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my boyfriend says that i don't 'feel' the same when we have sex like im 'loose' or 'stretched' im not cheating or using any sex toys can you tell what can cause that? (link)
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Do not listen to Shoping247 or sillyrob.
It is natural for your vagina to get accustomed to being stretched in order to fit your boyfriend's penis. This means that it is stretched easier when he pushes inside you.
That is why you may feel 'loose'. If you're worried about it, I suggest using vaginal tightening cream.
I hope this helps you!
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Please help! I poked a pen in my vagina with the lid on for pleasure i poked different things in many times. I'm 13 and 14 in 2 months I haven't started my period yet will this affect it? Thanks for all the advice. (link)
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Using inanimate objects to pleasure yourself is a form of masturbation and that doesn't affect when and how your menstrual cycle will start.
But you should use something smooth if you're going to masturbate this way. Using a pen could scratch your inner walls and cause discomfort.
I suggest a cucumber, they come in all shapes and sizes so you can pick the one you want.
Hope this helps!
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Please help! I want my boobs to go bigger their tiny please help what can i do to make them bigger apart from wear padded or water bras. Thanks, oh, how can I make my period start. (link)
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Well, you can't really make your boobs grow or make your period start without breaking your body's natural cycle. Your body grows at a natural pace for you specifically and you go through puberty when you're 'supposed' to.
That being said, the only way to actually make your body go through puberty faster, is by having more estrogen in your body. This means you have to take in artificial hormones.
That is all the help I can be.
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okay so i'm pmsing right now and i look fat i know it's normal but will this go away when my period starts or after my period is finished? (link)
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It's different for different people. It's possible that the bloating will go down when your period starts, or you may look bloated until about a day after your period ends.
Most of the time, nobody notices it except you and your gal pals, so I wouldn't worry too much.
Hope this helped!
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do most guys expect girls to be COMPLETELY shaven on their privates? i've always shaved down there, do girls usually shave everything off? or just the bikini line? i hope i haven't been doing something really weird all this time..!
and do guys shave too down there? or what? (link)
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I don't think guys expect girls to be completely shaven, but they do like it if you're trimmed neat. All girls go a different route. Some go completely bare, Brazilian, or different shapes.
A friend of mine has a heart.
Some girls don't shave or trim at all.
It depends on the guy, actually. Some guys don't worry about it at all. Some guys do, in fact, trim or even shave down there. (which is very good because it makes their member look larger)
I say, go with what you want. Guys generally just want what's underneath the curls anyway.
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my cousin and his friends are going to be down here this weekend and we will be wearing bathing suits im not fat i just need to tone up and they are all toned cause they can drive and go to the gym! i feel embarased (link)
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These won't completely tone you up in just a couple of days, but it will help A LITTLE.
Some situps or crunches are good for your stomach.
Even a few pushups will do wonders.
For your legs, do some lunges, it will help with your thighs and calves.
Even though you can't exactly tone your muscles in two days, self tanner can help create an illusion. Just make sure you don't get the kind that turns orange.
You can apply it all over, but use a little more on the outsides of your belly kind of in a curved fashion. Do the same thing on the inside and outsides of your thighs. Then use some lotion with a hint of shimmer and apply it where you put more of the self tanner. Also apply it in your cleavage. It will make it look larger.
Hope this helps!
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this girl at school i hate her and so does the whole class but these 3 girls do this to everyone but find it more fun doing it to that girl they for a joke pinch her boobs slap her bum tiggle her vagina im a bystander i just watch this may be bullying but they do it to everyone including me but i dont react so they stop what do i do i hate that girl though?! (link)
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This isn't 'just bullying'. It is also sexual harassment. Anything sexual that someone does to someone that doesn't want it done to is considered sexual harassment.
It doesn't matter how much you dislike someone, it is NEVER okay to make fun of them or physically abuse them, 'just because it's fun'.
By not doing anything to stop the harassment, you're not just a bystander, you're an accessory.
See, you didn't commit the crime (and it is a crime), but you didn't do a damn thing to try and stop it.
It doesn't matter that they do it to 'everyone'. Someone needs to stop them, before they do something that's even worse.
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Well when i was in 7th grade i started to cut and have not been able to stop and i started because of my family my mom and dad always fought and my grandmother was always faking sick to get attention and i would lock myself in my room and would cut can anyone help me? (link)
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You need to talk to an adult you trust and tell them what has been going on. They can help you find someone for you to talk to.
Then you need to talk to your parents, but don't tell them directly that it is their fault. (this will make them fight more; about you mainly)
You should tell them that you're hurting because of their fighting and you don't know how to release the pain any other way.
I hope this helps you and I hope you can find help for you too.
I hope you can stop this addiction and get better.
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hey.
so yeah i shaved down there, and now i have bumps. ew i know grosss. and that its called ''ingrown hair'', but i just really need to know how to get rid of them, or is there a way i can avoid getting them?
thanks =] (link)
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You can help relieve them with aloe vera gel (what you use to help relieve a sunburn).
To help prevent getting them, next time you shave down there, make sure the bathroom is warm. It is best to shave after a shower.
Rub a little aloe vera gel on the area you're planning on shaving, but only a little so as not to clog the razor. Then lather really good with a really creamy shaving cream (DO NOT use soap). Shave with the hair. But you'll have to shave in different directions because the hair in your pubic region grows in different directions.
I answered another question kind of like this in my column if you need more help.
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did the used change their drummer he looks different and is they did what his name (link)
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Branden Steineckert left the band, but they haven't chosen a new permanent drummer yet.
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In December I was best friends with this guy. We're both 16, I'm a girl. Well we were really good friends, hung out everyday even if for 5 minutes, and called eachother everyday etc. He told me in January he liked me but decided he just wanted to be friends. Then he stopped talking to me. I was confused and hurt, after being with him everyday and talking to him, not talking/seeing to him at all was a total shock. Eventually I talked to him about it, and he said he still wanted to be friends/have a friendship. To me, it didn't seem like he was trying, and it still doesn't right now. I tell him exactly, directly, up front what I expect of him, which isn't much, and he never follows through. He calls maybe once every week, and only to ask if he's missed the bus. We hang out once a week, sometimes not at all. I guess I just really miss our old friendship and we've talked about it numerous times, I promise. And it seems while we're talking that he gets it, and the next day usually everything's so much better. But then he starts with his old habits again, and I don't know what to do! I guess I'm just asking did he give up trying to be my friend because he doesn't like me anymore? That's what it seems like to me, but I really need some thoughts here. It's been awhile since January, and I'm still confused why he seems to not be making an effort at this friendship. I'm really hurt, and just need help please.
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I don't think he's given up trying to be your friend because he doesn't like you anymore. If anything, it's probably the opposite. See, in January he said he liked you but just wanted to be friends.
He had to have a reason to only want to be friends because guys usually don't worry about what a romantic relationship will do to a friendship. It could have been stress from anything, from school work, a job, or even his parents or friends.
When he sees you and spends time with you as friends, like he used to before his confession, he probably still gets those feelings of wanting to be more with you. But he may think he blew it the first time, or he thinks you don't like him, or he may just still have the previous stress.
By pushing you away he could think he'll get over you and move on so he can finally hang out with you without thinking about what it would be like to be 'with you'.
My suggestion to you is to ask him directly (like you said you've been doing) if he still likes you and why he's acting distant. Don't tell him you noticed he's acting distant and you want him to stop, ask him WHY. Make sure he looks you in the eye when he answers so you know he's telling the truth.
I hope this works for you!
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okay me & my bf wanna do more stuff like fingering & handjobs,etc.but we have absolutly no place to do it! my parents dont let me have guys in my room and ive never even been to his house (pathetic i no).where are some COMFORTABLE places we can do stuff?
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Well, you could go to a matinee at the movies. During the day, the crowds are smaller.
Make sure to sit in the back though.
Or, if you go to a late movie, go to the kids one. Adults don't usually take their kids to the movies that late, especially on a weekday, so there will probably only be a couple of kids in there if there is any at all.
But make sure you wait until the movie actually starts so nobody can see you with the lights on dim.
If you aren't comfortable with this, try having him over when your parents are out, like at the store.
I hope this helps you!
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i thank you for the advice given to me.but i wanna know if there is anyway so that i can get my penis size to be normal i.e the size it used to be before a year. (link)
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Well, first you need to try to relieve your mind of all stress (or basically anything that bugs you).
There are 'penis pumps', which are basically just tubes you stick your penis in and pump (hence the name). If it doesn't work and you are really aroused then it might be ed. If it was just the size thing, I would say that it's just stress, but since you said that you ejaculate soon, I thought of ed.
I'm not sure what exactly you can do but if you'd like, I can google it for you and find some sites you can go to to see if it helps.
Let me know.
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mkay. well i'm 16/f. The last time I had my period was April 21st. and that lasted until April 25th. and was completly over April 26th. Then, my boyfriend came over and he fingered me for the first time. Now whenever he comes over, that usually happens. I give him a handjob too. My periods supposed to come anywhere from yesterday and tuesday. I'm scared that it won't come because I heard you can get pregnant from doing handjobs and then having him finger you.
What are the chances of me getting pregnant from that? Sorry, this is an akward question for me.
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It is only possible if he had semen on his fingers when he was fingering you. Otherwise, it is very unlikely.
But if he did have some on his fingers, it's about a 50/50 chance.
Hope this helps!
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has anyone ever heard of that tea that makes u loose weight, well if so were can i get it, thanx (link)
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I'm not sure about the tea that helps you lose weight, but green tea speeds up your metabolism.
Hope this helps!
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i like this guy named sevvy. we're in 8th grade and we talk almost every night on this other kid, randall's forum. about a week ago we were discussing religion on there from 11:00 PM to 2:00 AM. we have different views on religion, but we both made each other think. i told him we should talk like that in person and he said "actually i was thinking the same thing". we only have one class together and hardly ever talk, but he says random things to me more than he used to, and maybe he just thinks we're better friends now. but i actually like him. and he's kind of nerdy so maybe he thinks i wouldn't like him or something. but i don't know if i should tell him or not, it might make me seem like a fool. please help! (link)
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You won't seem like a fool if you tell him that you like him. He's probably thinking he'll seem like a fool if he tells you he likes you.
Go for it!!
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my boyfriend really wants to eat me out and hes tried to get me to let him before but i was nervous so i didnt.
my question is, is that really appealing to guys or could he just be doing it to pleasure me? like do they get turned on my the taste and smell? (link)
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A lot of guys actually get turned on by the taste and smell of their girl.
Most of my guy friends say they like it unless the girl never showers or is kind of slutty or something like that.
So if you're nervous about your taste or smell, don't be. Guys taste buds and nose receptors don't pick up smell as much as girls do, so it all smells good to him.
Hope this helps!
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my penis is very small i.e only 4".Actually it was not the same size as earlier. earlier it used to be longer and thicker.But daybyday it is becoming smaller and i ejaculate soon also.please don't gimme any washy-washy answers but please be honest and advice me.If i suffer from any kind of diesease? (link)
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Your penis looks different sizes when you're aroused and when you're not. It kind of depends on how horny you are for how large your penis grows to.
But it is possible that you have ED, which is erectile dysfunction. You would have to see a doctor to be sure if that is in fact what it is.
If it is, there are things that you can do or take to help relieve it. There's Viagra ('the little blue pill'). I've also heard of some kind of device that goes into your rectum and sends kind of an electrical charge to your penis so you can achieve an erection.
It is also possible for you to have a hormonal imbalance. You may have harder time getting an erection and keeping one if you have gained or lost a lot of weight lately.
I can't tell you for sure what is wrong, or if anything actually is (You could just be under a tremendous amount of stress, even though you think you're not.). I can just tell you what the possibilities are, so to be absolutely certain, you should get checked by your doctor.
Hope everything turns out okay for you.
I'm here if you need anything else.
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I've been told that semen is alive for half an hour to 4 hours.
But all over this site, people have said that semen dies ONCE it hits air?
What is true?
Back it up with reliable sources please & thanks. (link)
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Semen does not die as soon as it hits the air. It's kind of complicated to explain, but I will try.
See, sperm need to be kept cool, for them to stay alive, hence the scrotum being on the outside of the body where it is harder to keep warm. When the sperm reach room temperature or a little higher, they can die.
Ergo, a man's sperm can stay alive outside of the body even after it hits air, but it dies faster if he releases inside of you because the inside of your vagina is very warm.
That is why when a guy comes into a condom or a cup, and a woman puts some inside of herself, she can in fact get pregnant.
I have read articles about this on the internet and in a magazine once, but I'm not sure of where. I can try to find out where for you if you want me to.
Hope this helps!
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i really really like this guy in my grade. he's completely hilarious and he always makes me have a good time when i'm around him. i want to tell him i like him so that he will ask me out. i'm almost positive he likes me. there are so many different signs i cant evem list them. do you still think i should tell him? or wait and not bother? (link)
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You should tell him.
Guys are afraid of rejection, so they may not make a move unless they're sure they're going to get a yes. I'm not saying ALL guys do this, but a lot do.
So, instead of telling him you like him so he'll ask YOU out, why don't you ask HIM out.
Hope it works out!
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