hmm okay this might seem kinda confusing, but i need some advice.
so im 15/f in 9th grade. all of my friends (and i mean pretty much ALL) get guys all the time and have boyfriends and what not. most of them are also really sexually experienced and arent virgins.
i never get guys and ive never even been kissed or had a boyfriend! its NOT that i just want to go out and hook up with guys and stuff cause thats kinda shallow. and im not just trying to compare myself to my friends either. but what i want is to meet guys, and possibly start a relationship. the only thing is im not really interested in dating any of the guys in my school (its a small school, about 200-250 kids). well i dont really know where to go to meet some nice guys or even how to approach them. everytime im someplace like the mall or anything and see a cute guy im always too shy to actually go up and talk to them because i dont know them.
sorry this is so long, but thanks for reading it. hope you can help. =)
NinjaNeer answered Friday April 21 2006, 8:17 pm: Well, my advice is to try joining an interest group or club, that way those "cute guys" have more than just appearance, and you have a reason to talk to them, and something to talk to them about.
Don't stress abou tbeing inexperienced, because it's better to not rush into things... just think about it as you having so much more to look forward to in life than them! [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
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