i am 15 and have had my boyfriend for 9 months. my parents dont really know but i keep it on the DL i still havent told my parents but they dont need to know everythin about my life. my advice dont make it a big deal that you got a boyfriend around them. what they dont know wont hurt them.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok I wanna know do I go for older guys all the time for a reason? Like do I do it b/c I think it's kool? Or do I have a problem? Also I tend to fall for guys hard.Like when I have a crush on them I always seem to really show it. & idk what to do about any of it. :/

Age:17
F

alright it isnt bad that you liek older guys most girls do. i do and i am proud i do. we do it because guys mature slower then girls.so that is just what you like every girl likes something differnt. everyone has a different way of showing there feeling that isnt your fault. personally i am the opposite that i dont show my feelings towards guy i always ignore them and think about all the negative stuff about them. i dont think you should worry about what other people think bc your feelings are yours not nobody elses.
*~Stephanie~*

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can I get pregnant on my period if I'm on birth control?

nope there is a rare chance.
*~Stephanie~*

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