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Belly Button Piercing...
Hi. I really want my belly button pierced. Just my mom won't let me. I'm 14, and have 2 holes in my ears and a cartaledge. My boyfriend is getting his eyebrow pierced this weekend by his friend that does piercings professionally. He is the best in my state. I'm going with him, but I want to get my belly button done too.
Any ideas on how to talk my mom into it?
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if your absolutly sure that you want to get this done then sit down with your mom and just talk about it like adults! i think that if you want it done and you explain to her how much and why she might consider it. it would also be a good idea to maybe make an agreement. try it and see what happenes
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Hey,
iv got the exact same problem and im glad i dont have mine peirced. I just got out of surgery and the actually had to cut open my belly botton. they told me if i hve had it peirced it could have killed me so im waiting til im older not much older but atleast a year or two so my body has time to grow and so i can become a healthy young lady than im going to have it peirced and i sugest u wait to.
sleepiesheep
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welllll firstly, you need to figure out why she's objecting to it.....
if its because she doens't wanna pay,
tell her you'll pay for it.
if she doesn't think you're responsible,
prove to her that you are.
if she doesn't think you'll clean it and take care of it,
again- prove to her that you are
or what my friend usually does, that ALWAYS works.. is she write a report to her mom about why she should be able to. include thing like you're responsible, you'll take care of it, you deserve it, and also tell her how good the guy is.. maybe show her his degree if he has one. =] goodluck,**
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the basic idea is to tell your mom what she wants to hear.
you need to tell her that;
-you will clean your piercing and take care of it
-its your responsabilty and if something happens its not your moms fault.
-if something does happen [infection ect.] that you will tell her and not hide it. (parentslovethatstuff)
now if she lets you get it done. you have to follow through with the above responses or next time you want something done she wont let you.
you shouldnt use excuses like;
-but mom all my friends have it done
-mom its my body.
both of these responses will lead to a fast remark that you are her daughter.
good luck!
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