ShYbl0nD3's advice column

well im not a guy so i dont really know but maybe your just nervus around them. Its probably different for each guy. Umm.. but yea it probably is normal.
h.i.h.

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ok im on page 131 of the newest harry potter book (half blood prince). wut is "the dark mark". please tell me unless i have to read on to find out. i read all of the books (1-5) but dont remember the 5th too good. did they explain it there? PLEASE dont give it away if im not supposed to kno yet! PLEASE!!
thanks a bunch!

ps-please hurry
pss-ill rate 5s for the fastest answers

i wanna read that 6th book so bad!! lol
but yea they explain the dark mark in the 4th book im pretty sure. Chapter 9. (The Dark Mark) pg. 117
h.i.h.

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im 14/f...i feel like i sleep a LOT! like here's an average day: wake up around 10...take a nap from like 1 to 3 30...then get up and do whatever...then take another nap from like 5 to 6 30...then stay up until like 1 in the morning and go to bed and do it all over again the next day...is this normal or is there something wrong???

well that usually happens to me when i dont do much. So your bodys probably tierd and bored. Maybe go excersize or go out side and ride your bike, soccer, and all that suff.

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I go to a day camp, and there is this really nice boy there. His name is Josh, and I like him alot! I dont know what to say though. Im not sure if like he has ever had a girlfriend before and maybe he wont like me back and will never talk to me again. Please tell me what I should do!

-Britt

well you could always just ask, and im sure he wont not talk to you. And maybe if your not sure about it bring up a subject where you can ask like have you ever had a gf or something. Just so you can get to know him a little better. But just ask, im sure he'd be kool with it.

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okay...i'm a huge harry potter fan...i'm like obsessed with the movies and books. especially after reading the sixth book, i'm like falling in love with the character, scary but yes. on the videos i watch the comentaries and read in magazines and know and like alot about daniel radcliffe and stuff... now straight to the point. am i in love with the character or the real person? lol stupid question but i'm so confused! i've always wanted to meet danial especially after i saw the first movie. he's gorgeous and he's a really good actor! help me!!

well you may have a crush on tha character, but i mean who doesnt! hes awesome! lol but i think you like dan. He seems like a really sweet guy. Maybe you should try and meet him and see?
h.i.h.

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hey. i was just wondering. howed you get your family to buy you your guitar? like whated you say to convince them youd play or how did you ask? i want to play but im scared to ask if i can have one! thanks! and by the way. your picture of that rose is really pritty. i love it! ♥ kayla

well i got mine for christmas but i mean the easy thing is to just ask them. Ask like if they could pay some and youd pay the rest. It really depends on the parent anc child lol.

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17/f
Alright, i feel silly asking this question but sometimes i feel weird that my boyfriend is a bit shorter then me. I love him very much and he loves me back even more and a feel like this could last for a long time. Should i talk to him about this (but i guess its not like this is going to change it) or what should i do? Am i stupid for feeling like this?

yea it might feel a little oqward but you get used to it. And in a way it should really get in the way of your love. I have a major crush on this guy thats like 4 inches shorter than me but im starting not to care cuz hes a great person. But yea it does feel alittle strange sometimes. but just think. they have to live with it but then again they get used to it.
hope this wasnt too confusing lol

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after you get your first period whens the next time you get it? some say 5 months? or will it be one month?i got mine for the first time July 1st and i was just wanted a heads up for when the next time i'll get it

sometime around the begining of Augest then. :) And yea every month. I wish it was every 5 lol.
h.i.h

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ok im about 5 foot and im 103 pounds...is that ok? im NOT skinny but im not sure wat you would call over weight. does anyone know if this is too fat?

that sounds about right so i think your fine. dont worry :)

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15/F I have this pain in the lower right side of my stomache (like where they say your appendix is)... its not a sharp painful pain, its just sore and it hurts. I feel it when I walk or sit down. I know its not cramps because my period passed already. It started hurting when I woke up with morning. Im really scared... could it be my appendix? Or one of my reproductive organs? Its only on my right lower side of my abdomen. HELP im so scared...

it is possible that it is your appendix, maybe go to the doctor and check it out. I could also be something else, but that i dont know what it could be. If your mom had hers taken out then you could always ask her but other wise go check it at the doctors just to make sure.

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hi im 13 and i bought this one thong and i havent worn it yet because if i wear it it will have to be washed and if it gets washed my mom will see it and if she does i think i will bein trouble because i dont know if my mom is alright with me wearing thongs. Everyone wears them in my school but idk if my mom will be alright with it and im afraid to ask her. What can i do to wear one without getting in trouble?

you could try washing your own laundary. Say your trying it out. And then sneek the thong in the laundry.

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sorry if this is long but i really need help.

ok im 14 and i will be 15 september 13. this guy name tyler is 12 and will be 13 september 1. he is goin to 8th and im goin to 9th. he doesnt hang out with 12 year olds, he looks and hangs out with 14 and 15 year olds. we are really good friends, and tuesday night he asked me out but i said no. i like him, but i am scared to go out wtih him. i mean if we break up, then it will be weird. and he isnt really cute. but i like him alot. last night he got mad at me because he thought that i was gonna go out with this other guy, but im not! and then his mom told him to get off the phone and he told me he would call me back at 1 and he never did. he hasnt called or got online today either. i think hes still mad at me and i dont know what to do. i told him i didnt like the other guy but i dont think he believed me. what should i do?? should i go out with him if he asks me again? some people say i should and some people say heck no. i have no idea what to do!

well if you like him a lot and your scared to break up and having the ocward ness then u might as well never go out. If you like him spend the time with him that you have until you actually do break up so yea talk to him and if he askes you out or if you ask him out say yes. dont waist good moments because your worried about being ocward after the breakup when thats so far away.

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ok about what age/grade do boys start to get attracted to girls and start to think more about going out or being boyfriend and girlfriend?

umm i guess around 6th 7th grade most of the time. Im not quite sure thoug cuz im not a guy but yea i think thats about when.

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I'm 16/M... i never had sex before (im waiting til im married) but i get erections WAY too much...like 6 times an hour and its really annoying, i get them when im not even thinking about anything close to sexual. i dunno what my problem is but i was wondering if its normal or not? please resond.

i think its normal, i mean i have a bro and well, you know :P I guess hes going throught the same as you so dont worry.

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hii i have many a problems!! plzzz help mwa!

-problem CHild

well if you wanna talk about it feel free to IM me ill try to help as best i can :)

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Ok you've probably heard this trillions of times but i cant find any questions in the advice section about this...

What execercises can help relieve the pain.. this is my third period and it really hurts...

I'll rate well..

im not sure what excersizes help but i know that if you take nice hot/warm bathes that it calms the pain and relaxes the muscles.

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ok.. i wanna redo my side of the room... i share with my sister... i just changed the colors of the wall to pink and green.... i love pink.. i want to get like new curtains.. chairs... desks..etc.. also i need a new comforter.. since i have a daybed.. that looks like a couch i want a comforter where the designe isn't like going in one direction.. if ya know wat i mean.. wat good websites are there besides like sears macys target and all that?

thnkz

Rissa

well you can try walmart and target. Per1 (sp) also has some kool stuff. Theres also NoBoundaries, they have neat things that you could look at or use. OR even PBteens.
http://www.walmart.com/
http://www.target.com/
http://www.pbteen.com/
im not sure if NoBoundaries has a site or not but i know its a brand you can find at alot of stores.
h.i.h.

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I don't know if anyone on here is gonna know anything about writing music but I was wondering if anyone has any tips on writing music with guitar. I can write lyrics but not music. I've tried writing some music but it usualy ends up very badly. So any tips?

what i usually do is just play around on the guitar and then something usually pops into my head or i like something ive just played and then i find lyrics to match it. But its differen for alot of people.
h.i.h.

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how do i get a girl to like me

be your self and be polite, charm here and make sure she notices you. And when she looks at you smile. And maybe say Hey or something, talk to her. Also alot of girls like funny. Make her laugh.

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