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SEX ISSUES
my boyfriend says that i don't 'feel' the same when we have sex like im 'loose' or 'stretched' im not cheating or using any sex toys can you tell what can cause that?
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OK, let me start by asking how long have you been with this guy?
If you've been wth him for a while, and have been active with him for a while too, and specially if he was your first, of course he's going to feel a difference.
The enital area is full of muscles... and the more intercourse they're going to tend to expand due to the size of the penis....
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Did you lose your virginity to this guy? If not, I am not sure what he is having an issue with. The vagina is a remarkable muscular organ and will stretch to accommodate a baby's head in birth and then return to normal in a short time. Even after childbirth a woman can regain much of the tightness she desires and then some through simple Kegel exercises. Kegels are useful for toning the vagina, preventing incontinence, and improving orgasm in both male and female. These exercises should not be done during urination because they can cause a urinary tract infection (u.t.i.) Here is one of many websites that provide general instruction.
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If you have only ever been with your boyfriend then tell him to get over himself because he made you like that.
It stretches naturally. I have had a child and if my man said i was loose he wouldn't get sex EVER again!
Talk to him and tell him it makes you feel bad and ugly (even though it shouldnt a tiny lie wont hurt) and he may just be joking..
There's no way he could say you are looser and mean it if you have only been having sex with him.
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Do not listen to Shoping247 or sillyrob.
It is natural for your vagina to get accustomed to being stretched in order to fit your boyfriend's penis. This means that it is stretched easier when he pushes inside you.
That is why you may feel 'loose'. If you're worried about it, I suggest using vaginal tightening cream.
I hope this helps you!
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sillyrob, that is so rude what you just said about her, now I am not an expert so do not blame me if im wrong :] but I just think that nobodys the same so if you boyfriend has had sex with other girls of course you going to feel different, nobody is the same!
hope I helped!
xoxo Jewels
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Maybe it's the 20 other guys that you have had sex with?
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