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Bystander
13 female
this girl at school i hate her and so does the whole class but these 3 girls do this to everyone but find it more fun doing it to that girl they for a joke pinch her boobs slap her bum tiggle her vagina im a bystander i just watch this may be bullying but they do it to everyone including me but i dont react so they stop what do i do i hate that girl though?!
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whats wrong with you? Stand up for her! I dont care how much you hate her, if someone needs backup then dont wait for god to smite the wrongdoers. Whats wrong with helping her, you look like a mature person and a nice person and more people will like you. Help her, she may need it.
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This isn't 'just bullying'. It is also sexual harassment. Anything sexual that someone does to someone that doesn't want it done to is considered sexual harassment.
It doesn't matter how much you dislike someone, it is NEVER okay to make fun of them or physically abuse them, 'just because it's fun'.
By not doing anything to stop the harassment, you're not just a bystander, you're an accessory.
See, you didn't commit the crime (and it is a crime), but you didn't do a damn thing to try and stop it.
It doesn't matter that they do it to 'everyone'. Someone needs to stop them, before they do something that's even worse.
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You can hate someone all you want but by letting someone else pick on them, you're just as guilty as the person doing the teasing. You need to report that because that's above & beyond bullying. If you're not going to tell someone, at least stick up for her.
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This sounds a bit wrong in so many ways. You should probably report these girls. This goes above and beyond bullying, and becomes sexual harassment...if not damn near close to assult. Don't sit around and let this happen anymore.
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