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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!




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well ya see theres this guy and we'll call him dave and me n dave and my other friend 'jessi' were all madd tight n dave n jessi went out off and on n they both told me alotta shit n then they broke up n me n dave were gonna hook up but then dave got into drugs n alchol n became an asshole but he was still madd fun n we were still tight but then he decided one day he didnt wanna be friends w/ me or jessi anymore soo me n herwere all upset cause he was our best friend n we want him back i just cant get over him.. i need help to get him back or to stop thinkin bout him ?? pleasee i think i really liked him i'm 13 btw please dont delete

well your're only 13...I'm sure you really liked this guy, but you're not in love with him. trust me you will think you have fallen in love a million times before you really find the right one. and this kid may have been your friend, but he took the wrong turn, so maybe him not being in your life is for the best.

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okay you probably think im really weird but to start off i love this advicenators site it makes me feel like a lot of poeple are there for me lol anywho..

oh yeah im 14

il start with my perioud. i recently got it and its been weird, like, sometimes alot of blood comes out and a little. but before that this gross chunky brown stuff in there and it SMELLS AWFULL*UGHH*...wtf!! do i have like, an illness or something i dont wanna go to likea doctor or my mom o anything its a lil wierd.

and my boobs are like rely small sort of yeah they are when i wear a bra even if its padded tehyre stil smal and when im not wearing a bra (dont wory this is weh ni go to slep) theyre like really pointy and funnny looking! theyre like weird! and my areola has alot of hairy bumps..is this cancer?!?! sorry it has to be long im just worried about mysefl thanks alot you guys!! (well..girls, i hope.)

well that chunky stuff, its probably just blood clots. and as for the smell, yeah blood stinks, especially when its been sitting there, try using scented pads or tampons. that should help. and the reason your boobs look all pointy like that is probably cuz, being that you just started your period, they are starting to develope, and in order for them to grow they are gonna change, so it will probably look funny to you. hair on your areola is normal, thats just hormones, but i dont know about bumps. maybe you should see a doctor about those bumps. yeah it may be weird, but its for your own good, if they can detect cancer at the beginning, they can get rid of it.

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ok, my boyfriend of 3 years wants to go into the army for about 4 or 5 years. i was just wondering, is there any chance of him getting hurt,dying,etc? b/c if there is..i cant let him go. please help me. ill rate high.

Well if he's gonna go to war, then of course there is a chnace of him egtting hurt or god for bid dying. but if this is really what his heart is telling him to do, then you have to put your feelings aside and be there to support him. and prey that he gets home safely.

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Alright...So, I've always been the rebel type. Stayed out late...never did what I was told. I couldnt WAIT til I was 18 and could do whatever I wanted. You know the type. As my 18th birthday is coming up...i've felt completely different. It's like I dont want to grow up. Its not that I dont want to deal with the "real world"...its just that I dont want to be grown up? lol Anyone else going thru this??

Yeah, its completely normal. When you're a teen, you wish you were grown, and don't care what anyine thinks. I think every teen goes through this at one time in thier teen years. Youy should be glad you've finally come out of this stage and are beginning to see how the "real world" really is. You're not scared. You're just maturing.

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theres this boy that i went out with when i was really young.. like.. 9ish ? idk but he was my first boyfriend first kiss.. first h/j .. idk first everything. me and him got into a stupid argument and i broke up with him. i just entered high school and he's in 10th grade. he takes the same bus as me too. i see him everyday and he always says hi and smiles. i really like him again, but idk what to do.!! HELP !!

Go and ask him if he wants to hang out sometime.

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Hey, i'm a freshmen, and i'm looking to join in the best buddies program. i'm just wondering if theres anyone out there who've done this program before, and if its any good, if you have any tips on it because i've never worked with kids with intellectual disabilties before. i'm really excited about it, but i'm also kind of nervous. Any tips?

Go ahead and join! You'll have tons of fun. You'd be surprised how much those little kids who have so many problems can actually help you. It will brighten up your day just to see those kids smile. And don;t be nervous. They are people just like us.

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whenever i get a zit, i get everything out of it, but then the next day its bigger than it was when i popped it! help!

-JeNNi

that used ot happen to me too. i'm not exactly sure why, but i just decided to stop popping my pimples and just wash my face and let them go away on thier own.

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i just burned myself on the oven rack in my oven. its blistering now, will i have a scar? it was 450 degrees to let you know...any advice?

I don't think you will have a scar. You should run it under cold water, and apply toothpaste to it. the mint and the bakingsoda in toothpaste soothe the burn and cool it down. never ever use butter, you will basically "frying" your burn if you do.

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Sometimes my boobs get really sore and tender and they hurt alot..I know they get that way during ur period, but sometimes it randomly hurts..whats that mean?

it probably means they are growing

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Okay, sorry if this is a little long, but please read it. There is this kid I met at the beginning of this school year. He's in some of my classes and I talk to him online. I like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me. He talks to me a lot online, and he looks at me in class. He also waves to me sometimes. I just met him too, so it's not like we are close friends. So what do you think about this? Thanks!

Maybe he likes you, who knows? the only way you will find out is if you ask him. So go aheda and ask him or have a friend ask him if you're too scared or shy.

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How do you delete a question you have already asked? Thanks

sorry but you can't delete anything. Only moderator2s can delete questions.

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Hey i got an interview in an 2 hours i need some last minute advice can anyone help me out???if its helps its going to be an interview for coldstone creamery (its an ice cream place like a more expensive one)

First of all, just be yourself. Make sure you sit up straigh. Don't take too long to answer any questions, and speak with confidence.

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I sometimes get pimples around my mouth. Just little ones but they annoy the hell out of me and are ugly. Do you know of any good products that would help?

Try neutrogena on the spot treatment, or those over night little circle pads, i forget what brands they come in.

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I have a really really low self confidence, if someone compliments me I immediatly think they're only saying it to be nice or they're taking the mickey. How can I be more positive and self confident?

You just have to believe in yourself. Try to be less paranoyed. If someone is giving you a compliment, just take it as that smile and say thanks, don't think of it as anything else. if you keep doing that your gonna dig yourself in this big hole of self-pity, and thats no fun getting out of.

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I am going to Avril Lavigne's concert. She is MY IDOL! I love her! I'm 13/f, have brown hair with blonde highlights, I have bown eyes, and I'm tall and I guess I'm, skinny. What do I wear to the concert?

Waer something comfortable... like she would.

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Is it possible to overdose on vitamin c? i mean i just bought cough drops that say each drop has 100 percent of the vitamin c i need each, is ok to take more if i need them?

No. They won;t do anything to hurt you. Go ahead and eat a dozen packs of them if you feel like it, you'll be fine.

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hi. im one of those girls who get all the attention from all the guys. yeah they literally follow me around and fight over me. i like the attention, sure, who wouldnt... but it gets realllllly annoying. like im trying to hang with my girls and they just keep talking to me and fighting over me and other girls think im a slut cuz all these guys are always FLIRTING with ME. its not like i come on to them.. what should i do?
thanx alot
-sick of being ms popular

Its nnot your fault those guys are on your dick like that. Who cares what those girls think, fuck them, you know you are not a slut and thats all that matters.

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I HATE MY DAD! hes such an idiot... hes not in my life at all. hes a co dependant jerk. when i was little he didnt make me lunch and he makes me do everything for him... he can b OK sometimes but yeah its not enough i still hate him... hes not in my life at all but he'll pick random times to step in and ruin it. like something that my moms been letting me do for 7 months all of the sudden i cant do bcuz of him. I HATE HIM SOOOOO MUCH. my mom wont even stick up for me or what she knows is right... what should i do?
thnx

if your mom wants to go and take his side, knowing how he is, then fuck it go and do what he said you can;t do anyway.

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ok like all my friends ave done something wit a guy like sexual n i really havent lke sometimes i really want to do something more wit a guy but my longest relationship was like a month so i ddint do anyuhting like i odnt like this kid too much but hes really sexually active and i wanna like do something wit him but i dunno how to do anhting and i dont wanna embarress myself im only 15 but time is running out and im still here wihtout sex lol

woah girl! you're acting like you're 40 or something! you're 15! you are very young, you have your whole life ahead of you to be fuckin and suckin, give your hot ass some time. if you havnt done anything yet its cuz your not ready. dont go wanting to be a whore like everyone else just so you fit it. sheesh!

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This is a note to all question askers: Pay attention to if your question has already been approved. DO NOT keep sending the same question out over and over again once it's already been accepted or the mods will just delete it. (Ie: The young girl with the question concerning a guy named Travis your question is visible on the 2nd page of he main pages and already has 5 answers). Thanks.

yeah so stop asking us about travis 2 million times little girl, its pissing us off, and belieev me you don't know what its hitting for when a crew of advicenators are pissed.. we might just run up on your strip sqaud deep and have to handle you. lol :)

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