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am i slow


Question Posted Sunday September 19 2004, 1:07 pm

ok like all my friends ave done something wit a guy like sexual n i really havent lke sometimes i really want to do something more wit a guy but my longest relationship was like a month so i ddint do anyuhting like i odnt like this kid too much but hes really sexually active and i wanna like do something wit him but i dunno how to do anhting and i dont wanna embarress myself im only 15 but time is running out and im still here wihtout sex lol

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lilshortnsweet answered Monday September 20 2004, 5:51 pm:
do what you think is right no one should pressure you to do something you dont wanna do if you are just doing it because everyone else it and u dont wana then i would say im sorry but i wouldnt do it its a bad idea you will regret it later and u probably arent ready for it i went through the same thing but when i was 13 its a very hard thing to get over@!!but do what you think is right.

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xo__LiSHY answered Monday September 20 2004, 9:27 am:
First off...it's okay to not have done anything sexual w/ a guy at 15. Time isn't running out...you've still got years and years ahead of you for stuff like that. I personaly only started being sexualy active when i was 16...and i think that was early. Altho at the time i thought i was such a loser but now i see that it was just normal.

If you don't really like the guy, why would you do stuff w/ him? Sorry but that's dumb. You'll be labeled a slut. Save yourself for someone you really love...you'll be happy you did.

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XtineMaximus answered Monday September 20 2004, 7:42 am:
Oh god wow. First of all, try using puctuation. I'm pretty sure that whole thing was just one huge runon sentence. I'm not a grammer nazi but holy hell, look at that big ball of.. letters.

And to answer your question. Jesus Christ just calm down for one moment you desperate whore. You are fifteen. Just wait. If you decide not to take my advice, if you don't want to wait for good things to come then I hope you get impregnated by some bastard that you will never see again. And that abortion will somehow not be an option..

By the say, I find it hilariously pathetic that you're that desperate but you still haven't gotten any.

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juicyfruit answered Monday September 20 2004, 1:51 am:
You shouldn't want to do something with someone else because your friends are doing it. I say wait until you're really ready. You will regret not doing so. Trust me hunni.

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Siren_Cytherea answered Monday September 20 2004, 12:15 am:
Whoa...you're FIFTEEN and you're talking about "time running out"?
Sweetheart, I'm almost seventeen, and I didn't do anything REMOTELY sexual until last year. Wait 'til you find a guy you really care about who won't use you for sex and then get rid of you. Sex is an intimate thing (so are sexual things) and whether you intend to or not, you tend to kind of attach yourself to the guy you do these things with.
You HAVE TIME. Don't think about "time running out" yet. Time will be running out if you're 35 and still a virgin. Lol.
If you wanna do stuff with him, let him know subtlely, and let him lead. You'll figure stuff out as you go. It's easier that way than trying to figure out a step by step way to do stuff.
But as I said...don't rush into anything. You're young.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)

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MissEmmyBoo answered Monday September 20 2004, 12:10 am:
well 1st of all ur only 15!! sex doesn't make the world go round and you have a hole life ahead of you!!2ndly you shouldn't let your friends influence you, you should do your own thing! hope i helped! :)

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storageanddisposal answered Sunday September 19 2004, 11:11 pm:
Time is running out? What do you mean by that? Are you deathly ill or something? If you are, please include that in your question.

I disagree with MFS. I think you should do something you'll regret, you kids do that a lot anyway. You'll learn the lesson in a harsher way than if you follow the advice. Be stupid and don't give this any thought.

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LilMia811 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 10:58 pm:
woah girl! you're acting like you're 40 or something! you're 15! you are very young, you have your whole life ahead of you to be fuckin and suckin, give your hot ass some time. if you havnt done anything yet its cuz your not ready. dont go wanting to be a whore like everyone else just so you fit it. sheesh!

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WTF answered Sunday September 19 2004, 10:53 pm:
just do it when the time is right, some people dont feel comfortable doing things if theyve only been dating somebody for a month or less, but you shouldnt feel left out, 15 is a pretty young age.

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MFS answered Sunday September 19 2004, 10:50 pm:
Time is running out? Shit, you're only 15... you've got all the time in the world. You'll make a larger ass of yourself by doing something you'll regret with someone regrettable than you would be being patient and waiting for a better moment. Don't be stupid all because people around you tell you that they are stupid. Think for yourself. Do what you need to do, but give it some real thought.

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