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no privacy
okay me & my bf wanna do more stuff like fingering & handjobs,etc.but we have absolutly no place to do it! my parents dont let me have guys in my room and ive never even been to his house (pathetic i no).where are some COMFORTABLE places we can do stuff?
thanks.
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this is gunna sound like...trashy?? is that the word
but...dugout at night..trust me.....people around my city have been known to do it there.
uhmm..if he has a car....in his car or yours.
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I will be the bad guy. If you have no privacy,
you don't do those things. People old enough
to do sexual things have enough sense to do
it in private.
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i would say that maybe you should talk to him about going over to his house for awhile. when you are ready to do this kind of stuff. tell him that you are tired of haveing no prviacy and you are ready for the relationship to move up. BUT, if he don`t get the hint you can always go to like the movie theatre, or places like that. that`s dark and not too scene. if he has a car then you can always park up the road or hang out in his car. those always work. BUT, i have to let you know, i have been caught once. laugh out loud. so the best place that this could happen would have to be his house, unlesss his mom is the same as yours. but i highly doubt that because alot of guy`s parents are less protative than a mother of a girl.
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The advice you just recieved from the previous poster that mentioned doing this kind of sexual activity in a movie theatre or for that matter at a kids film at night regardless of the time is not only reckless but very disturbing.
Don't follow that advice unless you are looking to be charged for a lewd act in a public place and be taken to jail for doing this at a kid's movie or any movie for that matter. Try explaining that to people you know or those you don't that may have heard about it. Remember Paul Ruebens a.k.a Pee Wee Herman?
There's prime example not to do this in a movie theatre or public place. The best thing to do is ask him to invite you over to his house so you can use the rec room or basement and establish a set of rules with his parents and for that matter yours regarding privacy where they always knock first before entering the basement or rec room or living room so you know of their presence.
That is the only way you really can get the privacy you need to do these things. The other thing is that you can be upfront with your parents that you need your privacy and are not having sex ordoing anything that would break their trust but that you are just doing typical things teens do in a relationship without elaborating. I think they'll understand.
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Well, you could go to a matinee at the movies. During the day, the crowds are smaller.
Make sure to sit in the back though.
Or, if you go to a late movie, go to the kids one. Adults don't usually take their kids to the movies that late, especially on a weekday, so there will probably only be a couple of kids in there if there is any at all.
But make sure you wait until the movie actually starts so nobody can see you with the lights on dim.
If you aren't comfortable with this, try having him over when your parents are out, like at the store.
I hope this helps you!
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