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okay, this is long but i really need help.
about 5 months ago, i started getting over friendly with a boy i was friends with. when we were together all we did was flirt and joke and i loved it. we started texting and i told him i liked him. things were good and he said he liked me back. we got together one night and it was amazing. i forgot about everyone around us and we spent the whole night together just kissing and cuddling. he told me he loved me after that but i thought he was just being silly. things after got bad as we could never meet and he always seemed so needy. i ended it a few times but we always got back. then i ended it for good 2 months ago. i thought i wasnt ready for anything he wanted. he took it hard and begged me to come back but i thought i was over him. then valentines we were at a disco. i was talking to him and just wanted to kiss him. I told him and he ignored me. at the end of the night i seen him kiss another girl, and it felt like a kick in the stomach. i was completely gutted. i told him i still liked him and he told me he didnt like me anymore. i was shocked it had come to that. i then started to constantly think about him, i realised i was madly in love with him and i started to fall out with him over nothing all the time. i felt bad and i knew he tried to be friends. he told me one night he always loved me and then told me he had a new girlfriend. i burst into tears and was very upset. things went down hill from there, he is a flirt and flirts with all my friends + me even though he has a girlfriend. he seems to not care anymore and doesnt really make an effort with me, but its breaking my heart and i dunno what to do. i just want to be with him and no one else :|
You blew it, now leave him alone.
Well me and this guy plan to have sexx in the summer time and i trust him and all and he even says he loves me more than anything but we are both virgins i was just wondering is it good or bad to to have your first time with a virgin?
Because many of my friends tld me its a bad idea.
So can you help me out?
You probably shouldn't have sex with someone you call "this guy."
What is the most painless way to commit suicide
Death by age.
Old age.
I am going out to a club tommorrow night what should I wear Iam a 22 f if that helps.
Something you can take off quickly.
I have recently came to Australia on a 3 month visa with my friend who is an Australian citizen and payed for my ticket here and with the understanding of her getting me a ticket back home and now the situation has changed with no means whatsoever of getting back to the Uk :-(
If rainbowcherrie's advice only warranted a three, the only advice I have is to start changing your accent because you're never leaving that continent.
Are you supposed to do homework by yourself, or with other people, so you can have a better advantage?
And why?
When people do homework together, without the teacher saying so, is that cheating? Or when people copy homework from other people. Or is that having the best advantage?
I thought you were only supposed to get answers from other people when you didn't understand something and needed help. But copying directly from someone else, or doing certain parts just to get the work done faster. It's not ethically right, and I thought that is not how homework is supposed to be either. But my mom thinks otherwise, and now I'm really confused.
I'm a 17 year old junior.. and it takes me longer to do work and everything cause I never cheat with homework like that. Honestly I'll admit I cheat occasionally on tests and quizzes, but I'll admit its wrong. If I spent more time studying, which I'm trying to do, to be a better student, I wouldn't have needed to do that. I only get answers when I don't understand something but I thought that's what the main point of homework was.. to only ask when you needed help. and there's a difference between having help and being lazy. at least admit its wrong.. people seem to act like its okay and everything. and then they wonder why our world is so f***ed up. from someone copying work from someone else to "get the best advantage" to a politicians avoiding taxes to "get the best advantage", its the same f***ing concept.
Are we supposed to try and have the best advantage or do what is ethically right? I am so confused.
I'm confused at how you can make a moral judgement call for humanity when you yourself are cheating on your tests.
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Absolutely not. On any gender.
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F/16.
Today i was asked out by a guy. Then my ex boyfriend wanted to know if he can have a second chance, which should i choose?
my current boyfriend isnt pacient about me going to visit him so idk and my ex is the same so idk?
go lez idk?
14/f
I sit next to this really cute guy in German class where we're barely allowed to talk in English. I like him a lot and can talk a little before the teacher comes in but we're both shy. He knows I like him because my friend told him (his friend as well) but I'm not exactly good with guys. I'm very socially awkward. What do I do? Thank you!
Ask him what his favorite positive piece of German history is.
i want an emo nickname, help?
Dead.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Per_%22Dead%22_Ohlin
does anybody know any songs that have words and are popular but can relate to the holocaust? like they can talk about hate, racism, descrimination, or byest or all of them in one song?!!!??
The Enemy by Anthrax.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Yx1DGm2TqM
Der Fuhrer by Flotsam and Jetsam.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72-xSA5ofxc
Angel of Death by Slayer.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6_zsJ8KPP0
Anyone have experience converting to the new FireFox 4 browser? I remember how "interesting" thing were when FireFox 3 first came out.
Should I upgrade now? Are the bugs worked out? Should I wait for a few minor releases first?
Your opinions would help.
I just downloaded it out of curiosity, and it really just seems like a Google Chrome clone, minus the smoothness, speed, and feeling of integration.
Google Chrome is a superior browser.
im 18/f hes 19/m
Last night i went out to a club to see one of my favourite bands, i had organised to meet up with a guy thats my best friend, that i also have very very strong feelings for. He says he likes someone but i'm too afraid to ask who...so anyways as i was catching the train on the way there he texted me saying his phones about to die, and to text me where ill be at all times through the night so he could try and see me. I texted him the details, then he said he probably wont be able to get into the club due to the amount of people attending to see the band playing, and that the tickets would run out by the time he got there. He then turned his phone off saying he'll only use it for emergency incase something happens. I then told myself, that if there was such thing as fate, that somehow we'd see each other tonight.
anyways i went to the club with my other friends, enjoying the night. I thought i would text him so next time he turned on his phone he'd know how much i was wishing he was there. just as i was about to press the send button he calls me. He tells me he's outside so of course i race out to go see him, he hugged me, held onto me and ran his fingers back and forth across the skin on my shoulder. He was drunk, and soon enough his friends came over (after finding out he ran ahead of them to get to the club sooner). He introduced me to them, then told me that judging by the line he doubts they will be able to get in... the band i originally went to see, was playing the time i talked to this guy, and as my fave song by them i came all that way to hear, began to play, i gave him one more cuddle before going back in. as i pulled away he said "i owe you this" and kissed me.
that was our first kiss, we've talked about wanting to kiss each other before, but not wanting to mess everything up. I was excited when he used the last of his phone battery to text me to say he managed to get in. so i went and found him, he immediately cuddled me, and everywhere we walked he held my hand. We even just spent ten minutes holding each other, his head resting on top of mine, my head on his chest, and our arms around each other. We looked like a couple, and it felt so natural and perfect. Then he introduced me to his other friends, and we started dancing. I started to get jealous when this one girl was constantly dancing with him. I could tell she was into him as well and i didn't want to compete, thinking it wasn't possible that i would possibly have things work out for me.
Its just he has another best friend thats a girl that i met last night, and they were dancing together, and i got pretty jealous. He saw her again tonight and now im confused as to whether or not he likes me :S
Why don't you just ask him.
First I know it's under music but that's the closest I could find but anyways I have been reading all these books and I keep think they might come true to me. Like I read a lot of romance books and I keep think that's whats going to happen to me and in a small part of my mind I know it never will. What should I do I really hate this??????
Read better books.
Hi, i had sex for the first time with my friends ex boyfriend. I am 14 years old, and now she doesn't talk to me anymore. (if she would find out about the sex shed probably kill me.) We used protection, but he doesn't seem to love me but i think I'm falling for him. What should i do to get him to like me (BTW he isn't my boyfriend) I am Female and 14 years old. I am from America
You're giving America a bad name.
Own up to your friend, apologize for being a bitch, and stop talking to that asshole. Then ask your mom to buy you a chastity belt.
I honestly can say that I am not perfect. A lot of people think I am though, and its embarassing. I have a larger house in a wealthy neighborhood, I get straight A's, and I am extremely thin! But to counter, I am not good at sports and I dont think I am attractive. When people tell me that I am perfect, I say stuff "No, I am not" and that makes people think I am snotty for some reason. What can I say that makes them see I am not perfect, and not a snob!?!?
Just redirect it back at them and compliment these jealous, fishing bitches. It's what they secretly want.
If your doing your own snake bite piercing's do you put the needle in your lip or under it?
You shove it through your brain with the hope of jogging your mind enough that you'll make an intelligent decision.
I just watched the Asians in the Library video by that UCLA girl and I just feel so sad, depressed, and suicidal now. Why do people have to be like this?
You're suicidal over that?
If that's something that could make you suicidal, you're in for a very unpleasant existence filled to the brim with idiocy or at least people that don't agree with you.
Besides, she apologized.
http://newamericamedia.org/2011/03/alexandra-wallace-says-sorry-for-asians-in-the-library-youtube-rant.php
who would you respect more, a girl who dresses really slutty but isn't actually a slut (basically a tease) or a girl who dresses modest and cute but does things with guys (not a slut, just not a prude)
Whoever is better in bed.