about

im sara, and i'm smallll. dig it
im in love with tylor mutton
& have been since june 28th 2006
he's a better boyfriend than yours
i work at carrabbas as a hostess
it's pretty amazing if you ask me
i go to wilson hs.. ill be a junior
i do that softball thaaaanggggg.
oh and i have a screen namee..
you can IM me if ya wanttt=]
it's onexlove09. yuuuurrpppppp
this advice column is pretty ghetto
i hate it anymore haha. kbye

advice

my hair is very dry, and kind of thick. im sure there are a lot of people with the same problem. but i was wondering, what do you think is the best shampoo for me to use? like, to hydrate my hair and actually repair it, instead of causing it more damage. thanks =)

any GARNIER FRUCTIS or MATRIX products are amazingggg. matrix can be quite pricy, but it had absolutely fantasticccc results. garnier is pretty good too, but i don't think anything stands a chance against matrix.. so if you're willing to spend the money, get matrix. since you didn't mention if your hair is straight or curly, i'm going to assume its straight cause thats how it sounds when you said its thick.. so i defffff. reccommend matrix... the kind in the orange bottle =] if its curly, they also have one for curly hair. and i'm pretty sure they have one for hydration =] good luck hun!!! ♥

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i like this guy and one of my friends likes him to but know shes going back out with her ex-boyfriend... and before he would talk to me alot and wanted to hang out and we never did=[ i kind of like this kid a little and hes in the after school activity im in but everyone thinks hes kind of weird and he likes one of my better friends.. so yeah what do you think i should do?

alright so i'm sort of confused? your friend who likes the 'sort of weird' kid, has a different boyfriend? then forget her.. shes taken! lol. just go for the kid you like hun! who cares if people think he's weird.. once people see that he has a girlfriend, he obviously won't seem that weird since chicks dig him ;] lol so i say, go for it ♥ just tell him how you feel! but talk to him about it first, because you don't want to jeopardize the friendship =] good luck babeee

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What should I do ?

alright well i don't reccommend lipgloss when you have chapped, or dry lips.. for dry lips, use carmex or blistex.. they're both in a little blue container thing. and i also LOVE my Chapstick brand Finding Nemo Chapstick.. the grape kind is my favorite. Burts Bees works very well too, and so does Medicated Mint Blistex [in the regular chapstick tube thing] ♥ good luck!

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I am wondering if anyone know some great cheap but really nice jeans that are available on the net.

I am plus-sized so I can't really fit into a size 0 jeans. My size ranges 20-24 (or 2x). I just have a huge waist and anything boot-cut is good.

I'll take a maximum of 25 dollars for jeans and anything lower would be the best!

I looked all over the net but found nothing, and I don't recommend any from alloy, torrid, hot topic, or kohls, unless you find ones for a clearance sale.

Sorry to be extremely specific but I not much into buying expensive jeans.

Thanks!

the deb! they have good clothes for any sized women, and great prices too!

http://www.debshops.com/home/default.asp
go there and look around =]

http://www.debshops.com/StoreLocator/
go there to find a store near you =]

good luck hunnnn!! ♥

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ok so to start off i like 3 guys alot, 2 are my best friends and the other one is the most popular guy in school. i dont know who i should go after and what to do.

guy A)my best friend for a long time, i've liked him forever but never told him i liked him and he's now going out with one of my best friends. he's the type of person that will always be there and just sit and listen and say some sort of quirky comment to cheer you up. me and him have a very complicated relationship. he's very flirty with me when his girlfriend isnt around and has smacked my ass a couple of times. and at parties he'll sit on me and be all flirty with me but he's always just joking around. his girlfriend knows he flirts with me sometimes but she knows its just a joke so shes ok with it. we tell each other "i love you" but just as friends. recently i told the guy that i liked him for a long time but i told him i stopped liking him when he started going out with his girlfriend, but that was a lie. i dont know if i should tell him i like him. if i do im affraid things wont be the same between us.

guy B) another one of my best friends. he's kind of a man whore that has never got any real action but he's currently looking for a friend with benefits. i dont want to be his friend with benefits although i have thought about it. he asks me what i think of girls that he has started talking to and took me on the ski lift for the first time so i wouldnt get scared (im scared of heights) and he stayed on the bunny hill with me the whole day even though he is a really good skiier. he's a really good person inside but he has girl problems. i told him i liked him about 3 months ago but i think he forgot. at parties he'll pay full attention to me and will flirt with me the whole time but in school we're just back to friends. i dont know how i should get him to realize that i still like him becasue flirting isnt working.

guy C) the guy would be my dream boyfriend. he has the perfect looks, funny personality, and same intrests as me. but he only talks to me for about 5 minutes a day. he has "his girls" they're not friends with benefits but he pays a ton of attention to them. i want to make myself stand out because i would really love to go out with him. but he's also a grade above me (but we have alot of classes together) and i dont know if he has an age issue. but how do i keep a conversation going with this guy and stand out from his girls

alright well i don't understand when people like more than one person.. not to sound rude, but i'm not sure if you really like any of them at all. in my opinion, i don't see how someone could like more than 1 person, and go to OTHER people for who they should date. is it possible that you just want a boyfriend? thats what it sounds like.. and there is NOTHING wrong with that. who doesn't want a boyfriend? alot of people do. but see, thats how i was. i was looking for love in all the wrong places.. the popular guys at school, my best friends, my accuantences, which is basically everyone. which goes to show you; looking for love ANYWHERE is the same as looking for love in the wrong place. you need to just stop looking, and wait for the right guy to come along.. because i would say that guy A is the best, but he has a girlfriend, so that doesn't work. another reason that i say that i don't think you really like these guys is because you didn't say anything about why you liek these guys. i mean you did about the first guy, but that doesn't really matter because he's taken. the second guy, just sounds like a flirt buddy, and the third guy, i don't even know.. lol he just sounds like you think he's hot. so here's my advice; don't look for love!! let it find you. but always keep your options open, and never settle for anything but the best, cause that's what you deserve. just don't look for the right guy.. let him come and find you. ♥

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hey alright so im a senior in high school and i was wondering what courses i would need to take to get into psychology. and what i would need to take in university to get into the program. also what are some jobs out there relating to the feild. please, i really need some advice. thanks in advance =)

ok, i'm only a soph.. but i can still help you =]

to find out what courses you need to take, there's only one person that can answer your question the best; your school guidance counselor. just make an appointment, tell her you want to discuss college things, and he/she will arrange everything for you and will help you out along the way.

some jobs now, are you could start an advice column like this one! lol well it's not a paying job, but it will give you some experience, and maybe you could put the link to it on your resume?

so i would say to go to your guidance counselor.. definitely. they'll help you out =] goodluckk*

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Hi. I really want my belly button pierced. Just my mom won't let me. I'm 14, and have 2 holes in my ears and a cartaledge. My boyfriend is getting his eyebrow pierced this weekend by his friend that does piercings professionally. He is the best in my state. I'm going with him, but I want to get my belly button done too.

Any ideas on how to talk my mom into it?

welllll firstly, you need to figure out why she's objecting to it.....

if its because she doens't wanna pay,
tell her you'll pay for it.

if she doesn't think you're responsible,
prove to her that you are.

if she doesn't think you'll clean it and take care of it,
again- prove to her that you are

or what my friend usually does, that ALWAYS works.. is she write a report to her mom about why she should be able to. include thing like you're responsible, you'll take care of it, you deserve it, and also tell her how good the guy is.. maybe show her his degree if he has one. =] goodluck,**

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when i wear tight jeans you can see my back fat. is there any way i can get rid of it?

well you can really only see a persons backfat when their jeans are too small.. so just don't wear jeans that like suffocate you lol. you can tone certain parts of your body.. like arms, or legs.. but not your back. just exercise regularly, maybe do some running, eat right, and don't wear reallllyy tight jeans =] lol you can go to www.toneteen.com if you want some info on exercising and eating right ♥ GL!.

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This is gonna be long. Sorry. =[
Thanks in advance, though.

Mk, I have been BEST friends with this girl, Madison since I was eight. We're in eighth grade now and I seriously can't take her much longer. SHE GETS MAD OVER EVERY SINGLE THING! Anytime I get mad about something, she turns the whole thing around and starts cussing at me. She didn't do it this time but, she invited like eight girls over right in front of my face and didn't even invite me. Obviously, that pissed me off so I just hung out with my other friends the rest of the day cause every time I went over near her she'd start talking about Friday and what she's doing with everyone but me. Whenever I came home from school she IMed me and was like, "are you mad at me?" and then obviously she was talking about me cause some girl who I never even see at school was like, "are you mad at madison?" i just said sort of and then they were like, "oh, well it seemed like it." and then I told them why and Madison got all pissed off at me. She was saying, "I DON'T HAVE TO DO EVERY SINGLE THING WITH YOU! YOU INVITE YOURSELF OVER EVERY SINGLE DAY!" First of all, I know that. She doesn't have to invite people over in front of my face...I don't ever do that to her. Second of all, what the heck? NO I DON'T. She invites me over AND it isn't every day. It's like once a week. The only time I do is cause my dad is abusive and she the only one who I've told -- I only do that about once a month though. Then today I was talking to her about my profile on IM and she's like, "Well, you practically copied mine. I mean all the screen names are bolded and it's in black and white. So thanks?" I wanted to say, "OKAY! WHAT THE CRAP!? Every single person bolds the screen name like that or the name if they have conversations in their profile. Second of all, you copied Jordan's(This other girl who she acts like it's her best friend and then she tells me that she's a bitch. She's not a bitch. At least she doesn't get mad for no reason). Third of all, mine are ALWAYS black and white. I wasn't even trying to copy you. Why are you even making such a big deal about it!? It's a freaking profile." But instead I just said, "Oh sorry, I didn't mean to." and she didn't say anything. For about two weeks, anytime I say anything when she's around someone she just glares at me and says something rude or sarcastic back. I've become really good friends with some of the people who she says are her friends, so I don't know if she's just jealous about that or what. Gah, what should I do? If I talk to her about it, she'll freak out.

ok well basically, most girls suck and are overly dramatic so that's just something you'll have to deal with in life. but about your frined, just wait til she's in a calm mood, and just talk to her about it. and if she flips, then you gotta think; am i better with her, or without her? personally, it sounds like a little of both. i mean you've trusted her with some serious information.. but if she's being dumb all the time, then she's not worth your time. just try talking to her. and if she doesn't listen, you can always make new frineds. i know that losing friends is a very hard thing to do, but just remember.. what doesn't kill you, will only make you stronger. and you're probably better off without her anyway =] ♥ GOOOODD LUUCCKKKKK!!!!

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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.

well whenever i'm bored i usually clean my room. study if i'm really that bored.. or idk just do random things around the house. or you could always just call up a friend to hang out or just to talk to.. you could also just surf the net for new recepies, art projects, whatever. try reading a book! thats always good when you're bored. or make a scrapbook of pictures, drawings or whatever you want. sometimes i just sit in my room and wait until i think of something to do. paint a picture, draw a drawing, go outside and run around. exercise. there's a million things to do when you're bored =] you just need to use your imagination!!

or you can go here =] http://www.i-am-bored.com/ i also reccommend http://snapple.com/ and http://www.tacobell.com/ because those sites are just fun ♥

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what are some good tampons for teens?
im a dancer & i exercise alot so im active

PLAYTEX SPORT. they work sooo gooddd =)

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When I'm running I always get cramps. My boyfriend said i drink too much water before but i don't drink any at all. Any explanation? It could be that i don't have enough potassium. I'm not sure though, any suggestions on how to run, breathing? Anything to keep away the cramps? Thankkkyou, I'll rate.

just today my friend jacob told me that you should eat a banana before you run or lift.. to prevent cramps. so there you go, eat a banana before! also, stay hydrated, but not too much. and it helps alot if you stretchhhhhhh. good luckk ♥

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if you have very tight "bouncy" small curls, is there anyway you can make them looser? for example from this

http://www.wigsalon.com/img/full/kiradc.jpg

to this

http://www.just-hairstyles.com/curly/c23.htm

(well not exactly, but you get the point)

and also, is there anyway of doing that WITHOUT having to straighten AND curl it every single day?

Thank you!

well i don't have so much experience with curly hair, but what i would do if i were you is i would just put it in big rollers! the ones you see people walking around in before they go to sleep. not necessarily BIG ones, but just any kind of curler/roller =] and they sell this stuff that my friend was talking about.. called curl relaxant or relaxer.. and she was saying how she loves it because it makes her hair not so crazy and curlyyy.. so go to the grocery store or a hair salon and pick some up =] a good idea would be to ask a professional.. like someone at a hair salon. i would try the curlers first though =] good luck!!!

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13/f
maybe guys around my age can answer this queastion. do guys with girlfriends ever think about liking another girl that they are friends with?
because i know that when im going out with a guy, even if i liked another guy right before it happens, i kind of forget about it and just focus on my boyfriend.
so do guys with girlfriends ever pay attention and fall for other girls while there dating someone else? can they like two girls and be dating one of them and just not tell the other?
any answer appreciated...thanks!

i know i'm not a guy, but i can still answer this question lol. it really depends on the guy, the girl, and the seriousness of the relationship. for instance, at this point in MY relationship, we've been together for 7 months.. i wouldn't ever even beginnnnn to imagine hooking up with any other guy. and i reallllyy don't think tylor would either. [only w. a girl] actually; i know for a fact he wouldn't. but if you were only going out for a few days, depending on the amount of 'like' between the two people, i really don't know. if you're both crazyy about each other, then the two sides shouldn't be checking other ppl outtttt. but if there's not really much chemistry between them, then it all depends on the people. ♥ so basically, if someone is in a relationship and they're checking other people out/trying to hook up w. them.. then they don't really like the other person very much. i know that some guys DO do that, but once they get into a serious relationship, i think it doesn't happen as much. =] good luck babe ♥

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hey guys... i get itchy down there ALOT...around my vagina area...does anyone know what the problem is? Is it because of pubic hair? Also what can i do to fix it?

hair can probably be itchy.. idk.. it sounds like it would be if it's constantly rubbing. you can try shaving it if you want.. or at least trimming it. or maybe you need to wash it better? if you decide to shave it.. electric razors work the best.. and be careful if you do =] shave in the direction the hair grows.. opposite of how you would shave your legs ♥ good luck! oh & if the itching persists, it would be some kind of infection.. maybe ask a friend or trusted adult? goodluckkk!!.

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can anyone find pictures of 2 toned hair colors such as blonde on top, and brown/black on bottom?

if so, please give me the link, because i can't find them anywhere.

thanks so much.

a girl at my school had her hair like that for a whilee.

http://myspace-883.vo.llnwd.net/01004/38/88/1004188883_l.jpg

http://myspace-712.vo.llnwd.net/00910/21/71/910331712_l.jpg

http://myspace-442.vo.llnwd.net/01068/24/48/1068538442_l.jpg

http://myspace-153.vo.llnwd.net/01179/35/12/1179142153_l.jpg
[shes in the middle.]

k hope that helpeddd =].

by the way, i know this questions old, i just felt like answering it anyway ♥ cause the other girl who answered it wasn't very nice.. if she had it in 7th grade, it was dumb back then anyway unless you're a punky stoner kid haha.. so yeah, I THINK IT LOOKS CUTE. =]!

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i have a really scratchy throat and i feel like my nose is all snotted up and so is my throat. like there's a lot of really bad drainage only its thick so i can't breathe as well.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? this can't be strep. it doesn't feel like it.

ask a parent or go to the doctor! you could just be having a bad sore throat. drink lots and lots of hot fluids, talk in whispers and not often, buy some over the counter sore throat medecine, and once again, go the the doctor! they can perscribe that will work =].

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i was thinking about my pasts relationships, and they're all with boys i didn't know really well. like, we were "companions", but right now, i like this guy who is like one of my best guy friends. and it feels completely different. so i was wondering. would you rather go out with a companion or a best friend and which do you think lasts longer and is just a better relationship?

i'd say somewhere in the middle. when 'companions' or 'accuantainces' go out, there's usually no chemistry. and when best friends go out, they sometimes end up back to best friends. so i'd say, friends. just plain old regular friends. thats how my and my boyfriend started out.. as friends but he liked me from the start. he grew on me ;] so i'd say friends. don't worry about it so much. when you find the one you're meant to be with, you'll know =] and yo will find him, trust me. ♥

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Last time my boyfriend and I got together we did some risky things, but I didn't have sex exactly. He fingered me and I touched myself. I'm almost sure neither of us had anything on our hands. Now, its getting near my period and its different. normally, my breasts get very tender and that hasn't happened yet. Normally I'm very regular about this. I've been getting some slight cramps, and again that doesn't happen.

Does this mean something? Could I be pregnant because my period isn't happening as it usually is? Or am I just having an off month?

you are probably just having an off months. even if you had anything on your fingers and touched yourself, or if he had anything on his, there's about a 5% chance of being pregnant. and since you said you're almost sure there was nothing on your fingers, that lowers YOUR chances to about 1%. now if you keep worrying missy, your period will play tricks on you and be late. as weird as that sounds, it's true. it goes by your moods. so stop worrying!! because there is such a slim chance you're pregnant, it'd be ridiculous to get worked up over this. next time, just be DEFINITELY sure there's nothing on your fingers so you don't have to worry =] ♥

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omg i love how some people pose on their pictures on myspace like some people only have half their face on the picture and some people like pose looking up like they were holding the camera above their head and they take a whole body picture that shows their shoes. They're really cute pics and i was wondering how some people do that. One of my friends on myspace has a picture of her hugging her legs or something like that and she's looking down on the camera. So did she put the camera on the floor and took the picture? I mean they're sooo cute and i wannt know how they took a picture with those poses. Thanks

well if you want to take one with just half of your face, take a picture of yourself, but only take half of your face? lol it's really common sense that i can't explain. or just crop one half of your face out i guess?.

if you want a whole body shot with your shoes in it too, then stand straight and tall, hold the camera high above your head, and take the pic.

if you want one like your friends, then sit how you want the picture to come out, hold the camera from wherever you want the pic to be taken from, and snap the picture! or you can use a timer if you want both your hands in the picture. good luck!

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